shepixie69
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I was just wondering what kinds of different D/s relationships are out there...
What is your D/s relationship?
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SierraMoon
Being me
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my Sir and i have a Dominant/sub relationship. Right now it is a LDR one tho... we have spent time together in person, but it isn't all the time...... yet..
dragonlace
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Our relationship is Master/slave however its a long distance one so far. I hope soon for it to be 24/7, when i move down there, which will be more all consuming for us both and more satisfying
catalina_francisco
Happily insatiable always
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Definately 24/7 Master/slave for us, and one week to our first wedding anniversary....yah!!
Catalina
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WriterDom said:
Yes, it is. And don't waste your time reading the entire collection of Gor novels. I think there is something like 23 - 25, and are poorly written. If you get your hands on the first one, "Tarnsman of Gor," that will give as much information as you need to understand terminology.
That is, if you really want to.
Daddyslilpet
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We are Master/slave, 24/7 and also married for the past 15 years.
catalina_francisco
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Bump?
TNRkitect2b
Sir Brian
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Master/slave, though not 24/7.... yet.
sommerfugl
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24/7 Master/slave and engaged.
kitty4ever
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ethereal~minx
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my-my, what am I going to say...
it's amazing really, there are times when I feel like I've just eclipsed the moon or skipped a dimension because the learning is so fast~ tears are welling
Dominant/submissive
dominant/dominant
sub/sub
*laughing* it is nature, it is not "traditional" or "formal" or labeled like this.. it just is what it is~
we are friends~ equals... (or that's what I'm learning to be--equal)
the power moves back & forth between us~ our weaknesses are shown & turned to strength, it's all so ----it happens & I don't realize it until I look back ---it's soooo beautiful to see thaat lesson, thaat intent in the pain you thought you were given...
this friendship is D/s~ I'm pretty sure we're in a constant power exchange-- our poles are bing-bing-binging back & forth all the time
it's amazing really, there are times when I feel like I've just eclipsed the moon or skipped a dimension because the learning is so fast~ tears are welling
Dominant/submissive
dominant/dominant
sub/sub
*laughing* it is nature, it is not "traditional" or "formal" or labeled like this.. it just is what it is~
we are friends~ equals... (or that's what I'm learning to be--equal)
the power moves back & forth between us~ our weaknesses are shown & turned to strength, it's all so ----it happens & I don't realize it until I look back ---it's soooo beautiful to see thaat lesson, thaat intent in the pain you thought you were given...
this friendship is D/s~ I'm pretty sure we're in a constant power exchange-- our poles are bing-bing-binging back & forth all the time
MissTaken
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Cool post, minx.
Yes, the power exchange can run on it's own dynamic.
For us, much like kitty, we entered into BDSM with the understanding that the BDSM enhances our relationship, but isn't the hub of the relationship. However, I cannot say it is restricted to the bedroom. I am "the boss" in all things with the exception of areas concerning his business, children, etc. I choose when to exert my Dominance. After all, I could be supervising teethbrushing, but who wants to take it that far?
Yes, the power exchange can run on it's own dynamic.
For us, much like kitty, we entered into BDSM with the understanding that the BDSM enhances our relationship, but isn't the hub of the relationship. However, I cannot say it is restricted to the bedroom. I am "the boss" in all things with the exception of areas concerning his business, children, etc. I choose when to exert my Dominance. After all, I could be supervising teethbrushing, but who wants to take it that far?
SweetDommes
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Because there are three of us right now, and hopefully soon to be four (we have a second boy invited right now, as soon as his mom is doing ok after her surgery, he'll be here), we don't quite fit into anything but the "other" catagory. It is a dominants/submissive(s) relationship, but it has aspects of pretty much everything except the Gor - mostly because both dominants are female & we aren't about to submit to anyone, no matter who he thinks he is - 'free citizen' or not (we've had issues with this topic recently - for those of you who are Gorean, I don't intend to offend, we're just tired of a couple who think that their way is the only way *sigh*).
We have aspects of gfs/bf(s), Mistresses/slave(s), Owners/pet(s), etc.
We have aspects of gfs/bf(s), Mistresses/slave(s), Owners/pet(s), etc.
catalina_francisco
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SweetDommes said:
Sounds great to me.....certainly should never be boring!!
Catalina
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I've had both traditional bdsm Master/slave and Gorean/kajira as well. Previous Master was Gorean and current is not.
Vixandra
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I'm the dominant one in the relationship on most aspects (except the car- don't understand rotory engines )
In bed- we're not done till I'm happy (unless he's exhausted)
Out of bed- about a 55/45 share of "who's in charge."
Going on two years in April and happy as a proverbial clam.
)In bed- we're not done till I'm happy (unless he's exhausted)
Out of bed- about a 55/45 share of "who's in charge."
Going on two years in April and happy as a proverbial clam.
SweetDommes
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catalina_francisco said:Sounds great to me.....certainly should never be boring!!
Catalina
*giggles* of course it's not ... there is always something new to add to the mix.
susieslave
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I need help on this issue. 6 months ago I started to see someone and he introduced me to light bdsm. He was my mastyer and I his slave. As time went on we experimented together and tried new things. It started out as a casual sexual relationship and that was fine at the time. In the last 2 months we started seeing more of each other and some things he said and did made me think things were progressing in the relationship. I started to fall in love with him. Last weekend I question him on where we were at and he said we had a sexual platonic friendship. He said he considered me a friend and nothing more. I have given alot of myself to him and he has said I'm the best he has ever had (I am very oral). I am very loving, giving, faithful, never bitchy, and he has told me I am pretty and of course great sexually. So I asked him what was the problem. He said something was missing. He said if he had started seeing me before his last girlfriend (he was totally in love with her, but she had issues and cheated on him then left him for a much younger guy) things would have been different between us. So last Saturday I told him I could not be in a one way relationship again ( I just got out of a 5 yr one way thing). I kissed him and walked out. Did I do the right thing? Should there be more than just friendship between master and slave? I'm afraid I won't find anyone who will be able to satisfy me sexually. I've read some of the responses and see that alot of master/slave relationships are either married or engaged. Please respond soon I need advice!
Susie Slave
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