How many dirty fantasies have you revealed in your relationship(s)?

[LittleGreene]

Probably not

Probably true, and that’s perfectly fine. Imagination is a beautiful thing.

 

[doesntlookthetype]

I've developed a terrible pee and anal fetish

that's not a terrible fetish at all, quite the opposite in fact

 

[Samantha47]

I'm glad

 

[KinkStevens]

And how much is exactly left that you keep hidden away? Do you think D/s leads to more openness and honesty, or is that just delusional hubris? Do submissives or dominants worry less about scaring their partner away compared to vanilla couples?

I keep most of it hidden with my current. I found her general limits so I know to tread lightly beyond that point. There are things she’d likely never be comfortable with like gbs, and cuckolding.

 

[Bigal337]

My wife knows of ALL my fucked up fantasies. She has quite a few herself!

I've always wondered about my wifes fantasies? We never talk about them. I just masturbate thinking about them!

 

[KindredFlame]

I share every fantasy however in most cases they are no longer fantasies. Mile high club on a commercial flight.

 

[G00d91rl]

None of it. Because everytime he noticed something about what I liked when we were having sex, he would make me feel ashamed about it. It's hard to keep everything hidden in a 12 year relationship.

 

[Solsurfer]

None of it. Because everytime he noticed something about what I liked when we were having sex, he would make me feel ashamed about it. It's hard to keep everything hidden in a 12 year relationship.

I feel that. I’ve told my wife one or two and she’ll act like I’m weird or inappropriate for thinking that way. So I don’t share any more.

 

[Catepillar_glacier]

I feel that. I’ve told my wife one or two and she’ll act like I’m weird or inappropriate for thinking that way. So I don’t share any more.

Same. I’ve shared one and it didn’t go over well. Okey-dokey.

 

[Solsurfer]

Yep. That gets awkward. Lol!

 

[G00d91rl]

I feel that. I’ve told my wife one or two and she’ll act like I’m weird or inappropriate for thinking that way. So I don’t share any more

I feel that. I’ve told my wife one or two and she’ll act like I’m weird or inappropriate for thinking that way. So I don’t share any more.

It's terrible. It's okay to not agree with everything but shaming you for being different is unacceptable. Nobody is wired the same.

 

[Statius]

It's terrible. It's okay to not agree with everything but shaming you for being different is unacceptable. Nobody is wired the same.

That's why there's LitE. No shaming here. Find your people and let it out.

Peace.

 

[Solsurfer]

It's terrible. It's okay to not agree with everything but shaming you for being different is unacceptable. Nobody is wired the same.

Thank you for your kind words.

 

[Cuteapplepie]

Some dirty fantasies are just so dirty that you have to keep them to yourself.

As long as nobody is hurt, everything is concent, limits are respected and there is nothing illegal, it shouldn't be a problem although, maybe it isn't going to be easy to share

 

[doesntlookthetype]

None of it. Because everytime he noticed something about what I liked when we were having sex, he would make me feel ashamed about it. It's hard to keep everything hidden in a 12 year relationship.

I know how you feel.
There is so much I have to keep hidden because my wife is stuck in her ways, views sex as a household chore (which means its rare as even the ironing takes a greater priority) and will consider objectively any of the wonderful things that are possible sexually.
I don't think we'll be together for too much longer as it's stifling and I crave freedom of expression and choice

 

[HotwifeBrooksideKC]

Not nearly enough- we’ve plateaued it seems

 

[LisaMayTurner]

All except for the one with the ice cream van and the motorbike gang from Sheffield at midnight while I'm alone in the middle of a woodland carpark serving 99s with double flakes stuffed in. Nobody know that one. I'd never tell anyone that one.

 

[OralDave]

All except for the one with the ice cream van and the motorbike gang from Sheffield at midnight while I'm alone in the middle of a woodland carpark serving 99s with double flakes stuffed in. Nobody know that one. I'd never tell anyone that one.

No, I don't think you would. Do you end up being coated with ice cream? I must ask. I've had a craving the last few days. I hope it was butter pecan.

 

[eroticspank]

Sometimes it is hard to translate a fantasy into words because there are a lot of feelings that go along with the scene or picture in your head. You can show your partner a video or hand them a story of your fantasy, but they may have no idea what excites you in the scene. If you tell your partner what got you excited, be prepared to explain why. You may not know why, but it is a good first step.
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