What is the key to unlocking your heart?

[Johnny Mayberry]

My heart is open most of the time...it is up to the people I let in to keep it open.

 

[Kalypso]

My heart is open most of the time...it is up to the people I let in to keep it open.

That is a very interesting POV.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

That is a very interesting POV.

Just who I am...I don't keep people out, but they have to treat me right to hold a place in my heart.

 

[Kalypso]

I never know what makes me love until I've fallen... there are so many wonderful combinations of characteristics in various people, that, when thrown together, make a person beautiful/intriguing/tempting to me.

The people that I have loved have all been very different... and I'm happy for that...

Very good outlook and one I share with you.

I have found that my capacity to love is beyond that which I ever thought possible. I never believed I had it in me to give up my heart, mind, and soul to join with another in love. I always held a greater part of myself back. I never knew why until now. I understand a great deal more of myself, what I want, need and am willing to give in return. It is truly amazing what love will do to and for someone who is open and ready for it.

 

[Cleopatra]

I really don't know anymore.

Hmmm.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

the Repo man took it when the bitch left...hey, that'd make a great country song!

 

[LadyG]

Only if she took the truck, the dog and the shotgun, BBW

 

[Kalypso]

Just who I am...I don't keep people out, but they have to treat me right to hold a place in my heart.

I missed this earlier.

I couldn't agree more!

 

[Kalypso]

I really don't know anymore.

Hmmm.

Hey stranger! Good to see you!

 

[Cleopatra]

Hey stranger! Good to see you!

Hugs Kaly! Nice av... *grin*

 

[watergirl]

well...

I can't answer this right now.

But is a subject that has been on my mind a LOT lately.

What makes me fall for a guy... is a quality that seems incredibly rare, and to most people, is a low priority.

 

[zipman]

Is there a key that will unlock your heart?

For me it is a fantastic mind tempting thoughts to run rampant while having thoroughly engaging discussions, a terrific sense of humor making me laugh out loud (snort even), a smooth sensual voice caressing me with every vocalization, a body that calls to mine arousing sensations with mere suggestions, a strength of character that speaks volumes to who this individual is and continues to become...someone who adores me and shows it continously...hmmm...I know there is more...

Oh, someone who can cook...definitely...I need someone who can satisfy my appetite.


So what is the key to unlocking your heart?

I think a few nude pics of you would just about do it!


Seriously though, it someone who with intelligence, a positive attitude, loves to laugh, compassionate, sensual and kinky, attractive and who feels comfortable communicating honestly about their feelings.

 

[MsSpellChecker]

Romance. Something so simple but yet hardly ever mastered. But then again the lock is probably rusted shut by now.

 

[LadyAura]

Trust, Kindness, Faithfulness, Commitment, Honesty, Love,

 

[Kalypso]

Re: well...

I can't answer this right now.

But is a subject that has been on my mind a LOT lately.

What makes me fall for a guy... is a quality that seems incredibly rare, and to most people, is a low priority.

I am rather curious to know what this quality might be!

Hugs Kaly! Nice av... *grin*

Thanks hun...when I turn mine back on I will have to check yours out! Hugs back at ya!

 

[Kalypso]

Re: Re: What is the key to unlocking your heart?

I think a few nude pics of you would just about do it!


Seriously though, it someone who with intelligence, a positive attitude, loves to laugh, compassionate, sensual and kinky, attractive and who feels comfortable communicating honestly about their feelings.

LMAO what you see is what you get Zip!!


I hear where your coming from there hun. I truly do!

 

[Kalypso]

Romance. Something so simple but yet hardly ever mastered. But then again the lock is probably rusted shut by now.

I've learned to keep mine WELLLLLLLLLLLL lubricated! Naturally!

 

[Kalypso]

Trust, Kindness, Faithfulness, Commitment, Honesty, Love,

All very important keys!!!!

 

[watergirl]

Well... I don't go falling for just anyone -

<SNIP>


Oh, my. This has been quite the serious introspective post for me. How rare. I'm not sure I want to post all this.

Edited - because I don't really want to be this open with all of you forever.

 

[Kalypso]

Oh, my. This has been quite the serious introspective post for me. How rare. I'm not sure I want to post all this.

I read it...didn't quote all of it if you want to edit. I think it is a very good post. I totally understand where you are coming from. Not odd at all. I'm quite impressed that you know what you want in a partner so unequivocally. It is impressive. It took me a long time to get to this point. I know now what I want. It is a good thing when you get to that point. I thank you for sharing it watergirl.

I understand the passion for something...for me it is a man who has a passion for his family whether it is his children if he is divorced or his parents and if he has them his siblings. I appreciate that immensely. It shows me how he will treat the ones he loves and is loyal to.

 

[watergirl]

Thanks, Kalypso -

But, I feel like I've missed out on some really good relationships that might have been - all because of this one thing I want, the passion for work. I can forsee it happening again (Graceless Foresight, yep yep - I see it coming, it's gonna suck, and then it happens anyway, but usually it's just my own physical clumsiness) and I don't want it to - but don't know what has to change in order to me to fall for someone...

Does that make sense? I know that falling for someone can be gradual, and happen over time, and one day you might wake up and realize that you've got something amazing - but I'm just feeling very emotionally distant from people lately - my family, my friends... I'm not depressed or unhappy - just - distant. What the hell is up with that? Has anyone around here felt that way? What changed it for you?

 

[Kalypso]

Does that make sense? I know that falling for someone can be gradual, and happen over time, and one day you might wake up and realize that you've got something amazing - but I'm just feeling very emotionally distant from people lately - my family, my friends... I'm not depressed or unhappy - just - distant. What the hell is up with that? Has anyone around here felt that way? What changed it for you?

Not sure what is up for you. But I do understand completely what you mean. I go through phases of being distant. I know of another pisces very similar to this.

I usually need time to assimilate all that is going on in my life and I come across cold and distant. Especially if I'm involved with someone. I have an overwhelming need to understand everything that is coming at me. Most of the time I can go with the flow but there are times when thinking overwhelms me. So that distance for me is a thinking time and a time to get back to me. I tend to focus on other people so much that I forget about me.

While I want someone in my life I can give all of myself to...I want someone who will focus on me too...while I'm focusing on them.

It happens.

 

[watergirl]

Kalypso, you rule. Thank you... that is how I've been feeling... and I should also get more sleep than I've been having. Sometimes it feels like, once in a while - people here at lit understand me better than anyone in my life.

 

[Kalypso]

LoL...thanks sweets...agreed on the sleep thing. I have not had a good night's sleep in well over a week now. But that happens.

I agree that the perspective here can sometimes be very helpful. Depends on the point of view though.

 

[TheOlderGuy]

Not sure what is up for you. But I do understand completely what you mean. I go through phases of being distant. I know of another pisces very similar to this.

I usually need time to assimilate all that is going on in my life and I come across cold and distant. Especially if I'm involved with someone. I have an overwhelming need to understand everything that is coming at me. Most of the time I can go with the flow but there are times when thinking overwhelms me. So that distance for me is a thinking time and a time to get back to me. I tend to focus on other people so much that I forget about me.

While I want someone in my life I can give all of myself to...I want someone who will focus on me too...while I'm focusing on them.

It happens.

YOU
are a rare and precious creature
and it's not easy being a pisces