What is the key to unlocking your heart?

[Prince Romeo]

Is there a key that will unlock your heart?

For me it is a fantastic mind tempting thoughts to run rampant while having thoroughly engaging discussions, a terrific sense of humor making me laugh out loud (snort even), a smooth sensual voice caressing me with every vocalization, a body that calls to mine arousing sensations with mere suggestions, a strength of character that speaks volumes to who this individual is and continues to become...someone who adores me and shows it continously...hmmm...I know there is more...

Oh, someone who can cook...definitely...I need someone who can satisfy my appetite.


So what is the key to unlocking your heart?

So here are some simple questions back:

How you ever found the key that fit that lock and what did you do with it? Did you keep it safe? Did you keep it from getting tarnished?

 

[Kalypso]

Re: Re: What is the key to unlocking your heart?

So here are some simple questions back:

How you ever found the key that fit that lock and what did you do with it? Did you keep it safe? Did you keep it from getting tarnished?

I found a key that fit the lock and it was opened...flung wide open. Keep it safe? I am not sure that was even an option. It was not my key to keep. In a sense it got tarnished but my heart was opened and though I no longer have the key...I have the love that filled my heart...and my heart is no longer locked away.

Hows them apples?

 

[Guest]

I threw that key into the Truckee River about 2 years ago.

 

[Prince Romeo]

Re: Re: Re: What is the key to unlocking your heart?

I see. But I'm also confused. Your heart has been opened up. But does that mean others can access it now or only those that hold a simlar key?

I found a key that fit the lock and it was opened...flung wide open. Keep it safe? I am not sure that was even an option. It was not my key to keep. In a sense it got tarnished but my heart was opened and though I no longer have the key...I have the love that filled my heart...and my heart is no longer locked away.

Hows them apples?

 

[Kalypso]

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I see. But I'm also confused. Your heart has been opened up. But does that mean others can access it now or only those that hold a simlar key?

Others can access it but they do have to possess a similar key. Though the other one opened it...it was not the true key...more like a skeleton key. It opened it but all the teeth were missing.

And quite frankly I am not sorry my heart was opened. I am only sorry it was locked away for so long. I am grateful for that tumbling. More than anyone knows.

 

[curious2c]

It would require some WD40 and patience now. MIne has been lock up for so long now...heh...even I can't unlock the damn thing.

 

[espressolover]

Lol!
Oh yeah, it would definitely be the "oh baby yeah, right there" key!

If not to my heart, at least to my thighs!


I'm happy you found someone with the key to open your heart. I guess there is hope for the rest of us!

 

[Kalypso]

LoL...I had someone who had the key to my heart...like I said it opened it but the key wasn't a true fit.

Now I might settle on the one that opens my thighs...sheesh...full moon and lack of sex and a high insatiable sex drive is a fucking killer.

One thing I will tell you is that there is always hope for finding the key. Of that I have no doubt and absolute complete faith.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

The key to unlocking my heart?

Sensuality, compassion, imagination, and depth.

I'd go into detail, but I have already been chastised once about long, drawn out posts... though I wish I could!

 

[Kalypso]

The key to unlocking my heart?

Sensuality, compassion, imagination, and depth.

I'd go into detail, but I have already been chastised once about long, drawn out posts... though I wish I could!

Personally I don't give a rats ass who chastised you about long drawn out posts. Post whatever the fuck you want to post and if someone is giving you a hard time let me know. What a bunch of bull shit when people start giving you a tough time for your opinion. Tell them Kalypso told you to have them bite her ass!

Please go into detail...I prefer it with my questions. I started this thread. Frankly I wouldn't ask if I didn't want to know.

To hell with the pissy people really.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

Kalypso: Okay, I'll give it a whirl! And thank you so much for the encouragement

My heart was unlocked by a woman who was everything I wanted in a person, and even more. She was, and still is, a spiritual workout partner for me, and many other things, too.

This woman that unlocked my heart, was the kind of person who truly eschewed stepping on others' feelings. She would never manipulate someone, or deliver emotional low blows. Not even people who mess with her. She understood that insecurities are inevitable, and that for the most part, they are based upon a well earned distrust of one's social environment. She always approaches people's insecurities by showing them that there is someone they can trust, and you know what.. around her, I noticed that people who had a lot of visible insecurities, would relax and be open with her. She can caress and soothe you on a spiritual and emotional level, and bring people out of their shell.

She is also a hell of a lover, too. She always thinks of strange and wild ways to make a guy happy. It's unbelievable all the little things she does. We have all sorts of nice little fantasies that we are comfortable telling each other, and acting out. She can even be a loving Domme or a faithful sub (although we ain't into the flogging stuff) at times.

She's also a very deep thinker, and she keeps talking down her own intelligence, but she never realizes that her wisdom is not in crunching numbers (although her credit rating is second only to Jesus, so she's gotta have some good accounting skills!), it is in how well she empathizes with and understands people. She's just gotten into poetry and writing, and she is doing very well with that in school. (I hope she will get published one day.) She doesn't consider any idea too far out - even some that spook me! She always seems to understand that even the craziest ideas can come from rational minds that have spent sufficient time analyzing the world we live in.

And we are always uplifting each other. We give each other intellectual challenges, not to tear one another down, but to keep our minds thinking. We often collaborate on these things, far more than we oppose each other.

Unfortunately, she's married to a husband who, as I heard him put it, cannot deal with her depth. They also have kids who are constantly in and out of the hospital, and she has to be there for them, since he absolutely won't. Which is why she hasn't left this guy.

What are my chances of running into someone like that again? Not much. She's a late-era baby boomer. I'll probably never see that kind of soul in my own generation (X).

Ever since I was a kid I wished I was a baby boomer, and this has only solidified that with me.

But I wait again, because that's the only choice I have. Wait, or give up hope.

Now that I have met this kind of person, and I know that at least one such soul exists, I realize that my beliefs, and what I want in a woman, isn't insane, and that even if that kind of person became extinct with the passing of the flower child generation, they did exist, and I can't go back to the culture that I ran away from.

It's all about keeping your soul, ya know. And maybe, there is an outside chance that if I keep my soul, a single woman who still wants kids (I really do want to be a father), will come and unlock my heart again.

 

[Kalypso]

That was one of THE most amazing posts I've read here. So heartfelt and showed the depth of your love for her and the depths you've reached into yourself to acknowledge such things as you mentioned.

I for one thank you for posting that. I am impressed that a man can articulate his feelings so intensely (no offense to any who have held back here I do note that it is not always the case that you feel comfortable or have the time to post all that you want to say or feel). It is not so much the articulating but the understanding you have of her and the person she is that impressed me.

You are a very interesting person. You will no doubt find the one who will have that key. Even if you don't find quite "the" fit...you will get a lot out of the relationships you do have. Enjoy hun!

 

[Le Jacquelope]

Actually, I did not know if I would be able to express my feelings so well. I've been bottled up for sooooo many years without ever putting my thoughts on paper or on anything, that when it finally came time to speak up, I felt like a mute... then whammo! It came out.. sorta.

You oughta see me when I get back into my writing habit

 

[Kalypso]

You oughta see me when I get back into my writing habit

I think I'm going to look forward to this very very much.

 

[Le Jacquelope]

Oh I hope so... I won't say anymore until my first erotica story is finished

 

[TheOlderGuy]

just a theory based on my own experiences

but i think that we must unlock
and open our hearts
before we have a chance of
recognizing our soulmate
should we meet same

we tend not to attract very nice people
when we travel around with our armor on

 

[Kalypso]

Re: just a theory based on my own experiences

...we tend not to attract very nice people
when we travel around with our armor on

how interestingly put! I truly have to agree with you. Once that armor is removed...your key has been found.

 

[TheOlderGuy]

Re: Re: just a theory based on my own experiences

how interestingly put! I truly have to agree with you. Once that armor is removed...your key has been found.

hey, sunshine
always nice to see you

 

[Ms_Lilith]

it's a small, silver charm that my mother used to wear on a charm bracelet. I will give it to the person I decide to spend the rest of my life with.


As for things that people DO or SAY, or behaviours...

My sweetie has unlocked it... and there are others who pried it open a little, and then slammed it shut, so hard there are cracks in the frame.


*sigh* Sorry.

 

[Kalypso]

Why sorry Vixen?

 

[islandman]

Three things: A good heart, a gentle soul and a snuggler.

 

[Kalypso]

Re: Re: Re: just a theory based on my own experiences

hey, sunshine
always nice to see you

You too hun!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Why sorry Vixen?

for being so dark and gloomy. I'm just hurting.

 

[ozraven]

Is there a key that will unlock your heart?

For me it is a fantastic mind tempting thoughts to run rampant while having thoroughly engaging discussions, a terrific sense of humor making me laugh out loud (snort even), a smooth sensual voice caressing me with every vocalization, a body that calls to mine arousing sensations with mere suggestions, a strength of character that speaks volumes to who this individual is and continues to become...someone who adores me and shows it continously...hmmm...I know there is more...

Oh, someone who can cook...definitely...I need someone who can satisfy my appetite.


So what is the key to unlocking your heart?

You need to ask this lady, she has held the keys for quite a while now........
http://www.boomspeed.com/oz_akasha/BW83.jpg

 

[Kalypso]

Don't be sorry Vixen. If this is how you are feeling then don't invalidate them. I'm okay with what you posted...it was honest and forthright. I prefer that at all times.

I wish there was something I could do to help with your pain hun. Just know that others have been where you are...where a door had been opened...and you expected that person who helped open it to walk into the room with you...however they stayed behind...perhaps urged you to go...and you thought they were with you...trust me...the room gets more interesting when you walk through the next door and stop looking back at the one that is closing.