boyvenus4u
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Philosophy in the Bedroom (Part 2)
So, as established in What were Sadists called before Sade? thread... differentiating between sex and kink, whereby sex being understood to be an experience which transcends life and thereby all the shackles that go with it, so as to be a fundamenatlly necessary human act in order to consolidate one's own individuality and freedom as opposed to say... creating some form of alternate hierarchy to that which is enacted on a daily basis, that is to say conforming to accepted social norms, eg. Employer and employee etc... whereby the consenting couple re-enact systems of power opposed to the norm for perhaps acute psychological needs...thereby supporting the ongoing daily system of control where every body has its place, and knows it and must NOT step outside of it- a bit light the Matrix- or woe betide you. Jesus!
SEX CRIME!
Or, escaping that Orwellian hell hole as quick as our ass can....
The cherry on the cake... that is to say THE FLUFF... The stuff you do for diversion, to put a twist to the norm, thereby balancing out the chinks...whereby positions are usually swapped, gal being boy for a while , boy being gal etc etc simply as a form of sexual diversion...Where everything, however absurd it may appear is up for discussion...various games are played... again consolidating the idea of freedom and individuality.
But to define yourself, your very being through any ONE particular form of kink, so as to live one's entire life around it...
I'm sorry, I just find that all too narrowing...to the point of claustrophobia...someone let the air in....can't breath.... need to swim...in the sea...
Boy floats out
(Freedom is a happy Cage, so let's make the bars REAL BIG!)
So, as established in What were Sadists called before Sade? thread... differentiating between sex and kink, whereby sex being understood to be an experience which transcends life and thereby all the shackles that go with it, so as to be a fundamenatlly necessary human act in order to consolidate one's own individuality and freedom as opposed to say... creating some form of alternate hierarchy to that which is enacted on a daily basis, that is to say conforming to accepted social norms, eg. Employer and employee etc... whereby the consenting couple re-enact systems of power opposed to the norm for perhaps acute psychological needs...thereby supporting the ongoing daily system of control where every body has its place, and knows it and must NOT step outside of it- a bit light the Matrix- or woe betide you. Jesus!
SEX CRIME!
Or, escaping that Orwellian hell hole as quick as our ass can....
The cherry on the cake... that is to say THE FLUFF... The stuff you do for diversion, to put a twist to the norm, thereby balancing out the chinks...whereby positions are usually swapped, gal being boy for a while , boy being gal etc etc simply as a form of sexual diversion...Where everything, however absurd it may appear is up for discussion...various games are played... again consolidating the idea of freedom and individuality.
But to define yourself, your very being through any ONE particular form of kink, so as to live one's entire life around it...
I'm sorry, I just find that all too narrowing...to the point of claustrophobia...someone let the air in....can't breath.... need to swim...in the sea...
Boy floats out
(Freedom is a happy Cage, so let's make the bars REAL BIG!)
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