HumpDayHoratio
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I was thinking about this topic and looked for this thread ….. as I’ve posted before, when I met my present, long-term gf she was coming out of a “passionless marriage”. She discovered her then husband had been cheating on her and that was it. She moved out, moved on and started making up for lost time …… her “Kid in a Candy Store” phase. I mean, she was hooking up with a lot of men.
Perhaps it was because we had just met, or I was “competing” for her, or it was just good, new, NSA sex for me, too ….. whatever; I didn’t mind. In fact, she was quite open about the fact that she occassionally needed to be incommunicado for a few days every now & then. No problem. I knew I’d be seeing her again and when we got back together, we’d have some serious, lustful sex.
One thing she shared with me was that at least a couple of these guys had smaller cocks than I and she loved having them fuck her ass. But plead as I might, she would never let me do that to her. Still to this day she won’t even let me try. I did try one time and and she became very upset with me ….. ended THAT session, pronto! ….. but I digress …..
From the outset, I was always intrigued and turned on by the fact notion of her sport-fucking. I just loved the idea of her pursuing and satisfying her carnal desires. And I was only too happy to participate. I would think about the dicks that had been in her pussy as I eagerly licked her to sloppy orgasms. I would watch the lustful look upon her face, in her eyes as I penetrated her and slid my cock in and out of her and imagine all the other cocks she had enjoyed.
Truth is, I think about that to this day, almost every time we have sex. Sometimes I’ll bring it up & we’ll talk about it while we’re fucking. I thrill to the idea that she might be thinking the same thoughts, although she denies having sexual fantasies or thinking of sexual things when we’re fucking (LIAR!!! … LOL!) and says she’s just enjoying how it feels ….
I’ve told her about my desire for her to indulge in and even pursue her fantasies but she won’t, or is reluctant to share them with me. (Yes, I do accept that she may actually be being honest about that, but I rather doubt it ….).
I have gifted her with several massages and at least one of those was with a masseur. Whether male or female, I take pleasure in knowing she is enjoying it and imagine what it could lead to. It doesn’t worry me or make me jealous that she is receiving physical pleasure at the hands of another. In fact, the one male massage I know of, I actually REQUESTED a masseur for her. Later, I asked her if she enjoyed it and she said she did. I teased her about whether she got a Happy Ending and she just rolled her eyes. I asked her if he was handsome or well-built, what he looked like. I asked if she’d noticed whether he got hard during the massage …. She down-played all of my inquiries but later, we did have great sex …. probably initiated by me and the visual fantasy I’D created.
The point is, the idea of HER sexual pleasure is a HUGE turn-on for me. I am certain I am a “Wannabe Stag” and she is my coveted Vixen. Last Christmas I actually bought her a holiday t-shirt with a reindeer image and “Vixen” written on it. I don’t think she’s made the connection ….. yet.I almost bought myself a “stag horns” image shirt, too but stopped short of that! Definitely not ready for the upside down pineapple shirt …..
I am comfortable with that and I know I’m not a “Cuckold” who desires humiliation. I definitely don’t. In fact, one of my fondest desires is to actually find a “Bull” with a smaller cock who might satisfy my desires and her longing for a nice, long ass-fucking. That is why I’d love to watch my gf (not wife) be with another man.
Sorry for the long, drawn-out post …..
The point is, the idea of HER sexual pleasure is a HUGE turn-on for me. I am certain I am a “Wannabe Stag” and she is my coveted Vixen. Last Christmas I actually bought her a holiday t-shirt with a reindeer image and “Vixen” written on it. I don’t think she’s made the connection ….. yet.
I’d like to piggyback off Beachsyrf’s post. Especially the quote I highlighted. HER pleasure. This is what drove it for me. I’ve posted our little sexual renaissance in other threads, so wont focus on it here but when she decided to open up our marriage, what would have been off putting a few years earlier, on closer introspection, I realized it was for her and my feelings changed.
Having said all that, when menopause hit full force and the door slammed shut, she doesn’t pursue the fantasy anymore, and now neither one of us really “get off” to the thought of her being shared now. Not sure what that says, but I circle back to her pleasure. Now that it’s off the table, it’s not a turn on.
