What do you do after sex?

[acer144]

What do you do after sex?
what do you say? In the movies they always manage to fall asleep. funny that is.
Falling asleep is pretty good
Full body massage (for her) is good cos after sex (for the female) the blood stays near the skin surface (esp around erogonous zones) This makes the skin much more sensitive and feels more sensual.
tell her how beautiful she looks right now and that she was the greatest youve ever been with. kiss her thank her for being with you.
talk about her ask her if she wants you to do anything for her. like lick her out or if shes done in that department get her sumthing to eat or something
I like snuggling up & falling asleep together
or Just listening to relaxing music and talking
is suppose to say to the woman a simple Thank you ??
& you? what you do ?

 

[acer144]

sex etiquette

After sex many men, and a few women, drop straight off to sleep. Sometimes this leaves their partner wide awake and wondering what went wrong, or worse, feeling used.

The 'silence of the lads' can leave many women feeling understandably insecure. After sharing such an intimate experience, it's only natural that you want to maintain that closeness through talking, kissing and cuddling. So why do so many guys hit orgasm and then a) roll over b) feign death c) smoke a cigarette or d) order pizza?

One reason why

One explanation lies with the biological changes that a guy goes through after orgasm. Unlike you, he cools off very quickly. His arousal level drops sharply and his heart rate takes a tumble. This is known as the refractory period, something women don't go through in the same way, because women are sometimes able to experience multiple orgasms with very little time to recover in between.

So that accounts for his dramatic switch from stud to slug, but there's no excuse for being thoughtless. If you're feeling a little shut out then you need to let him know, and find a way to connect after sex that's rewarding for you both.

Easing the situation

Just don't raise the subject seconds after he's hit the spot and then the pillow. Talk about it when you're not in bed, at a time when he can discuss the issue without feeling guilty or embarrassed.

Shake up your routine if possible, and avoid only having sex last thing at night. Set your alarm clock a few minutes earlier, and see if this makes a difference.

 

[horny_giraffe]

What do I do--or what am I supposed to do?

I generally babble....blah blah blah blah blah. I think it's the endorphins. I feel like every word that comes out of my mouth has a certain fascination. Better than pot, for me. Pot does nothing for me, but give me some sex and I'm like "Dude! My hand is HUGE!"

I wax poetic. I wax philosophic. Wax on. Wax off.

Except less Karate kid and more Tai Chi--at least that's how it feels. I usually don't fall asleep.

Give me a half hour, and I want more sex, usually. Obviously, I'm not married.

 

[lovechild27]

Me and my s/o give each other rub downs after sex often...then we like to lay there and giggle...sometimes I will ask him really weird questions...

 

[acer144]

sex etiquette