What do all of you in sexless marriages do for sex? What alternatives?

[Abeona1]

Things I do instead of sex:
Read erotica.
Talk to men on lit.
Learn more about my body.
Buy sex toys.
Become familiar with my shower head.
Beg for a cuddle.
Plead for a caress
Somnophilia he knows.
Take advantage when his had a drink.
Tried and tested know exactly what to do my fingers.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Things I do instead of sex:
Read erotica.
Talk to men on lit.
Learn more about my body.
Buy sex toys.
Become familiar with my shower head.
Beg for a cuddle.
Plead for a caress
Somnophilia he knows.
Take advantage when his had a drink.
Tried and tested know exactly what to do my fingers.

Not so sure about "taking advantage when he's had a drink". My cocksucker certainly took advantage of my lowered inhibitions when I'd had a drink or two, but, even in retrospect, I didn't feel like I was being taken advantage of.

And I won't beg or plead. I'm past that.

 

[Sienna62]

Things I do instead of sex:
Read erotica.
Talk to men on lit.
Learn more about my body.
Buy sex toys.
Become familiar with my shower head.
Beg for a cuddle.
Plead for a caress
Somnophilia he knows.
Take advantage when his had a drink.
Tried and tested know exactly what to do my fingers.

Wow.

 

[Britva415]

Im not in a sexless marriage, but if I were I’d address it. If that didn’t work, then I’m cheating. No doubt about it.

People should absolutely address it and not put up with being ignored or gaslighted.

I did address it, and it did work. It's still a sexless marriage but I have extramarital sex with her knowledge and consent.

If addressing it hadn't worked, I'd just leave, not cheat.