What do all of you in sexless marriages do for sex? What alternatives?

[Michael_Keaton]

I've asked myself that too. Most of it has to do with the fact that I created a lot of family turmoil in the past and at my advanced age I don't want to do it again. Life ain't that bad - I just miss the sex and the emotional contact that comes with it.

 

[Michael_Keaton]

So sad........
I've found that great sex is not a cure-all for all of life's difficulties, but it sure helps to relieve the stress of dealing with them!

That pretty well "nailed it"!

 

[OneOldBroad]

I've asked myself that too. Most of it has to do with the fact that I created a lot of family turmoil in the past and at my advanced age I don't want to do it again. Life ain't that bad - I just miss the sex and the emotional contact that comes with it.

It sounds like you have condemned yourself to a life sentence of deprivation to pay for your past mistakes, instead of living the very best life that you can in whatever time is left to you.

 

[Live4themoments]

So sad........
I've found that great sex is not a cure-all for all of life's difficulties, but it sure helps to relieve the stress of dealing with them!

Definitely not a cure all but it does wonders for a person's psyche and the feeling of being wanted and valued.

 

[OneOldBroad]

Definitely not a cure all but it does wonders for a person's psyche and the feeling of being wanted and valued.

Agreed!

 

[Forrest69]

Thank you so much!

I love this soooo much! Now how/where do I place my daily order???

 

[OneOldBroad]

I love this soooo much! Now how/where do I place my daily order???

Right HERE!

 

[OralAllOver]

I ENJOY sucking married

https://rule34.xxx/index.php?page=post&s=view&id=14939023&tags=echodantalian

 

[bmrtex7]

I travel quite a bit so I do hookups (difficult now that I'm out of shape and I hate condoms - yes I use them if I hook up) or watch lots of porn and take care of myself. Sucks. Wife and I have sex maybe once a month. I'm not as interested in her since we've been together for five years and she has become less peaceful. But I love her and the kids. Sounds contradictory but it's true. I don't ever want to leave her.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

try to usey imagination to get turned on and remember prrvious Ex-gf and hookups i had... and then masturbate if my wife is not willing.

 

[Slickflboy07]

I love servicing men who have sexless marriages they fuck so good and are so eager to get their release

So

 

[Kolejdayz]

I think it’s really common for women to have a higher drive than their male partners. It just isn’t talked about much (outside of forums like this). Lots of our thinking about what’s normal is infected with stereotypical ideas about male and female sexuality thay don’t really pan out in real life.

What is also not talked much is all those older couples who bring others in to make them happier sexually

 

[Spicylady22]

I think it’s really common for women to have a higher drive than their male partners. It just isn’t talked about much (outside of forums like this). Lots of our thinking about what’s normal is infected with stereotypical ideas about male and female sexuality thay don’t really pan out in real life.

So true, Polly. There is definitely too much stereotyping around sexuality. It's much more complex and nuanced in real life.

 

[Spicylady22]

What is also not talked much is all those older couples who bring others in to make them happier sexually

I have just been writing a story about that!

 

[Kolejdayz]

I have just been writing a story about that!

What point of view do you take?

 

[docoral]

I think it’s really common for women to have a higher drive than their male partners. It just isn’t talked about much (outside of forums like this). Lots of our thinking about what’s normal is infected with stereotypical ideas about male and female sexuality thay don’t really pan out in real life.

I totally agree! Although my wife very rarely instigated sex it didn't take much to revv her up. I think it was that she didn't want to appear slutish, part of that was her upbringing, taught by her parents in her younger years that sex was dirty. We worked hard on unleashing all that pent up sexual cravings.

 

[docoral]

I think it’s really common for women to have a higher drive than their male partners. It just isn’t talked about much (outside of forums like this). Lots of our thinking about what’s normal is infected with stereotypical ideas about male and female sexuality thay don’t really pan out in real life.

Behind closed doors normal is what two consenting deem as normal. Sex is about fun and pleasure. Behind closed doors societal norms take a back seat.

 

[Kaytee08]

Same here sexless marriage since 2016. So loads of masturbating, or living in my own fantasies. Find things that turn me on or arouses me, like wearing panties or wearing a chasity cage during the day.

 

[vandelayatx]

As others have said, a lot of masturbation and fantasies. I’m also fortunate that while my wife isn’t much interested on sex , she will let me gave my way without complaint on occasion