What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[AmberLGreen]

I understand....but this is what I have found as well...

Her: I don't want that kind of relationship...I just want friends I can talk too.
Me: I can do that

Two weeks later....

Her: I can't believe he treated me that way...I thought i was special?
Me: I am sorry....but i thought you said you weren't here for that?
Her:..............silence..........

My experience has been what people should say is that you aren't interested in that with me. Cause when you say that isn't what you are here for....I take that literally. But obviously....that wasn't the truth....so basically....I will be called a predator no matter what I do.

Totally agree with this. You should always be honest.

The whole “nice guy” thing winds me up but the other thing that does is when women say “I don’t want anything serious, I am just here for fun” but then a week later, they are publicly calling him all the names under the sun for not falling in love with them and moving on to another woman.

If people were honest about what they wanted and others could accept that what somebody else wants isn’t necessarily what they want, then it would make the online world so much easier to navigate.

BTW I have never heard anybody refer to you as a predator

 

[barefootgirl69]

I understand....but this is what I have found as well...

Her: I don't want that kind of relationship...I just want friends I can talk too.
Me: I can do that

Two weeks later....

Her: I can't believe he treated me that way...I thought i was special?
Me: I am sorry....but i thought you said you weren't here for that?
Her:..............silence..........

My experience has been what people should say is that you aren't interested in that with me. Cause when you say that isn't what you are here for....I take that literally. But obviously....that wasn't the truth....so basically....I will be called a predator no matter what I do.

I think this is very different than what I've brought up yesterday and continues today.
The point is it's obvious to most people that I'm not interested in anyone but a certain Litster. It's in my profile, as well. To have to say it to someone over and over to only hear "just joking" is disrespectful. It gets old.

 

[snexxer]

"Us"?

Lol.
Sorry im a Brit and a Yorkshire man.
Shown us your tits, would be how we would say, show me your tits, in local vocabulary.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Sure! Whatever the fuck those are!

https://ibb.co/bDG1XHv

 

[jason28053]

https://ibb.co/bDG1XHv

A speedo

 

[AmberLGreen]

Well she should make clear who she was referring to as other may make the assumption it was me.

And I have always respected boundaries

She shouldn’t have to do anything. Do you think that everybody knows you two had an issue with each other. Don’t assume that everybody knows everything that is going on. The fact that she doesn’t name names is because she is being respectful to the person even though they were not respectful to her.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Am I still a predator when I take my teeth out?
I am pretty sure wanting me to smack you with that big floppy dildo for a "massage" was your idea way before I started helping you get your bra off... geez girl we need to work on our communication skills!

Our communication skills are simple. You shut up and do as I tell you

 

[Hornymwtxn]

She shouldn’t have to do anything. Do you think that everybody knows you two had an issue with each other. Don’t assume that everybody knows everything that is going on. The fact that she doesn’t name names is being she is being respectful to the person even though they were not respectful to her.

Excuse me for being concerned her post COULD be smearing someone's reputation with her vague implications.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

"Us"?

He was role playing as Gollum.

 

[Xerxes82]

https://ibb.co/bDG1XHv

Can we all just take a moment to appreciate this spectacular example of the banana hammock that @AmberLGreen has provided.

Did it take you long to find that particular gem, Amber? Or do you keep a personalized stash?

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

Can we all just take a moment to appreciate this spectacular example of the banana hammock that @AmberLGreen has provided.

Did it take you long to find that particular gem, Amber? Or do do you keep a personalized stash?

omg you have no idea how many "things" she has stashed in cavernous places!

 

[AmberLGreen]

Excuse me for being concerned her post COULD be smearing someone's reputation with her vague implications.

Is there any concern that there is somebody out there who is disrespecting her, her partner and their relationship even when they have been told no on numerous occasions?

This isn’t about the person who is disrespecting her, this about her feelings and how uncomfortable they are making her feel.

If they cannot stop harassing her even when she has clearly said no, then they deserve to have their reputation smeared. I would love her to name names but she won’t do that because she is too considerate and knows that a lot of people would give that person a hard time because of the lack of respect and boundaries.

Regardless of whatever issues you have had with her, she isn’t in the wrong here. Sometimes you have to be the bigger person and realise that not everything she posts is about you

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

He was role playing as Gollum.

Like when you call your shank and the block of cheese the "precious"?

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Excuse me for being concerned her post COULD be smearing someone's reputation with her vague implications.

A lot of women here chat and ask each other about men. If someone is a nice guy, we'll say that. If they're not, we'll warn each other.

Someone has to be a real rat to be outed publicly.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Can we all just take a moment to appreciate this spectacular example of the banana hammock that @AmberLGreen has provided.

Did it take you long to find that particular gem, Amber? Or do you keep a personalized stash?

That is what I got last week’s lover to wear when we went out dogging

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Is there any concern that there is somebody out there who is disrespecting her, her partner and their relationship even when they have been told no on numerous occasions?

This isn’t about the person who is disrespecting her, this about her feelings and how uncomfortable they are making her feel.

If they cannot stop harassing her even when she has clearly said no, then they deserve to have their reputation smeared. I would love her to name names but she won’t do that because she is too considerate and knows that a lot of people would give that person a hard time because of the lack of respect and boundaries.

Regardless of whatever issues you have had with her, she isn’t in the wrong here. Sometimes you have to be the bigger person and realise that not everything she posts is about you

Name names or stop with the implications that could harm someone's reputation.
Not a big ask

 

[Spurtulator]

Class is so hard for me

As a guy, I just don’t want to get hard in class

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Someone just wants to fight.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

A lot of women here chat and ask each other about men. If someone is a nice guy, we'll say that. If they're not, we'll warn each other.

Someone has to be a real rat to be outed publicly.

Totally get that but want her to be aware that she could be damaging someone else's reputation and thus name names or stop with the implications

 

[snexxer]

I've written a translation guide for you ladies.

**What a Man Means When he says . .**

I’m hungry – I’m hungry.

I’m tired – I’m tired.

Do you want to go to see a film? – I would like to have sex with you.

Can I take you out to dinner? – I would like to have sex with you.

Can I call you sometime? – I would like to have sex with you.

Would you like to dance? – I would like to have sex with you.

Nice dress! – Nice tits!

You look tense, let me give you a massage – I would like to have sex with you, but first I want you to take your clothes off so I can fondle you.

What’s wrong? – I don’t see why you’re making such a big fucking deal about a bit of a fondle.

What’s wrong? – What meaningless self-inflicted stupid psychological trauma are you going through now?

What’s wrong? – Damn, guess sex is out of the question tonight .

I’m bored – Do you want to have sex or not?

I love you – I want it NOW!

I love you, too – Okay I’ve said it, so can we please have sex NOW!?

Yes, I like what you have done with your hair – I liked it better before.

Yes, I like what you have done with your hair – £30 and it doesn’t look that much different!

Let’s talk – I am trying to impress you by showing you that I am a deep person and maybe then you’d like to have sex with me.

Will you marry me? – I want to make it illegal for you to have sex with other men.

I like that dress better – For fuck’s sake, just buy any dress and let’s go home!

I don’t think that top and that skirt go well together – I am gay.

 

[dkak001]

What the hell just happened in the "PLP Inquires II" thread???

 

[AmberLGreen]

Name names or stop with the implications that could harm someone's reputation.
Not a big ask

Wow! You really took it to heart when she put you on iggy, didn’t you? You don’t need to play the dicktim here, she probably has the longest iggy list on Lit. You are a tiny speck on that list.

Ask yourself something - did you, knowing she was in a very loving relationship, pursue her and not take no for an answer? If not, why would you even think that she was referring to you?

By not naming the person, she is protecting their reputation not smearing it.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Wow! You really took it to heart when she put you on iggy, didn’t you? You don’t need to play the dicktim here, she probably has the longest iggy list on Lit. You are a tiny speck on that list.

Ask yourself something - did you, knowing she was in a very loving relationship, pursue her and not take no for an answer? If not, why would you even think that she was referring to you?

By not naming the person, she is protecting their reputation not smearing it.

Our beef was in public thread quite a long time ago.

I have never pm her and would never pursue someone who is exclusive with another.

And if I could put her in my iggy I would but that isn't an option.

If it was an option none of this would have had to taken place.

All I am pointing out is that her actions COULD implicate an innocent person.

So why protect the person she is implicating at the risk of collateral damage to an innocent person's reputation?

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Wow! You really took it to heart when she put you on iggy, didn’t you? You don’t need to play the dicktim here, she probably has the longest iggy list on Lit. You are a tiny speck on that list.

Ask yourself something - did you, knowing she was in a very loving relationship, pursue her and not take no for an answer? If not, why would you even think that she was referring to you?

By not naming the person, she is protecting their reputation not smearing it.

Oh and I dgaf if I am on her iggy

 

[cheekygirl75]

Our beef was in public thread quite a long time ago.

I have never pm her and would never pursue someone who is exclusive with another.

And if I could put her in my iggy I would but that isn't an option.

If it was an option none of this would have had to taken place.

All I am pointing out is that her actions COULD implicate an innocent person.

So why protect the person she is implicating at the risk of collateral damage to an innocent person's reputation?

As a complete bystander to this conversation, but someone who is reasonably intelligent - I didn’t for a second think you were who she was talking about until you started to make such a big deal of it.

Amber doesn’t agree with you, you don’t agree with Amber. Now would be the point where you should let it go to not tarnish your own reputation as someone who will push and push beyond boundaries.