What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[AmberLGreen]

Dumb question…what’s an iggy?

When you put people on ignore, you have an ignore list or an “iggy”

 

[kinkincguy]

When you put people on ignore, you have an ignore list or an “iggy”

Thanks…makes total sense

 

[jason28053]

Ignore.

Don’t ignore! Answer the question

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Did she make any implication that it was you? Maybe you should stop making assumptions

Well she should make clear who she was referring to as other may make the assumption it was me.

And I have always respected boundaries

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

you are not a “nice guy”, you are a predator

Am I still a predator when I take my teeth out?
I am pretty sure wanting me to smack you with that big floppy dildo for a "massage" was your idea way before I started helping you get your bra off... geez girl we need to work on our communication skills!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I can definitely attest; There are some great guys here on Lit

I might be biased.. But some just are amazing!!

 

[AmberLGreen]

I understand....but this is what I have found as well...

Her: I don't want that kind of relationship...I just want friends I can talk too.
Me: I can do that

Two weeks later....

Her: I can't believe he treated me that way...I thought i was special?
Me: I am sorry....but i thought you said you weren't here for that?
Her:..............silence..........

My experience has been what people should say is that you aren't interested in that with me. Cause when you say that isn't what you are here for....I take that literally. But obviously....that wasn't the truth....so basically....I will be called a predator no matter what I do.

Totally agree with this. You should always be honest.

The whole “nice guy” thing winds me up but the other thing that does is when women say “I don’t want anything serious, I am just here for fun” but then a week later, they are publicly calling him all the names under the sun for not falling in love with them and moving on to another woman.

If people were honest about what they wanted and others could accept that what somebody else wants isn’t necessarily what they want, then it would make the online world so much easier to navigate.

BTW I have never heard anybody refer to you as a predator

 

[barefootgirl69]

I understand....but this is what I have found as well...

Her: I don't want that kind of relationship...I just want friends I can talk too.
Me: I can do that

Two weeks later....

Her: I can't believe he treated me that way...I thought i was special?
Me: I am sorry....but i thought you said you weren't here for that?
Her:..............silence..........

My experience has been what people should say is that you aren't interested in that with me. Cause when you say that isn't what you are here for....I take that literally. But obviously....that wasn't the truth....so basically....I will be called a predator no matter what I do.

I think this is very different than what I've brought up yesterday and continues today.
The point is it's obvious to most people that I'm not interested in anyone but a certain Litster. It's in my profile, as well. To have to say it to someone over and over to only hear "just joking" is disrespectful. It gets old.

 

[snexxer]

"Us"?

Lol.
Sorry im a Brit and a Yorkshire man.
Shown us your tits, would be how we would say, show me your tits, in local vocabulary.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Sure! Whatever the fuck those are!

https://ibb.co/bDG1XHv

 

[jason28053]

https://ibb.co/bDG1XHv

A speedo

 

[AmberLGreen]

Well she should make clear who she was referring to as other may make the assumption it was me.

And I have always respected boundaries

She shouldn’t have to do anything. Do you think that everybody knows you two had an issue with each other. Don’t assume that everybody knows everything that is going on. The fact that she doesn’t name names is because she is being respectful to the person even though they were not respectful to her.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Am I still a predator when I take my teeth out?
I am pretty sure wanting me to smack you with that big floppy dildo for a "massage" was your idea way before I started helping you get your bra off... geez girl we need to work on our communication skills!

Our communication skills are simple. You shut up and do as I tell you

 

[Hornymwtxn]

She shouldn’t have to do anything. Do you think that everybody knows you two had an issue with each other. Don’t assume that everybody knows everything that is going on. The fact that she doesn’t name names is being she is being respectful to the person even though they were not respectful to her.

Excuse me for being concerned her post COULD be smearing someone's reputation with her vague implications.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

"Us"?

He was role playing as Gollum.

 

[Xerxes82]

https://ibb.co/bDG1XHv

Can we all just take a moment to appreciate this spectacular example of the banana hammock that @AmberLGreen has provided.

Did it take you long to find that particular gem, Amber? Or do you keep a personalized stash?

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

Can we all just take a moment to appreciate this spectacular example of the banana hammock that @AmberLGreen has provided.

Did it take you long to find that particular gem, Amber? Or do do you keep a personalized stash?

omg you have no idea how many "things" she has stashed in cavernous places!

 

[AmberLGreen]

Excuse me for being concerned her post COULD be smearing someone's reputation with her vague implications.

Is there any concern that there is somebody out there who is disrespecting her, her partner and their relationship even when they have been told no on numerous occasions?

This isn’t about the person who is disrespecting her, this about her feelings and how uncomfortable they are making her feel.

If they cannot stop harassing her even when she has clearly said no, then they deserve to have their reputation smeared. I would love her to name names but she won’t do that because she is too considerate and knows that a lot of people would give that person a hard time because of the lack of respect and boundaries.

Regardless of whatever issues you have had with her, she isn’t in the wrong here. Sometimes you have to be the bigger person and realise that not everything she posts is about you

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

He was role playing as Gollum.

Like when you call your shank and the block of cheese the "precious"?

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Excuse me for being concerned her post COULD be smearing someone's reputation with her vague implications.

A lot of women here chat and ask each other about men. If someone is a nice guy, we'll say that. If they're not, we'll warn each other.

Someone has to be a real rat to be outed publicly.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Can we all just take a moment to appreciate this spectacular example of the banana hammock that @AmberLGreen has provided.

Did it take you long to find that particular gem, Amber? Or do you keep a personalized stash?

That is what I got last week’s lover to wear when we went out dogging

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Is there any concern that there is somebody out there who is disrespecting her, her partner and their relationship even when they have been told no on numerous occasions?

This isn’t about the person who is disrespecting her, this about her feelings and how uncomfortable they are making her feel.

If they cannot stop harassing her even when she has clearly said no, then they deserve to have their reputation smeared. I would love her to name names but she won’t do that because she is too considerate and knows that a lot of people would give that person a hard time because of the lack of respect and boundaries.

Regardless of whatever issues you have had with her, she isn’t in the wrong here. Sometimes you have to be the bigger person and realise that not everything she posts is about you

Name names or stop with the implications that could harm someone's reputation.
Not a big ask

 

[Spurtulator]

Class is so hard for me

As a guy, I just don’t want to get hard in class

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Someone just wants to fight.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

A lot of women here chat and ask each other about men. If someone is a nice guy, we'll say that. If they're not, we'll warn each other.

Someone has to be a real rat to be outed publicly.

Totally get that but want her to be aware that she could be damaging someone else's reputation and thus name names or stop with the implications