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Tallulah82 said:
I also arse around a lot on the threads and my chatting is *very* limited, however my personal reason is that I know I'm unreliable in my being here or available to converse on a regular occasion that it's just easier to keep everyone at arm's length. I do make it clear as much as I can that I'm not here to 'find' anyone. Yet still, I sometimes end up in an awkward position of being guilt tripped for posting on threads instead of private conversation. I don't know how to be more clear, and I refuse to dampen my style, and so I'll also continue to stick to superficial as a general rule.

And you're absolutely right. It doesn't seem to matter what reasons women have to be here, it isn't as easy for us to be here as it seems, especially when we know what we want. :heart:
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OMG just ask for the dick pics and get it over with! šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£
 
LostHorizon said:
Thatā€™s a great point. Thank you. My guess is there are more people like this, including myself, that get their validation through genuine connection. That approach was learned over time. My post was addressing the people who are concerned with maintaining their popularity or or complaining about the lack of it. The complainers @cheekygirl75 originally mentioned. But youā€™re right, most people get just what they need with a very small circle of friends and no one else would ever know it.

Right, the obsession with ā€œlikesā€ and followers is prioritized over genuine connection. Likes being the only way to measure visibility. There are some who actually prefer getting ā€œlikesā€ to comments for that reason.

And again, this being a sex site screws with that dynamic. In one of the posts earlier someone brought up the ratio of men to women here and how there are 3-4 times more men than women. One of the the things I have always noticed was the different way men approach building their popularity compared to women and how they try to connect with them To many of them itā€™s nothing more than a pure numbers game until they connect with a winning ticket. If the winning ticket is actually a real woman. lol.

Itā€™s simple economics, women here have the comparative advantage. The supply for women is low, the demand is high so they can afford to be choosy. Men on the other hand are in a saturated market. Our value is low so we have to find creative ways to improve our value.

Hence this misguided self imposed need to be popular. It fascinates me.
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BUT

it all comes back to us guys in the retirement facility.

IF we don't kill ourselves doing something stupid before we get there.

Please don't take this hope away from me!!!
 
Ok it seems weā€™ve started the great apple debate here!

I will concede that it depends on how the apple is being consumed as to which apple is best.
Some are better in pies (Granny Smith or honeycrisp), some taste better when dipped in caramel/chocolate (also Granny Smith or golden delicious)
And some by them selves are just the perfect sweet/tart combo (my beloved pink ladies) - these also are fantastic dipped in peanut butter

There, debate settled. You can all thank me however you see fit ;)
 
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