What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I think this is true for some. And then I think how common it is for people to forget there are real people (mostly) behind the user names. And how disposable they can treat each other.

This has something thats been on my mind quite a lot. How easily we treat others as disposable.

There's a larger conversation worldwide that could happen about that but here, I mean how we treat each other. Obviously we cant be close to everyone, that would be logistically impossible and not everyone is a good match for everyone else BUT to see people write others off for a relatively minor transgression or hurt feelings instead of having the uncomfortable but productive conversation AND THEN complain about feeling lonely or on the outside of things.

It bumps me the wrong way sometime. I know there are very good reasons to step away sometimes but I watch people really blowing through other humans like they are napkins sometimes.

 

[Xerxes82]

I am here for you Wanda... you're the only one who has ever signed something for me with her nipples and that means a lot to me,..

Wait, wait. You somehow got on that list? Why are you worried about being on the cool kids list? The list you are already on is waaay better.

I hear, since I obviously am not in the club myself.

I've been relegated to purgatory here on lit with the rest of the degenerates

One of us! One of us!

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

None of us are disposable. We all matter. (well except maybe a few of the alts and scammers)

I can be abrasive, self righteous and outlandish with the shit I say at times but I enjoy interacting with each and everyone of you just as you are. I hope all of you can find your place amongst the rest of us perverts..

Now can we get back to the smurfs, Gandolph , snacks and Wanda auto-pinning her signature with her nipples?

Group hug Bitches!

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

What would Gilgamesh do?

He'd be epic! (prepares for wow reaction)

 

[MrPimms]

Now I’m thinking of Gargamel.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Now I’m thinking of Gargamel.

 

[Abeona1]

I'm thinking you are all too intelligent for me.

 

[Abeona1]

I'm think why my very angry SO blames me for winding him up.
You are responsible for the way you feel.
Why his come home shouting at me for half an hour and then is a sweetness and light. He won't address the problem which for him seems to be me

 

[Sundayschild]

I'm thinking you are all too intelligent for me.

Nott all of us....

 

[Tallulah82]

I think this is true for some. And then I think how common it is for people to forget there are real people (mostly) behind the user names. And how disposable they can treat each other.

I arse around a lot on the threads. But my one on one chatting is very limited. Mainly because of how I know that I tend to trust easily and get hurt/let down hard. So I put up walls. I try occasionally to let people in, and... generally, well. Let's just say that it isnt as easy for women on here as you'd all think.
So. Maybe thats why I tend to stick to the superficial...

But everyone is here for different things. And when those things can align with someone, it can be amazing.

I also arse around a lot on the threads and my chatting is *very* limited, however my personal reason is that I know I'm unreliable in my being here or available to converse on a regular occasion that it's just easier to keep everyone at arm's length. I do make it clear as much as I can that I'm not here to 'find' anyone. Yet still, I sometimes end up in an awkward position of being guilt tripped for posting on threads instead of private conversation. I don't know how to be more clear, and I refuse to dampen my style, and so I'll also continue to stick to superficial as a general rule.

And you're absolutely right. It doesn't seem to matter what reasons women have to be here, it isn't as easy for us to be here as it seems, especially when we know what we want.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I also arse around a lot on the threads and my chatting is *very* limited, however my personal reason is that I know I'm unreliable in my being here or available to converse on a regular occasion that it's just easier to keep everyone at arm's length. I do make it clear as much as I can that I'm not here to 'find' anyone. Yet still, I sometimes end up in an awkward position of being guilt tripped for posting on threads instead of private conversation. I don't know how to be more clear, and I refuse to dampen my style, and so I'll also continue to stick to superficial as a general rule.

And you're absolutely right. It doesn't seem to matter what reasons women have to be here, it isn't as easy for us to be here as it seems, especially when we know what we want.

Especially when what we want doesn't exist.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Fuji apples are supposed to be the sweetest. I think golden delicious are sweeter.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Fuji apples are supposed to be the sweetest. I think golden delicious are sweeter.

Should that be in the controversial opinion thread?

(But agreed)

 

[LostHorizon]

Fuji apples are supposed to be the sweetest. I think golden delicious are sweeter.

Only if they are dipped in chocolate, right @cheekygirl75 ?

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Should that be in the controversial opinion thread?

(But agreed)

I didn't think it was controversial, is it?

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I’ve seen some people here opine that there are a handful of men who get all the women here, at one time or another. I wonder if it’s because of people posting in threads like Have You Chatted or Why Haven’t You PM’d the Poster Above You… but those don’t automatically mean there’s something sexy going on between the posters. It’s possible to have purely platonic messages between men and women - I do it all the time. In fact, assume that anyone I say I’ve chatted with is platonic because you’re most likely right! (With a couple of exceptions - I’m not 100% pure )

Btw, it's ok if you tell people about us.

 

[Sundayschild]

It’s possible to have purely platonic messages between men and women - I do it all the time.

It is?

 

[MissSNG]

Should that be in the controversial opinion thread?

(But agreed)

I didn't think it was controversial, is it?

Definitely controversial… pink ladies are the best!!

 

[Wand3rlust]

Definitely controversial… pink ladies are the best!!

I like Gala ..

 

[MissSNG]

I like Gala ..

You really are a chaos gremlin, aren’t ya?

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

I also arse around a lot on the threads and my chatting is *very* limited, however my personal reason is that I know I'm unreliable in my being here or available to converse on a regular occasion that it's just easier to keep everyone at arm's length. I do make it clear as much as I can that I'm not here to 'find' anyone. Yet still, I sometimes end up in an awkward position of being guilt tripped for posting on threads instead of private conversation. I don't know how to be more clear, and I refuse to dampen my style, and so I'll also continue to stick to superficial as a general rule.

And you're absolutely right. It doesn't seem to matter what reasons women have to be here, it isn't as easy for us to be here as it seems, especially when we know what we want.

OMG just ask for the dick pics and get it over with!

 

[Tallulah82]

OMG just ask for the dick pics and get it over with!

OMG why have I never thought to ask for dick pics?

No-one has EVER seen me ask repeatedly for dick pics on here. EVER.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

Btw, it's ok if you tell people about us.

she did... and sent footage

 

[cheekygirl75]

It is?

Maybe not for you

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Blue cheese sucks ass… well, figuratively not literally anyway.

It literally tastes like sucking ass…

I'll have to take your word for that