What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[EboniMidnite]

I'm thinking it's a two-cup coffee day. Not gonna make any other important decisions until I'm properly caffeinated.

 

[Xerxes82]

What Would Gargamel Do (also a fave, also because of a slightly villainous cat being involved).

Not sure how effective that one is. Unless "kill and eat Smurfs" is on your to do list.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Now I want to come up with all of the different possibilities for WWGD.

What Would Garfield Do (probably my favorite, cause I'd be a sarcastic, lasagna eating cat that sleeps all day if I could as well).

What Would Gargamel Do (also a fave, also because of a slightly villainous cat being involved).

What would Gilgamesh do?

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Not sure how effective that one is. Unless "kill and eat Smurfs" is on your to do list.

Well, if you limit yourself, sure.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

What would Gilgamesh do?

Oooh, which Gilgamesh are we talking? Anime or Mesopotamian king? Or Marvel?

 

[bookworm69]

I spend a considerable amount of time here but not nearly enough to be “popular”. I don’t know how some people do it. We all have different and in many cases deeply personal reasons for coming here. Also popularity has different meanings for different people.

I find the need for popularity among strangers on a sex site peculiar too. But one of the common denominators I have observed is most people, men and women, myself included, need validation. So maybe for many that crosses over into popularity?

There is a certain charge we all get from being the belle of the ball so to speak. There’s nothing wrong with that so long as no one gets hurt. We see the same relationship dynamics in the real world.

Lit is not much different than anywhere else where people come together to meet each other. Bars have the same type of energy. There are regulars who take on the personality of the place, new people trying to fit in and the rest who just stop by for a drink once in a while. What makes this place different is it’s a sex centered site. That’s what draws us all here. So that dynamic is what drives the behavior which is backwards from the real world communities and organizations we engage in.

That’s my observation after coming here for over a decade.

There are many reasons for visiting Lit. Probably as many reasons as there are members. But, we all have one thing in common: we are trying to find something we don't have in real life.

I've also been frequenting this site for many years, leaving and returning, leaving and returning ... at different times, for different reasons. But, I think I return not to be popular (that's something I was never interested in real life), but I think Lost Horizon hit on it. We come here for validation. This site is kind of oxymoronic ... it is a sex site, but how can you have sex with a device? (Okay, okay ... this may be true for some...) But, for the majority, I think we are here to have some kind of human contact ... to find that validating "humanness" that enhances our life outside of Lit.

Yeah, the sexy images and naughty thoughts are an attractive incentive, too.

 

[MrPimms]

What would Gandalf do?

Whimsical statement about how wizards are never late?

Do that meme thing of ‘You shall not pass … exams’ ??

 

[cheekygirl75]

Oooh, which Gilgamesh are we talking? Anime or Mesopotamian king? Or Marvel?

I was thinking the king - I didn’t know there was a Marvel Gilgamesh!

 

[MrPimms]

I was thinking the king - I didn’t know there was a Marvel Gilgamesh!

He has a power fist that looks interesting.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I was thinking the king - I didn’t know there was a Marvel Gilgamesh!

Yep, he's one of the Eternals. Also referred to as The Forgotten One.

 

[TongueLust]

There are many reasons for visiting Lit. Probably as many reasons as there are members. But, we all have one thing in common: we are trying to find something we don't have in real life.

Not necessarily, and the *snip* isn't personal. I stay- because I enjoy posting on my thread.
This may sound weird, but it's actually like meditation for me.

Even with the new rules, it still has a different feel -than other sites.

Everyone in my personal life knows that I'm here.
Unfortunately it clashes with some people who don't have the same freedom, and that is not a dig.

 

[LostHorizon]

Not sure how effective that one is. Unless "kill and eat Smurfs" is on your to do list.

I never understood why he wanted to eat them..

 

[LostHorizon]

Not necessarily, and the *snip* isn't personal. I stay- because I enjoy posting on my thread.
This may sound weird, but it's actually like meditation for me.

Even with the new rules, it still has a different feel -than other sites.

Everyone in my personal life knows that I'm here.
Unfortunately it clashes with some people who don't have the same freedom, and that is not a dig.

You are in the rare minority here. God bless you for it!

 

[LostHorizon]

Now I want to come up with all of the different possibilities for WWGD.

What Would Garfield Do (probably my favorite, cause I'd be a sarcastic, lasagna eating cat that sleeps all day if I could as well).

What Would Gargamel Do (also a fave, also because of a slightly villainous cat being involved).

What Would Gumby Do?

Yes I am old I know.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

What Would Gumby Do?

Yes I am old I know.

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One of my favorite cartoons as a kid!

 

[Wand3rlust]

But, for the majority, I think we are here to have some kind of human contact ... to find that validating "humanness" that enhances our life outside of Lit.

I think this is true for some. And then I think how common it is for people to forget there are real people (mostly) behind the user names. And how disposable they can treat each other.

I arse around a lot on the threads. But my one on one chatting is very limited. Mainly because of how I know that I tend to trust easily and get hurt/let down hard. So I put up walls. I try occasionally to let people in, and... generally, well. Let's just say that it isnt as easy for women on here as you'd all think.
So. Maybe thats why I tend to stick to the superficial...

But everyone is here for different things. And when those things can align with someone, it can be amazing.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I think this is true for some. And then I think how common it is for people to forget there are real people (mostly) behind the user names. And how disposable they can treat each other.

I arse around a lot on the threads. But my one on one chatting is very limited. Mainly because of how I know that I tend to trust easily and get hurt/let down hard. So I put up walls. I try occasionally to let people in, and... generally, well. Let's just say that it isnt as easy for women on here as you'd all think.
So. Maybe thats why I tend to stick to the superficial...

But everyone is here for different things. And when those things can align with someone, it can be amazing.

So, so true.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

So who is it we gotta bribe or threaten to get on this cool kid list up in this fuckin place? AFAF....(I just come here for the titties)

 

[Cthulhu1138]

Let me guess, you want us to use the metric system too?

I happen to agree with you about the 24 hour clock. I like using it to show off my intelligence and confuse people.

I keep trying to use the metric system. It is a challenge for an old sailor to base everything in half fathoms.

24 hours in a day . So just say which one it is

 

[Wand3rlust]

So who is it we gotta bribe or threaten to get on this cool kid list up in this fuckin place? AFAF....(I just cum here for the titties)

FIFY

 

[orangecurious]

sheesh, every post has to be a brag. the ultimate Ms MeME

 

[Cthulhu1138]

I never understood why he wanted to eat them..

I *think* that he thought that they had magical powers that he could obtain by eating them?...

 

[LostHorizon]

I think this is true for some. And then I think how common it is for people to forget there are real people (mostly) behind the user names. And how disposable they can treat each other.

I arse around a lot on the threads. But my one on one chatting is very limited. Mainly because of how I know that I tend to trust easily and get hurt/let down hard. So I put up walls. I try occasionally to let people in, and... generally, well. Let's just say that it isnt as easy for women on here as you'd all think.
So. Maybe thats why I tend to stick to the superficial...

But everyone is here for different things. And when those things can align with someone, it can be amazing.

I know exactly what you mean about protecting yourself. I have been hurt terribly by people. I have met here over the years which is why I am very careful who I open up to and what I choose to share. The first moment I feel
I am being headgamed by someone I cut ties. It’s not worth it.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I think this is true for some. And then I think how common it is for people to forget there are real people (mostly) behind the user names. And how disposable they can treat each other.

I arse around a lot on the threads. But my one on one chatting is very limited. Mainly because of how I know that I tend to trust easily and get hurt/let down hard. So I put up walls. I try occasionally to let people in, and... generally, well. Let's just say that it isnt as easy for women on here as you'd all think.
So. Maybe thats why I tend to stick to the superficial...

But everyone is here for different things. And when those things can align with someone, it can be amazing.

Until it crashes and burns.

 

[LostHorizon]

I *think* that he thought that they had magical powers that he could obtain by eating them?...

I think you’re right. It’s all coming back to me now.