Watching

[mtwain4u]

Who finds "watching" erotic? More specifically, a couple questions
1. What is it that you like watching?
2. Is it more erotic for you if the subject is unaware he/she is being watched, or he/she is aware and is turned on by your presence?

Interested in all points of view but particularly interested in the views of the Lit Ladies.

 

[ivantheterrible]

i like to watch, and it is better if she knows she is being watched. i love a woman who is open and likes being watched being pleasured.

 

[Eric_B]

I have been the watcher as well as the watched both are great fun.
Watching requires a little more restraint than I'm usually capable of delivering.

 

[mtwain4u]

Ladies? Your thoughts?

 

[SJZ76]

1. What is it that you like watching? I love watching a man's fingers sliding over himself. Over his chest, his belly, his thighs, his cock, his balls.... every damn inch.
2. Is it more erotic for you if the subject is unaware he/she is being watched, or he/she is aware and is turned on by your presence? He HAS to be aware of me... preferably watching me as well. Whether it be watching my reaction to his antics or a show all my own, I want his eyes to be on me as well.

 

[mtwain4u]

1. What is it that you like watching? I love watching a man's fingers sliding over himself. Over his chest, his belly, his thighs, his cock, his balls.... every damn inch.
2. Is it more erotic for you if the subject is unaware he/she is being watched, or he/she is aware and is turned on by your presence? He HAS to be aware of me... preferably watching me as well. Whether it be watching my reaction to his antics or a show all my own, I want his eyes to be on me as well.

so, the trick then is when he comes he's not allowed to take his eyes off of you, not even for an instant. He can't close his eyes, look down at his cock or his stream of cum, can't tilt his head back for a second - nothing. He just has to stay through his orgasm with his gaze locked dead on your eyes. Yes or no?

 

[SJZ76]

so, the trick then is when he comes he's not allowed to take his eyes off of you, not even for an instant. He can't close his eyes, look down at his cock or his stream of cum, can't tilt his head back for a second - nothing. He just has to stay through his orgasm with his gaze locked dead on your eyes. Yes or no?

It depends entirely on what the game of the day is... I might tempt him into touching me. I might want him to surrender entirely to the pleasure he's giving himself. I might do just as you suggested. I'm a fickle creature, I suppose.

 

[Rikki_13]

I enjoy watching a guy get off as I am talking to him, explaining some of the things that I would like to be doing to him. Love to watch as his hands slide up and down his cock, rubbing his balls, licking his lips, hearing his breathing getting heavy, watching his eyes close as he cums. I love to hear my name as he cums.

I have had two guys that made me feel sexy and super desirable when on cam, one of which who only watched me. The other we watched each other, but he would watch me cum several times before he would ever cum. Then we would sit there in our messes and still talk. He loved the fact that I was comfortable enough with him that I never felt like I had to run and cover up as soon as we had an orgasm. Rarely does anyone we see me on cam anymore I usually end up watching

 

[mtwain4u]

I have had two guys that made me feel sexy and super desirable when on cam, one of which who only watched me.

How did this set up work and what made you feel so sexy? I mean, if you couldn't see him was he text chatting or using an audio chat to convey to you how darned desirable you are (I used the present tense "are" because, well, you are).

 

[Rikki_13]

How did this set up work and what made you feel so sexy? I mean, if you couldn't see him was he text chatting or using an audio chat to convey to you how darned desirable you are (I used the present tense "are" because, well, you are).

Thank you Twain!!! He didnt have a webcam but would watch me as we talked on the phone. so he would tell me how desirable, sexy, cute I was. How much he loved my mouth, the "looks" I would give him. I would be able to hear him cum and hear him say my name. He would laugh because I would eat honey nut cheerios afterwards and sometimes would grab a blankie to wrap up with on colder nights. We would sit like that for hours talking, him watching me. Got to the point that I would forget that he was watching me until I would hear him gasp and I knew that the blankie had slipped.

 

[mtwain4u]

gimme a bump, one bump only please

 

[SJZ76]

gimme a bump, one bump only please

You should answer your own questions, Twain

 

[Rikki_13]

You should answer your own questions, Twain

I think SJ is right Twain!!! How about you feel us in with your answers to your questions?

 

[mtwain4u]

Thank you Twain!!! He didnt have a webcam but would watch me as we talked on the phone. so he would tell me how desirable, sexy, cute I was. How much he loved my mouth, the "looks" I would give him. I would be able to hear him cum and hear him say my name. He would laugh because I would eat honey nut cheerios afterwards and sometimes would grab a blankie to wrap up with on colder nights. We would sit like that for hours talking, him watching me. Got to the point that I would forget that he was watching me until I would hear him gasp and I knew that the blankie had slipped.

That whole episode is just so wonderfully erotic. And there's nothing wrong with a little blanket slippage,

Thanks for sharing your story. BTW, you have fantastically alluring eyes. Love em!

P.S. just noticed....Happy Birthday

 

[Cinner]

Thank you Twain!!! He didnt have a webcam but would watch me as we talked on the phone. so he would tell me how desirable, sexy, cute I was. How much he loved my mouth, the "looks" I would give him. I would be able to hear him cum and hear him say my name. He would laugh because I would eat honey nut cheerios afterwards and sometimes would grab a blankie to wrap up with on colder nights. We would sit like that for hours talking, him watching me. Got to the point that I would forget that he was watching me until I would hear him gasp and I knew that the blankie had slipped.

This is quite hot, Rikki.

I like watching. I paid to watch a pro at work once. It wasn't what I thought it would be because she was at work and it was obvious that she didn't really care about my friend. She wanted to get him off to protect her reputation of course and because I had paid for her services; but my friend and I agreed that the time that we spent together was hotter than the experience with this woman.

I've also watched someone here on Lit. It wasn't the usual "Do you want to watch me on cam?" that you get from so many men here... and yes, I have watched many of them. Instead we spent the entire day together chatting and laughing and it ended up with me watching him get off thinking about me twice... I've also done this with a friend on Facebook.

 

[mtwain4u]

I think SJ is right Twain!!! How about you feel us in with your answers to your questions?

OK, how can I refuse?

I like watching a woman masturbate. Not the porn show type of mast but a real masturbation session and what initiates it. I'm a sucker for wanting to know what turns women on and what triggers an erotic thought into sexual action. I love watching as a woman is transformed from what might have started as a playful diversion into a wanton, uninhibited satiation of all her urges. When she loses herself in the sensations she's providing; paying no mind to the environment around her - whether that be someone watching on came or in a room.

As to aware or unaware of being watched it doesn't really matter to me except if it interferes with her giving herself to herself. In other words, I don't want a show, I want to share in her experience by her focusing her experience only on herself.

 

[Rikki_13]

This is quite hot, Rikki.

I like watching. I paid to watch a pro at work once. It wasn't what I thought it would be because she was at work and it was obvious that she didn't really care about my friend. She wanted to get him off to protect her reputation of course and because I had paid for her services; but my friend and I agreed that the time that we spent together was hotter than the experience with this woman.

I've also watched someone here on Lit. It wasn't the usual "Do you want to watch me on cam?" that you get from so many men here... and yes, I have watched many of them. Instead we spent the entire day together chatting and laughing and it ended up with me watching him get off thinking about me twice... I've also done this with a friend on Facebook.

Thank you Cinner!!!

I think that is what makes it so great you are so comfortable with them "in and out of bed" so to speak that it makes it more natural and better fro the both of you. The "want to watch me on cam" doesnt hold any appeal for me. I like to watch someone that knows me and is attracted to me that is what gets me off. knowing that the person who is there for me wants me desperately because they really "see" me.

 

[Daniel_Hart]

It is definitely hot to be watched, and I also enjoy watching. Rare experience though, one I have only shared with partners with whom I have had a relationship with.

Making someone come with your voice and words is definitely a very very good thing

 

[Cinner]

Thank you Cinner!!!

I think that is what makes it so great you are so comfortable with them "in and out of bed" so to speak that it makes it more natural and better fro the both of you. The "want to watch me on cam" doesnt hold any appeal for me. I like to watch someone that knows me and is attracted to me that is what gets me off. knowing that the person who is there for me wants me desperately because they really "see" me.

The "want to watch me on cam" does nothing for me either, but I figure that there are many lonely people here so I just give them a chance. With my friends though it is the thrill of me getting him off with my voice and with the inside jokes and references that we can share with each other, and the new things that I discover about him in the process of getting him off because I now really care about him. We are really lovers for those minutes (or hours) that we spend together. It is a mental thing because, let's face it, I haven't laid a finger on him.

 

[ivantheterrible]

I enjoy watching a guy get off as I am talking to him, explaining some of the things that I would like to be doing to him. Love to watch as his hands slide up and down his cock, rubbing his balls, licking his lips, hearing his breathing getting heavy, watching his eyes close as he cums. I love to hear my name as he cums.

I have had two guys that made me feel sexy and super desirable when on cam, one of which who only watched me. The other we watched each other, but he would watch me cum several times before he would ever cum. Then we would sit there in our messes and still talk. He loved the fact that I was comfortable enough with him that I never felt like I had to run and cover up as soon as we had an orgasm. Rarely does anyone we see me on cam anymore I usually end up watching

cool......................

 

[Daniel_Hart]

The "want to watch me on cam" does nothing for me either, but I figure that there are many lonely people here so I just give them a chance. With my friends though it is the thrill of me getting him off with my voice and with the inside jokes and references that we can share with each other, and the new things that I discover about him in the process of getting him off because I now really care about him. We are really lovers for those minutes (or hours) that we spend together. It is a mental thing because, let's face it, I haven't laid a finger on him.

...and how do you keep your finger off him? Do you find that when you are together there is the undercurrent of erotic tension in RL?

 

[Rikki_13]

The "want to watch me on cam" does nothing for me either, but I figure that there are many lonely people here so I just give them a chance. With my friends though it is the thrill of me getting him off with my voice and with the inside jokes and references that we can share with each other, and the new things that I discover about him in the process of getting him off because I now really care about him. We are really lovers for those minutes (or hours) that we spend together. It is a mental thing because, let's face it, I haven't laid a finger on him.

Exactly. There is a type of power in it to that you can say something provocative that can get him off. The look in their eyes as it registers with them what you have said. The little jokes that you share between yourselves that make it more intimate and special than the "wanna watch me on cam" type of play. I like learning what gets others off and how to zero in and make them cum hard every single time we talk. The long drawn out teasing or the super quickies because we each know what the other needs to hear to get them off.

 

[ivantheterrible]

Thank you Cinner!!!

I think that is what makes it so great you are so comfortable with them "in and out of bed" so to speak that it makes it more natural and better fro the both of you. The "want to watch me on cam" doesnt hold any appeal for me. I like to watch someone that knows me and is attracted to me that is what gets me off. knowing that the person who is there for me wants me desperately because they really "see" me.

your mind. the real you. your loves, hopes, dreams, fantasies, and even bad things. and he accepts that.
it doesn't matter if you are a "good" girl or a "bad" one. that one man will accept you as is.

 

[Rikki_13]

your mind. the real you. your loves, hopes, dreams, fantasies, and even bad things. and he accepts that.
it doesn't matter if you are a "good" girl or a "bad" one. that one man will accept you as is.

that is what helps to give you that comfortableness that makes it so hot and interesting. it gives you the confidence to let someone see you at your must vulnerable and intimate. It is not something that I share with just anyone. for me there has to be trust and chemistry there. I want to feel safe with that person, but to also know that he understands my needs sexually and is willing to go the distance to make sure Ia m satisfied.

 

[Daniel_Hart]

Exactly. There is a type of power in it to that you can say something provocative that can get him off. The look in their eyes as it registers with them what you have said. The little jokes that you share between yourselves that make it more intimate and special than the "wanna watch me on cam" type of play. I like learning what gets others off and how to zero in and make them cum hard every single time we talk. The long drawn out teasing or the super quickies because we each know what the other needs to hear to get them off.

I love that...just knowing someone so well you can take them there...slowly or quickly, depending on the mood. And the groan or change in breathing that comes with that slide into fire.