Waking up alone

I just tried to take a short nap...and I couldn't sleep because I felt like there should be "someone" there....and there wasn't...:(
 
Silverluna said:
I just tried to take a short nap...and I couldn't sleep because I felt like there should be "someone" there....and there wasn't...:(

hmmm Can we talk? hehehe
 
I have never been in a 24/7 relationshp where I slept with anyone.

So, I guess it doesn't make a difference to me, but makes for a great fantasy.

(My ex works midnights, so the bed was always mine, alone.)
 
Actually, I'm somewhat of a heater. I don't hog the covers, and snuggle close enough, you wont either.
 
MissTaken said:
I have never been in a 24/7 relationshp where I slept with anyone.

So, I guess it doesn't make a difference to me, but makes for a great fantasy.

(My ex works midnights, so the bed was always mine, alone.)

:-o, that's almost sad. I'm not talking sex, just the pure comfort of drifting off to sleep with someones arms wraped around you . . . waking up in time to watch the serene beauty of her face in repose. *sigh*
 
I'mVan said:
:-o, that's almost sad. I'm not talking sex, just the pure comfort of drifting off to sleep with someones arms wraped around you . . . waking up in time to watch the serene beauty of her face in repose. *sigh*

I will get it right, next time!

:D
 
*yawn* Well I never had a relationship where you sleep with someone all the time...everynight....but I still crave the close cuddleness I imagine would happen....
 
Silverluna said:
*yawn* Well I never had a relationship where you sleep with someone all the time...everynight....but I still crave the close cuddleness I imagine would happen....

Ok how about sometimes sharing the cuddling? hehehe
 
I agree, waking up alone sucks. It just puts a damper on my morning. Normally, when I'm at honey's house, I wake up early, and go about my morning routine, and then crawl in bed with him for a little longer, so he wakes up to me. :) But when I stay at my place.... *sigh*

I just hate that feeling of a cold, empty bed.
 
J.B. said:
eh. it's not so bad.

Good for you. Me, I'd take waking up with someone over going to sleep with them. And going to sleep with them over the emptyness I feel right now.
 
I'mVan said:
Good for you. Me, I'd take waking up with someone over going to sleep with them. And going to sleep with them over the emptyness I feel right now.

Exactly! *sigh* :rose:
 
I think I’m going through a phase right now. All that use to bother me too. Now I’m happy with myself and don’t really have that need for another person.
Sex? Yes, but really need a person to hang on to? Not really.
 
J.B. said:
I think I’m going through a phase right now. All that use to bother me too. Now I’m happy with myself and don’t really have that need for another person.
Sex? Yes, but really need a person to hang on to? Not really.

Sometimes I just crave being touched, held, caressed. That's what I want!
 
that moment when you wake up reaching for them...sweet thoughts of the warmth of their skin as you roll over expectantly... to find only cold covers and a pillow. You snuggle into it anyways hoping to gleen just a bit of their scent to try to imagine yourself holding them....it doesnt work.
 
I've never been a cuddler, I always needed my own space. But now all that has changed. There is nothing like waking up with his eyes on me, and realizing that he has been watching me sleep...and then theres that beautiful moment in which he reaches for me with such desire and love in his eyes.
I have to say, falling asleep with him is rather bittersweet, it's so hard to let go of those waking moments.
 
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