Virgin

[pinsandneedles]

So here is my question: I am a 35 year old woman who has only been involved with women sexually - yes, I am a technical virgin. How should I approach this subject with a man? Is it too weird for words? How do I find a man who is a willing teacher? I am very sexually expereinced with women, but I am not interested in women now in my life. Suggestions? Ideas?

 

[Guest]

Are you looking for a potential relationship with a man, or just a one time thing?

 

[pinsandneedles]

I am looking for a relationship -

 

[Young Knave]

Why the sudden change?

Since most women I know think we're jerks, I have to wonder what has made you decide to try men after being with women so long. Is it just curiousity, or what?

 

[Guest]

I think any man would feel honored that you chose him to be your "first", even at your age. Don't let being a 35 y/o "virgin" get you down or anything. Since you are looking for a relationship, I'd say, take things slowly. There's no harm in looking for a man on the net, too... That's where I met my love.

 

[Cyan BloodsBane]

Uhm... the dragon is still looking for virgins...

 

[pinsandneedles]

I don't think men are jerks. I found women to be really difficult to be with in a relationship and have had much etter friendships with men. I think that a relationship with a man would be better for me.

In the meantime - - -

 

[bigjim]

Pinsandneedles

I believe you should be just honest with the guy you fancy, if he's worth anything, he'll understand. And most guys would be honoured to be your first. Hope all goes well. Cheers!

 

[bigjim]

Pinsand needles...

...that's a discrete hint!!

 

[Easy Boy]

Not your everyday virgin

Hi, pinsandneedles. You may be a virgin, but you're not starting from square one. You've got experience making love. You know what you like. You know about pleasing a partner. You know what you're looking for. You've probably got much better in-bed communications skills than any virgin. Any other virgin, I mean. You get my drift. You just don't quite seem like a virgin to me.

I don't want to minimize your concerns. You need to be open with any partner. But I do think that you make love as much with your mind and spirit as with your body. Anatomy matters, but it's hardly central.

Good luck to you, pinsandneedles.

 

[irishloverboy2001]

I am also a virgin, want to help each other out? I am prepared to travel.

emali me

irishloverboy2001@yahoo.com

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

Men Are Much Easier than Women!

If your experienced with women then a man should be a walk in the park!..~Laughing Loudly~
Our equipment is much more complicated than a mans, and you already know how to please yourself...So.. you can direct him confidently. Don't worry to much bout the whole thing he will be sooo happy ta be your first he might not be able to make it to the actual intercourse!..*L*
Enjoy & Be Well!
RNAB.