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(You know, as a millennial, I suck at technology.)This answer is the winner. There is no right answer, if you want that first time to be amazing and magical, then there’s a better chance it will be (but no guarantee) if you do it with someone experienced.
Not sure why that makes a difference. Except, of course, no risk of pregnancy.
Practice makes perfect
Not weird. This idea makes more sense if you are more focused on learning about sex as opposed making it part of a longer term connection. Two virgins can discover together, yes, but you also are still limited, if nothing else by your imaginations. I was a virgin until I got married in my late 20s and my wife was also a virgin. Our sex was ok, but not great. I just assumed that the stuff I had read about sex in erotica was exaggerated. After our divorce, I "re-discovered" sex when I started dating again, and learned from partners who had learned from partners who had learned from partners, and they learned from me. Even though I had read books, articles, etc, about sex, it wasn't the same as first hand experience. It was at that point in my life that I discovered that sex could be mind-bogglingly good.
The key for me in Siobhan's sentence is "chemistry." I feel there are several levels of chemistry. There is emotional and conversational chemistry, and some would throw the visual attraction into that, but assuming those things are ok to the point that you are having sex, the dimensions of physical chemistry I have found are kissing, cuddling, and then sex. You might think those always go together, but in my experience, mostly they do, but not always. When the sexual chemistry is great, the sex is sort of intuitive. It just flows naturally between you; the communication is easy, and it seems like everything you do is exactly right. Maybe that is building up expectations too much. Admittedly great sexual chemistry and super great body fit, are a little rare.
I don't know if it is all that weird. I get what you are saying. It is the conventional view, though I doubt there are any reliable surveys on the virginity %. It's anecdotal, but I know a handful of people in their twenties who I strongly suspect are still virgins. They just haven't dated that much. They're being circumspect about the whole thing it seems. There's nothing "weird" about them. Their virginity has nothing to do with religion or some lack of personal development.
That's probably the least weird desire a woman has ever had. You are completely normal, and I hope you find someone.
