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eyer said:
Alas, it is the burden I must bear for not caring to squat in the Personals as you do, playgrounder.
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Is that a comeback ? At least if you were a good troll I wouldn't be putting you on my ignore list. #getgood
 
seattlenice said:
This will likely sound shallow to some and make sense to others. I am married and love my wife for the loving person she is. She has taught me how to love and a great many other things.

The problem for me is that I am not physically attracted to her in any way. She is a beautiful woman (facially) but beyond that, there is nothing. She is thin, no muscle definition, no ass, all-right tits, and nothing else for me.

I like a thick girl, big tits, big ass, thick legs, rounder features.

I know it sounds shallow but it is getting harder and harder to be true to someone that does not and has never turned me on in the most primitive/primal way.

She is easily my best friend but I do not crave her in that way. WTF have others done? Suggestions? Am I just an ass?
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Kia Ora. Welcome. Hi. :0)

This place is an erotica/ porn site and a sort of community where people come to share, interact, meet like minded people, shoot the breeze... read or write erotica/smut/porn/masturbation material, hook up, flirt, chat with people from all over the world etc.

Some have found friendships here and there has been some couples who met here online and have taken things to offline too. :) I know of several little babes whose parents met here.

I read this thread and thought I have read this sort of thread so many times here.

Some come here to say my wife or husband doesn't understand me, I'm in a sexless marriage, poor me and so on and so forth. I get that people want to vent or hoping they might get a sympathetic shoulder to snivel on or even better some sexy private messages from others and maybe even naughty pics, phone sex etc. But more often than not most of them admit they have not communicated with their spouse or partner.

So. Have you talked to your wife?

If you feel the way you do why you marry her?

If I was your wife I would want you to be my friend and tell me what was going on for you. If I stumbled across this post? I would be hurt. It isn't friendly at all.


Don't get me wrong I'm not saying you are an ass and as a woman I'm taking sides with your wife. But If you aren't happy then be honest with yourself and her and have a heart to heart.

Being in a relationship isn't easy. Two completely different people who have different life experiences, morals, quirks, sexual turns on etc.

I think it takes love, effort, communication and honesty.

Garnate is right. <------ :heart: Life is too short to be in a loveless relationship
feeling the way you seem to be with what you are posting here.

Be a true friend and talk to her.

For all you know she might be feeling the same way.

I've been married for 15 years. Together for 18 years and our no 1 rule is if we are unhappy that we say so - end the relationship and go our separate ways.


Good luck to you and your wife.
 
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Mell0wM0nk said:
I am on various forums, and have been for the past 3-4 years, but never had to ignore anyone. Since I joined lit though, I have already ignored 2 people, and they both are on GB.
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Because there are no mods on here and people think they can talk to you any kind of old way. Fuck 'em. I gave up giving a damn of what people thought about me. Folks are mighty brave behind the computer screen, aren't they?
 
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nowisthetime85 said:
Because there are no mods on here and people think they can talk to you any kind of old way. Fuck 'em. I gave up giving a damn of what people thought about me. Folks are mighty brave behind the computer screen, aren't they?
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yeah, keyboard warriors. Actually the guy is probably lonely and the only interaction he is capable of is getting reactions out of others. Sad, but he isnt even a good troll. So 0 respect & Ignored.
We should listen to bob together sometime and chat.

Excuse me while I light my spliff
 
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OP, how do you marry someone who isn't even your type? Why did you marry her? Do those reasons no longer exist because if they do, you'll regret leaving her just for sex with a curvier woman.

If you think she'd be open to it, you should talk to her about the possibility of you two taking on lovers outside of your marriage. I've never understood how, but some couples claim that they manage to make their marriage work even without the monogamy part.


nowisthetime85 said:
He's been off the wall lately.
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Lately? Don't you mean, ever since you got here? Yanno, since you're new and all.


Mell0wM0nk said:
yeah, keyboard warriors. Actually the guy is probably lonely and the only interaction he is capable of is getting reactions out of others. Sad, but he isnt even a good troll. So 0 respect & Ignored.
We should listen to bob together sometime and chat.

Excuse me while I light my spliff
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Wow, that's so harsh, I bet eyer is weeping his heart out right now.

Score:
Keyboard warrior- 0,
keyboard playah- bazillion points.
 
StrayKat said:
I think I can safely assume you have never been married?
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Correct. But, just remember, here sex even with your spouse is kinda taboo forget about outside marriage. While it may sound odd, there's something very sweet about married people sneaking around to get some sexy time with their spouses.
 
subdued_passion said:
Correct. But, just remember, here sex even with your spouse is kinda taboo forget about outside marriage. While it may sound odd, there's something very sweet about married people sneaking around to get some sexy time with their spouses.
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Doesnt sound odd at all. I sneaked plenty enough with both my husbands, for this or that reason.

And dont forget I come from the country some parts of which are not much different when it comes to sex than yours.
 
Its yet another "poor me, my wife..." excuse to fuck around.

Divorce her.

End of story.

If you cannot (insert various excuses here), then you have lied about it all.
 
seattlenice said:
This will likely sound shallow to some and make sense to others. I am married and love my wife for the loving person she is. She has taught me how to love and a great many other things.

The problem for me is that I am not physically attracted to her in any way. She is a beautiful woman (facially) but beyond that, there is nothing. She is thin, no muscle definition, no ass, all-right tits, and nothing else for me.

I like a thick girl, big tits, big ass, thick legs, rounder features.

I know it sounds shallow but it is getting harder and harder to be true to someone that does not and has never turned me on in the most primitive/primal way.

She is easily my best friend but I do not crave her in that way. WTF have others done? Suggestions? Am I just an ass?
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Men are visual. Set her up with a friend, watch them, seeing her in action may awake your inner animal..

;)

... then have her date in public, you know, hugging, kissing, being fondled an appreciated by other men. Id she's so sweet and loving, it might be kinda hot ans she might be pretty good at it. You never know until you try.
 
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