Trying new things

[Firehawk]

My fiance will not blow me if I don't wear a condom. She does not like the taste of cum. She also says there is no way she'll have anal sex. I wouldn't pressure her to do either and it certainly wouldn't burden our relationship, but I would love to get her to be a little more adventerous and try new things. Any pointers?

 

[Guest]

The solution to your problem is simple: break it off with your fiance. If she is this inhibited before you marry her, it will only get worse after you make it legal. Your only hope is to find someone else who will meet you halfway.

 

[Wizard]

No breaking it off with her is not the best idea. I would suggest you first talking with her telling her about your feelings. And telling her also about how much it could enlighen, and make your relationship even closer. When I first got married had no idea what I was even doing. But after 12 years of marriage our sex life gets more exciting everyday. Also, try taking her to a bookstore and maybe both of you picking a book you may want to read there are always
some good books you could both try new things with. Or maybe even try surprising her with one. You never know that she may be a little shy of trying new things because she has no idea that it is ok to. She may think it is wrong. Be sympathetic and tell her that both of you can learn together it may help her relax more. And that way in the future you both can have an awesome sex life. Good luck and I hope all works out.

skitten

[This message has been edited by wizard (edited 04-24-2000).]

 

[Skitten]

Sorry posted under hubby's password oops sorry!

 

[Wizard]

WTF ????????