To Give Or To Receive?

[glorfindale39]

Definalty prefer to give. I enjoy recieving, but to give... I love the feel of soft belly against my face as I slige down between open thighs. The gentle smell of woman as I kiss the inside of each thigh, and drag my tongue up through the glistening edges of the swelling lips. To take those lips in my mouth and feel her sex bllom like a flower in my mouth, the sweet taste and silky skin. The joy as I slid my fingers in to rub her g-spot as her lips and clit become engourged with blood, and her breathing getts more rapid, her legs trembling. Finally the flood of warm honey into my mouth as she cums, my tongue gently teasing the last few twitchs from her pussy.

Oh yesssss, definatly prefer to give.

G.

 

[BlueDaisy]

That's one way to put it..

Honestly though, I know it will happen eventually so I'm not to worried.. and I really do love going down on a woman! The smell, the taste, the way swollen lips and clit feel on my lips and tounge.. The only issue that seems to come up when I do go down on a woman is they pretty much have to pry me off of them because I will stay down between a woman's legs for as long as I'm allowed.

Damn I envy the women you've been with! LOL!
And a curse on them for not reciprocating!

Blue

 

[Vilac]

maybe if he tied me up, and turned off all the lights... I think that would help my mental state, anyway!

I'd soooooooo much rather give than to get.

And...the scenario watergirl proposes is a huge turn on....for me at least. lol



V~

 

[BlueDaisy]

*Laughing*

Oh...I believe you. I just hope you are planning on unloading more than once.

A whole bunch of us could take that trip, JL. Make up for a LOT of lost time for LT!

Blue

 

[BlueDaisy]

I can't believe anyone can pick between giving and receiving. I love both. I love the feel and sounds of my husbands hard cock going in and out of my mouth. I feel like I have him at my complete command - believe me I don't usually feel that way. To have his mouth on me - wow - there is nothing better. I like to 69 occassionally, but I can't really enjoy completely either giving or receiving that way. I don't receive near as often as I would like - he won't tell me why he no longer wants to give much. I really don't get to give as often as I'd like either- sigh! Keep hoping something will change his libido!

Welcome to Lit, dclabrecque.
You, too, huh? I've got the same problem...hubby with no libido. But his is med. induced....antidepressant.

Blue

 

[BlueDaisy]

I haven't really ever recieved, unless 30 seconds counts. I love giving though.

Dang, hon. I'm sorry to hear that. I mean, I've never had it for as long as I'd like to *wicked grin*, but 30 seconds...dang. Well, a curse on them, too!

You and Liontamr need to get together!

Blue

 

[k¡tty]

Is this what you ladies talk about as soon as I go to bed?!? I am never sleeping again...

lol that was several hours later.

 

[BlueDaisy]

don't get me wrong...I LOVE a good blowjob p ) but there is NOTHING in the world like going down on a woman...making her cum over and over....licking and pulling...nibbling and sucking...my face flush with her heat and moist with her juices...fingers and tongue working in unison to drive her wild....until she begs me to stop....

Why oh why do I do this to myself? I really shouldn't be reading this thread and others like it. Just gets me to wantin' what I know isn't going to be forthcoming.
Dang I wish my hubby liked it as much as you guys here do.

*big sigh*

Blue

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

lol that was several hours later.

I'm thinking that maybe...ummm...I'm stiff as a board now, and maybe I should sleep when I can.

And what the fuck is this?!?:

I myself think that maybe part of my insistance on giving isn't only because I love it so much, but because I have yet to experience someone who actually knows wtf he's doing.

I hope you'll give me a chance...maybe some directions...a map of your genitalia, possibly?

 

[BlueDaisy]

Ok. Now that I've read all the posts and commented on the ones I felt inclined to do, I'll give my own opinion. Then maybe you'll get lucky and I'll just shut up and listen (er, read) *grin*

I really enjoy giving. I love the scent of a man, the taste of the skin "down there", and just the overall "eroticness" of the act. And I love watching and hearing him as his arousal increases and builds to that crescendo.

But I REALLY love to receive. I admit it...I'm selfish! It isn't just that it feels sooooooooooo good, but it is also the intimacy aspect. LOL! *sigh* maybe one of these days....

Blue

 

[k¡tty]

I'm thinking that maybe...ummm...I'm stiff as a board now, and maybe I should sleep when I can.

And what the fuck is this?!?:

I hope you'll give me a chance...maybe some directions...a map of your genitalia, possibly?

lmao



I think it's pretty obvious where my genitalia is located. There are just certain ways a woman needs to be licked, sucked, nibbled, rubbed and yes.. even bitten.



lol bluedaisy we are all selfish at times, and there isn't anything wrong with it. ;-)

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Selfishness...you know what, something about giving before recieving makes it easier for me to be selfish later, which isn't a bad thing either.

 

[k¡tty]

There's something about it as well for me.. giving over that control to another. Allowing myself to be the one pleasured. Even though I have submissive tendencies I fight it, which is probably one reason why it's so freeing when I actually do give in.. to whatever he wants.

I still stand by this.


As much as I enjoy receiving oral sex it is hard for me sometimes to allow it to be given.

 

[Guest]

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I still stand by this.


As much as I enjoy receiving oral sex it is hard for me sometimes to allow it to be given.

Then, that's just one more thing for you to learn to submit to, I think. You have to learn to let go...ok, I'll let you go first, which may put you in a nice, submissive role...and then I'm diving in head-first!

 

[k¡tty]

Then, that's just one more thing for you to learn to submit to, I think. You have to learn to let go...ok, I'll let you go first, which may put you in a nice, submissive role...and then I'm diving in head-first!

I think it's *funny* how much I fight being submissive when it gives me so much pleasure to be and gives my partner pleasure when I am.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I think it's *funny* how much I fight being submissive when it gives me so much pleasure to be and gives my partner pleasure when I am.

Hmmm...your choices are
a)therapy
b)....()

 

[BlueDaisy]

lmao



I think it's pretty obvious where my genitalia is located. There are just certain ways a woman needs to be licked, sucked, nibbled, rubbed and yes.. even bitten.



lol bluedaisy we are all selfish at times, and there isn't anything wrong with it. ;-)

I can certainly relate to not always getting it just the way you need it. And thanks. Glad I'm not the only selfish one! LOL!

Blue

 

[watergirl]

I agree, Kitty -

I don't know why, exactly, I don't like to receive. It just doesn't do anything for me, really...

 

[bknight2602]

Do you prefer to give or receive oral sex?



Does sliding your tongue around the flesh of your partner make your juices flow faster by giving because you enjoy the pleasure you are giving your partner? The power that you can feel from doing so?


Or is it the intimacy of having your partner's lips brushing against your sensitive skin, feeling their soft tongue exploring every bit of you?



Which one makes you hotter?

I like to give more than recieve!

 

[watergirl]

afternoon, good lookin!

 

[k¡tty]

Hmmm...your choices are
a)therapy
b)....()

Is there a way to have the be my therapy? ;-)


I think watergirl that we just haven't had a man wanting to explore us more in that regard, to care enough to try and do it right. *shrug*

 

[PepperminTrish]

I think watergirl that we just haven't had a man wanting to explore us more in that regard, to care enough to try and do it right. *shrug*

And the day that you (and you two each will, I'm sure of that) you'll think that you died and went to Heaven!

I had a lover that absolutely adored going down on a woman and Good Gawd ........... he was excellent at it!! That tongue of his was just made for my pussy and he loved it when I would straddle his face and he would bring me to several orgams until I thought I would collapse from pleasure.
*sigh*
I really do miss his tongue ......err ....... I mean I miss him.
Yeah, that's what I meant.

 

[watergirl]

well, no, I wouldn't go that far.

I've had one that offered me one of the biggest turn off statements a man can make - "I feel like my dick is too small, so I try to compensate by being good at other things" - and, boy, let me tell you, I hadn't thought so at all, but after he said that, I was mentally out of patience and out of the mood, forever, as far as he went. Rotten of me? Sure. Would I expect a man to react like that to me, being totally turned off, if I expressed insecurity about my size, too big, too small? Perhaps. I'm not very nurturing or maternal or interested, anymore, in building up a man's ego, or giving in to such horrid compliment fishing. Ugh.

I've had a couple who really wanted to, and were, I guess, good at what they were doing.. but, it's just somewhat a trust thing, and a control thing, and a letting myself enjoy them enjoying me, and I can't articulate this very well... I just don't like it.

Yep, next time a man offers, I"m gonna tell him he has to tie me up and blindfold me if he wants to go there... <grin> and I'll let you know how that turns out, if it should ever happen!

 

[Oscuridad]

I'm a giver.

I like to give.

Okay I'm also a control freak who likes to see his parner melt at his mouth.