To Give Or To Receive?

Rubyfruit said:
I'm with ya on this, Johnny.

Oh, and I'm a giver. :)

Of course, I enjoy receiving as well, but my fantasies, those stories in my head I turn to in time of need, are about sucking, having my mouth fucked, and him coming.



His fingers tangled in your hair as his hips repeatedly pound his cock into your mouth, sliding down your throat.


Don't you find it somewhat powerful Ruby? Amazing to know that you are giving him so much pleasure.
 
brokenbrainwave said:
I dunno, that lunchtime hummer yesterday with nothing given in return felt pretty damned good. All I had to do was sit there in my recliner :D


Yeah, it's nice when some sweet young thang tosses you some lines that are so vivid and detailed that you can just sit back and happily wank away.


:D
 
k¡tty said:
Yeah, it's nice when some sweet young thang tosses you some lines that are so vivid and detailed that you can just sit back and happily wank away.


:D
yeah, this would explain the stains on the tv screen.
 
Rubyfruit said:
I love it, Kitty.

I get off on him using my mouth for his pleasure.


Exactly.




Skull fucking you as he talks nasty.. yeah this is just one of the things I'm in need of.
 
This was so not a good idea reading this thread when I first got up. I was merely frisky then. I'm Godawful, full blown hornier than hell now.

:heart:
 
Saint Valentine said:
This was so not a good idea reading this thread when I first got up. I was merely frisky then. I'm Godawful, full blown hornier than hell now.

:heart:


What a pitty....is there no relief in sight?
 
I'll take either option but I'll pass on the 69 if you don't mind. I give soooooo much better if I'm not being distracted.
;)
 
I haven't really ever recieved, unless 30 seconds counts. I love giving though.
 
I can't believe anyone can pick between giving and receiving. I love both. I love the feel and sounds of my husbands hard cock going in and out of my mouth. I feel like I have him at my complete command - believe me I don't usually feel that way. To have his mouth on me - wow - there is nothing better. I like to 69 occassionally, but I can't really enjoy completely either giving or receiving that way. I don't receive near as often as I would like - he won't tell me why he no longer wants to give much. I really don't get to give as often as I'd like either- sigh! Keep hoping something will change his libido!
 
lol I think some of us were feeling the same way ourselves Saint Valentine.



K_girl I hope that you will receive in the future.

I myself think that maybe part of my insistance on giving isn't only because I love it so much, but because I have yet to experience someone who actually knows wtf he's doing. :)

This happens with a good many people, dclabrecque. Stress plays a bit part in it, perhaps you could talk him into seeing a doctor for an aid?
 
K ..gotta be honest here, I'm selfish as hell. While, of course I DO enjoy giving and do so often...I would much prefer the feel of his hot wet mouth feeding upon me... Luckily, I have a man who is sooo very giving.
 
k_girl23 said:
I haven't really ever recieved, unless 30 seconds counts. I love giving though.

Well at least I don't feel totally alone in the "not getting" department! I'm pretty much the same.. the one partner that did try did it for 30 second before coming up and saying she didn't like the idea of her going down on a man..

Funny how she loved someone between her legs though.. :rolleyes:
 
TedJackson said:
don't get me wrong...I LOVE a good blowjob :)p ) but there is NOTHING in the world like going down on a woman...making her cum over and over....licking and pulling...nibbling and sucking...my face flush with her heat and moist with her juices...fingers and tongue working in unison to drive her wild....until she begs me to stop....:devil:


It figures that you're taken....SHEESH!

:D
 
I'm in agreement with intrigued -

I'm definitely a giver. It turns me on so much, I love the smell, the feel, the sounds, the look on his face... it's wonderful... my hans on him, and when he cums in my mouth, drinking it in... mmmmm...

But, receiving - I get very uncomfortable and self-conscious and too self aware, to be at all turned on by a man's face between my legs... I've had guys tell me, "But I'm different, I'm good at it, let me, please, I love to.... " and all that jazz.. and I have let a few of them, but not for long. It just doens't seem intimate to me, I can't explain it.. maybe if he tied me up, and turned off all the lights... I think that would help my mental state, anyway!

Just rambling on, procrastinating...
 
Trail48 said:
It's hard not to agree with the way you think :D

I thoroughly enjoy giving, to the point that it satisfies me totally ... and while I also love doing it together, thats only a closd second if both partners equally enjoy giving as much as the other ... but there truly is no greater pleasure than to make love to a woman orally, all those tastes, feels, senses ...

My vote is ... to give, followed closley by both ...
 
Rubyfruit said:
I'm with ya on this, Johnny.

Oh, and I'm a giver. :)

Of course, I enjoy receiving as well, but my fantasies, those stories in my head I turn to in time of need, are about sucking, having my mouth fucked, and him coming.

Oh, Ruby...*drools*

I probably fantasize more about my own pleasure...but when I look back, I have many more memories of giving as I do recieving, even though I gave and got in about equal measure.
I love the feeling of someone sucking on me, of seeing a woman's cheeks puff out when I fill her mouth to overflowing with cum...but I don't get much more pleasure out of it than any other orgasm. When I go down on a woman until she's screaming, and my face is drenched in her juices, it often means more to me than my own orgasm...
 
k¡tty said:
Exactly.




Skull fucking you as he talks nasty.. yeah this is just one of the things I'm in need of.
Is this what you ladies talk about as soon as I go to bed?!? I am never sleeping again...:D
 
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