Threesomes:How do they work?

[GhEtToBoY]

Okay, I have a question, because this is bound to happen to me, but yeah.



Anyways, my girlfriend and myself and her best friend may be getting into a 3some, and well, i have no idea how they work....Does that mean since im going to be with my girlfriend i can't have sex with the other girl, or could I? Im just curious....

Any advice, info on the subject would be helpful to me thanks.



or links to reading about it.

 

[alltherage]

Oh. This hurts my head. sheeeeeesh.

 

[cg_allstar]

What, you didn't get the manual?

 

[Dannyblake]

Here's hoping that your girlfriend has a bit more on the ball than you do. My advice would be to let the closest LIT member know when the threesome is going do go down--invite them over and then vacate the house. Let the LIT member handle the rest.

Your girlfriend should be happy to fill you in on all the details.

P.S.-- Make sure and ask her who did who, and how many times, so that you have this info for future reference.

 

[WhisperHaven]

The thought of negotiating everything up front may seem to take out the spontaneity and fun, but believe me, it's worth the effort.

Sit down with your girlfriend and establish some rules and stick to the rules. Don't try to negotiate during the heat of passion.

 

[bozinka]

 

[SexyChele]

This can be a very sticky situation. It's best to sit down before anything happens and talk to both girls. Find out what they are expecting from you and let them know what you are expecting. If everything meshes, I would still be cautious. If it doesn't, then it's best to put this off.

Oh, and fully expect that if/when you do the threesome thing, one or any of you may want to stop. Make it perfectly clear that if anyone feels uncomfortable at any time, the acitivity stops - no questions asked, and you talk about what happened.

Some people can do threesomes and have no second thoughts. I've also seen marriages break up over these things. Proceed with caution. Sometimes the best fantasies are those that remain fantasies.

 

[Chuckwrox]

This can be a very sticky situation.

... so keep a sponge w/ warm, soapy water nearby!

 

[Different Guy]

Dude if there's gonna be 3 of you then it's no holds barred. You all fuck and play with one another. It's none emotional but more of an all out sex fest.

My girlfriend was talking to her friend who also has a boyfriend about a foursome. I'd be well up for that but I can't get round another guy fucking my girl, y'know? It takes away the personal relations.

If I was to have a three or foursome with people I didn't know, that would be better. Oh and that would probably never happen cos I don't do the whole random one night thing either.

I'm a very good bad guy if you can work that out

 

[tigerjen]

I've never been in a 3some w/ a guy and another girl, but
I've been a 3some w/ two guys (last summer!), which is
just heavenly, esp. when I had the attention lavished on
me

I think its best that all 3 of you talk about it first, and
let everyone say their feelings on the upcoming situation.

Good luck!


tigerjen

 

[Chuckwrox]

I've never been in a 3some w/ a guy and another girl, but
I've been a 3some w/ two guys (last summer!), which is
just heavenly, esp. when I had the attention lavished on
me

Tell us a little more about that, Tiger. How did it happen? How did things go? Alternatively, how did things cum?

(I crack me up, sometimes...! )