threesome

[sexyteach25]

Hello all,

I am curious to have a threesome with another girl and my boyfriend....my boyfriend and I talk about it all the time during sex and it turns me on to no end! But how do I go about picking up a girl and bringing her home?? Also does anyone have advice about strip teasing for your boyfriend?? I want to dress up and do it but I don't know how to...any thought would be great!

 

[smoothdevil]

Hello all,

I am curious to have a threesome with another girl and my boyfriend....my boyfriend and I talk about it all the time during sex and it turns me on to no end! But how do I go about picking up a girl and bringing her home?? Also does anyone have advice about strip teasing for your boyfriend?? I want to dress up and do it but I don't know how to...any thought would be great!

having had a number of FMF 3somes over the years, maybe the following will be of help ....

now many swinger clubs, bi or lesbian clubs, internet sites are available where you can find partners ...

more than 1/2 the females guest to a 3some were found and supplied by the g/f ....

if you are not into the swing scene, then it may take some time to meet a partner that turns both you and your b/f on ...

whatever you do ... slow and cautiously is the norm ...

good hunting

 

[Lynxie]

There have been a number of threads on this topic. Do some searching through the Blank Manual and see what comes up.

Smoothdevil gave some good advice. I'd also try swingers' websites, like www.swappernet.com or others...they usually give you a free trial period, and are a great way to search for people in your area anonymously. They also sometimes have listings of bars or private swing parties that you could get in on. Newspaper personal ads might be another suggestion.

 

[LindaL]

find another couple to be a 4some with, then periodically designate one person to either be the photographer, or the babysitter! Make sure to equitably rotate that role!

It's worked for us. Probably because the odd person out does the photographing.

 

[ldlarry52]

You can probally find a willing female through Adult Friend Finders or some similar adult swinger site. Also, check local adult book stores for local swinger magazines.

As for stripping, there are numerous videos you can buy on the web. Check Literoticas store out. Also, visit a local strip bar and watch the girls strip!!

 

[ReadyOne]

Somehwere I remember reading about how 3rd partners are found, and it seemed that ads don't work.

Many people said they tried a "Wanted: female to join MF couple..." ad with no results (except for guys tring to turn the desired FMF into MFM).

Most connections were because someone (more often the female) knew someone or cultivated someone.

An other alternative sometimes is an old gf if you didn't go through a disasterous breakup.

 

[JRaven]

find another couple to be a 4some with, then periodically designate one person to either be the photographer, or the babysitter! Make sure to equitably rotate that role!

It's worked for us. Probably because the odd person out does the photographing.

This was how we did it. From other folks that I've chatted online with, I think it might be the best way.

One online friend had her girlfriend join her and her husband. Two months later, she found out that her friend and her husband were playing behind her back.

But I also know some that bringing the wife's friend in was perfect. It all depends on the three individuals involved.

Good luck and happy hunting!

 

[LadyTemptress]

find another couple to be a 4some with, then periodically designate one person to either be the photographer, or the babysitter! Make sure to equitably rotate that role!

It's worked for us. Probably because the odd person out does the photographing.

That is pretty much the relationship we have with a couple. Hubby and I get to do her and he takes the pics and does her. It works great for us.

We found them through a swinger site and chatted a lot and finally met. Now we are all the best of friends.

 

[LindaL]

This was how we did it. From other folks that I've chatted online with, I think it might be the best way.

One online friend had her girlfriend join her and her husband. Two months later, she found out that her friend and her husband were playing behind her back.

But I also know some that bringing the wife's friend in was perfect. It all depends on the three individuals involved.

Good luck and happy hunting!

I have also brought in a woman lover of mine, to be with me and hubby. But we all talked about it ahead of time, and kept certain boundaries. Like "no" to the two of them playing without me being there!

It's also the exception, rather than the rule, to have hubby along. Though he is always aware of our get-togethers.

 

[zhukov1943]

Sounds kinda "scary" to me, actually.

How do you avoid emotional entanglements between participants? You could end up with a "love triangle", or worse - a matched pair, with you shut out...

Not trying to rain on your parade - I'm just curious about the relationship "logistics".

 

[smoothdevil]

Sounds kinda "scary" to me, actually.

How do you avoid emotional entanglements between participants? You could end up with a "love triangle", or worse - a matched pair, with you shut out...

Not trying to rain on your parade - I'm just curious about the relationship "logistics".

from the other side of the coin ... if all relationships were predictable it would be very boring ... 3somes or other "somes" are done for excitement, enlivement ... lol ... like any other fun thing ... sometimes things don't work out or even create bigger problems ... but the old adage ... no risk no fun ...

only sane piece of advise would be to be very careful and enjoy

 

[tigerjen]

You can probally find a willing female through Adult Friend Finders or some similar adult swinger site. Also, check local adult book stores for local swinger magazines.

As for stripping, there are numerous videos you can buy on the web. Check Literoticas store out. Also, visit a local strip bar and watch the girls strip!!

what he said.

in terms of stripping for your boyfriend, you can get creative
w/ the dressing up for him.........

some suggestions:

black stockings (sheer hose or fishnets) w/ a garter belt, and
a feather boa.....instead of plain black for the boa, try a combo
red/black or even a hot pink one!

"naughty" school girl: mini plaid school-girl looking skirt w/ a white
button down shirt, and a black or red lacy bra underneath! For
wild factor, go for an outrageous colored bra or skip the bra all together!

The french maid or naughty nurse are classic ones.

Maybe try dressing up as a harem girl....lots of filmy see-through
fabric.....

There are many possibilities out there.......

 

[liferguy]

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