Thoughts from an older man....

[Escierto]

I hate to be the NotAllMen person… ( believe me, I HATE TO ) but damn, the rare great one is an amazing find.

I mean… knowing what you know of me, can you imagine how badass the man is that makes me feel safe enough to submit to him, sexually? A rare find, but worth the search to find him, and worth cherishing what he brings to my life.


Most of these fuckers can fuck right off, though

Of course you are right about the not all men lol. But they are damn few and far between!

 

[Dionysian Beast]

What's with the hair hate?

 

[Sean]

The only people with man buns that don't look like utter twats are samurai.

 

[Plasmaball]

I suspect that your need to defend his beliefs stems from you sharing them.

It is 2023. Women can support themselves. We no longer require a man to obtain credit or a mortgage. Now women are free to choose whether or not we share our time with a man, based on whether we enjoy being with him or not.

A lot of men are struggling with that. This dinosaur clearly is, and your posts appear as if you are, too.

Good men… men that are emotionally mature, capable, competent partners, attract women and always will. Men that have nothing to offer aside from things that women no longer need, will not attract women.

Rather than lamenting that women have options, I’d suggest devoting your energy to becoming a better option.


Or don’t…. We’re all becoming bi curious out here for a reason

Oh..boy. I love it when idiots assume my position on things when I've clearly laid out my position on In the thread.

The rest of your post is irrelevant because you are an idiot.

Have a good day Katie.

 

[pink]

You really don't have anything to offer a woman that age. That sounds mean but I'm just keeping it real.

 

[Inthesewalls]

"When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression"- Anonymous

 

[K0fcali]

Oh, bullshit.

Women have autonomy. And agency. And the ability to choose to spend time with men whose company we enjoy, for the sake of enjoying their company.

This dinosaur is grumpy because women don’t require men to be able to have a bank account and a mortgage anymore.

That you would bend over backwards to mansplain that speaks volumes.

Its easy to speak from a position of privilage. Women dont invite men on dates to hang out for their company. If a woman pays for a date she wants cock. The ones she wants it from tend to be the sleaziest type of guys. Im not complaining or saying its unfair. When speaking of men its important to include all men not just the attractive ones. When speaking of women its necessary to think of all the women that think differently from you. Include the opinions of women you dont like and cant stand. Imagine they were dating your son. Would you feel good about the treatment of men by modern women???

 

[K0fcali]

You really don't have anything to offer a woman that age. That sounds mean but I'm just keeping it real.

So youre saying women should be offered something in exchange for their company? So relationships should be seen transactional interactions? I Knew women were all hookers. This is why guys like the tinder swindler can leech off of lonely single middle aged women.

 

[K0fcali]

That brings to mind a couple of ongoing issues in Formula One racing. Firstly the FIA rule book didn't allow for 'disabled' drivers to compete in single seat cars until 2021 when Billy Monger argued his case - he lost the lower half of both legs in a F3 crash. The other one is power-steering in F2 and F3 which is making it harder for women, from progressing on to F1, where power steering is normal. The formula rules have been based on male physiques. The pressure is now on to force that change, but done yet.

Sorry I digressed, but the point is the rules we've inherited today are often male-orientated and need to change. I've gotta go prep supper. England's Lionesses are playing Belgium later

When do men complain about fairness? If women want to compete nothing is dtopping them from forming their own leagues and intocing men to play for them. But they dont build anything instead want to be welcomed into the spaces men have already built.

 

[K0fcali]

"When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression"- Anonymous

I love this.

 

[K0fcali]

"When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression"- Anonymous

I love this.

 

[Minicoop]

Well said

So true. I can’t relate to twenty-something’s, the gap in life experience is too great

 

[pink]

So youre saying women should be offered something in exchange for their company? So relationships should be seen transactional interactions? I Knew women were all hookers. This is why guys like the tinder swindler can leech off of lonely single middle aged women.

I'm really not sure what you're saying? Transactional interactions? Women are all hookers? I'm so confused.


I am 55 and have nothing to offer someone who is way younger than I am, except a really good fun friendship. I make a really good friend. That's just me and what I bring to the table.

 

[K0fcali]

That last line. I have always wondered why most women (maybe all?) would not be lesbians. Men are so unappealing I don’t understand why any woman would want to be with one. They commit most of the crime, they are not interested in caring for others, they are interested in violence and controlling others etc. Really I can’t name a single thing men have going for them.

Most women are not lesbians because women dont like other women. They see them as competition for their dick! Men are the creators of life and that is the greatest thing for anyone. The ability to create the world around them as they see fit. Thats what attracts women to men.

 

[K0fcali]

I'm really not sure what you're saying? Transactional interactions? Women are all hookers? I'm so confused.


I am 55 and have nothing to offer someone who is way younger than I am, except a really good fun friendship. I make a really good friend. That's just me and what I bring to the table.

You have experience to offer someone younger. I dont really believe in the idea of friendship. Although it is said that i am both the ultimate best friend to any single person as well as the best friend to the world. I wish i had a friend like me i could turn to sometimes.

 

[butters]

Speak for yourself.

i'm perfectly happy to give H a man bun or a tight-to-the-head pleat, or a braid if it keeps his long hair out of my face... nothing as off putting as about to be kissed and get a mouthful of damned hair *gags*

The only people with man buns that don't look like utter twats are samurai.

lol, you're just a philistine

 

[butters]

When do men complain about fairness? If women want to compete nothing is dtopping them from forming their own leagues and intocing men to play for them. But they dont build anything instead want to be welcomed into the spaces men have already built.

oh yes, that old thing... women aren't 'people' the same as men are. right. ffs

 

[pink]

Most women are not lesbians because women dont like other women. They see them as competition for their dick! Men are the creators of life and that is the greatest thing for anyone. The ability to create the world around them as they see fit. Thats what attracts women to men.

I always thought it was humor and nice eyes.

 

[HollyLynn]

I am 58 and my love/lust for young, gorgeous women has never diminished. Nowadays, because of the technology, we see their images all the time. When one such image makes my heart ache, or my sex drive go to warp factor 10, I always have the same thought: how could I, a humble nobody-in-particular, but a nice man and true gentleman ever even interest this girl?
First, they are often making so much money from their OnlyFans or other pay sites that they certainly don't need a man's financial support, not to mention that precisely because they are so stunning, rich men must offer them the moon and the stars all the time.
I'm not saying I would want a relationship that was based on a financial transaction, I'm saying that in a certain way, the empowerment of women has kind of ruined traditional avenues a man could take to establish a rapport with a woman he fancied.
What is to be done? I actually have quite a lot to offer a young woman, I'm alluding to ways in which I could improve the quality of her life and save her time, while also loving her and receiving love in return. But, the young ones either expect too much, or know they can get it themselves and so are closed to the entreaties of nice men like me, or have gotten caught up in the wave of straight white man hatred that has erupted these recent years.
What is to be done...

WOW, you sure stirred up some busy bees nest with your thoughts and opinion. Apparently, according to those bees, you have no personality and nothing to offer what young females would want. I hope these comments don't discourage you from seeking what you desire. I hope you do find someone just so you can say "fuck off haters"!

 

[K0fcali]

oh yes, that old thing... women aren't 'people' the same as men are. right. ffs

I just said women are free to build their own leagues. Because they are. Men did it. Women could too if they are the same as men. Idk what a women even is. No one does actually. Ffs!

 

[K0fcali]

I always thought it was humor and nice eyes.

I have both but youre still not here with me!

 

[stickygirl]

When do men complain about fairness? If women want to compete nothing is dtopping them from forming their own leagues and intocing men to play for them. But they dont build anything instead want to be welcomed into the spaces men have already built.

Oh of course - Formula One is a men only, abled-bodied sport run by men, for men. Silly me

 

[K0fcali]

Oh of course - Formula One is a men only, abled-bodied sport run by men, for men. Silly me

Idk but i dont think its anything most women are dying to jump in line to sign up for. One woman isnt the same as all women.

 

[KatieDoes]

I'm really not sure what you're saying? Transactional interactions? Women are all hookers? I'm so confused.


I am 55 and have nothing to offer someone who is way younger than I am, except a really good fun friendship. I make a really good friend. That's just me and what I bring to the table.

That guy is a Great Value Andrew Tate. Don’t waste your time trying to reason with the unreasonable.

 

[K0fcali]

There's a world of difference between porn-world, and I include Lit in that, and real world. The OP and men who watch porn may need a reality check, often.

Yes but who is really the victim of such a distorted reality? Porn wouldnt exist if women didnt objectify themselves for mens pleasure. Women today are less and less qualified for relationships.