Thoughts from an older man....

[lifeis2short2b]

Looks like I'm done with this post a lesson to all don't share your opinion I'll see you all on the thread the sky is blue and the world is round

 

[KatieDoes]

Looks like I'm done with this post a lesson to all don't share your opinion I'll see you all on the thread the sky is blue and the world is round

Are you always so fragile? Or only when women have opinions and don’t defer to you?

 

[Sean]

Looks like I'm done with this post a lesson to all don't share your opinion I'll see you all on the thread the sky is blue and the world is round

Run out of corn?

 

[gtnlynn]

I gave my wife permission to have sex with others when she was in her 30's. She had a few dates with men in their 20's, and they were disappointing because of lack of experience. Then a 60+ year old Russian doctor asked her to be his escort to an event, followed by sex. It was her best sex ever, not counting me, of course. So don't give up.

 

[MeredithEighty8]

It’s pretty gross to recommend that someone just go find women that are more vulnerable and exploit them, instead of making himself a more appealing partner.

Finally, someone with a brain speaks.

 

[Diosax]

 Whine less

Fixed it for you lol

You need to get off the sofa and go to the Philippines. They genuinely love old guys because they think they will stay home and not run around. Most young Filipinos can’t keep it in their pants so a woman who wants stability will jump at the chance for a foreign man to love and support her. Your money will go much further there and you will have a better quality of life.

Gross

Do you realize your on a site where women desire..old men, father figures, want to be spanked, gang banged, rape role play. Cum on there face, peed on and a bunch of other stuff. Yet you pull the misogyny card. LMFAO !!!!!
This is where you now attack me for disagreeing with you. I've seen your posts its the same act when you disagree with someone. I actually think you have multiple accounts and use that for those attacks.

bro

 

[ToPleaseHim]

There’s so very much wrong with the opening post, much of which has already been pointed out. But, my jaw literally dropped when he called himself a “nice guy.” He actually said it! Face. Palm.

I read his other thread first and felt some empathy for him. Feeling depressed and depressed about aging is a very real thing, but then this thread he’s like “It’s a damn shame sexy, poor, young women have the ability to do things for themselves now and they don’t have to fuck the old, white guys with means like me so they can have some opportunities.”

 

[KatieDoes]

This whole thread is just red flag after red flag after red flag.

I wonder how many of the dudes that participated without calling out this predator also whine about how it’s ‘not all men’

 

[Britva415]

He is not upset that beautiful young women don’t WANT to fuck him.

He is upset that beautiful young women don’t HAVE to fuck him.

That is a ridiculous projection on your part.

 

[KatieDoes]

That is a ridiculous projection on your part.

How is that?

Did you read his post?

 

[ericalauren]

It's a shame that you think "women's empowerment" is bad. If you would stop being creepy and just date people around your age, it wouldn't be a problem.

 

[KatieDoes]

It's a shame that you think "women's empowerment" is bad. If you would stop being creepy and just date people around your age, it wouldn't be a problem.

Women his own age have too much life experience and wisdom to want him, either.

 

[Britva415]

How is that?

Did you read his post?

Yeah.

And frankly there is plenty there which is ugly.

I'm not pretending otherwise. This guy definitely needs to grow up.

But based on what the guy has actually written in this specific thread, he genuinely sounds to me like he'd like to be given a chance and feels like he isn't. That is worlds apart from the coercion you say he wants.

Sure, he doesn't understand what he has to do to be given a chance, but unless you know other stuff besides what was written here in this thread, you're definitely projecting.

You might not even be wrong, but based on the actual evidence, it is a projection and I do still find it ridiculous to present it as fact rather than opinion. I would have taken your idea seriously and wouldn't have had much to say other than "yeah, maybe so" if you had gone that way instead.

 

[KatieDoes]

Yeah.

And frankly there is plenty there which is ugly.

I'm not pretending otherwise. This guy definitely needs to grow up.

But based on what the guy has actually written in this specific thread, he genuinely sounds to me like he'd like to be given a chance and feels like he isn't. That is worlds apart from the coercion you say he wants.

Sure, he doesn't understand what he has to do to be given a chance, but unless you know other stuff besides what was written here in this thread, you're definitely projecting.

You might not even be wrong, but based on the actual evidence, it is a projection and I do still find it ridiculous to present it as fact rather than opinion. I would have taken your idea seriously and wouldn't have had much to say other than "yeah, maybe so" if you had gone that way instead.

I am 58 and my love/lust for young, gorgeous women has never diminished. Nowadays, because of the technology, we see their images all the time. When one such image makes my heart ache, or my sex drive go to warp factor 10, I always have the same thought: how could I, a humble nobody-in-particular, but a nice man and true gentleman ever even interest this girl?
First, they are often making so much money from their OnlyFans or other pay sites that they certainly don't need a man's financial support, not to mention that precisely because they are so stunning, rich men must offer them the moon and the stars all the time.
I'm not saying I would want a relationship that was based on a financial transaction, I'm saying that in a certain way, the empowerment of women has kind of ruined traditional avenues a man could take to establish a rapport with a woman he fancied.
What is to be done? I actually have quite a lot to offer a young woman, I'm alluding to ways in which I could improve the quality of her life and save her time, while also loving her and receiving love in return. But, the young ones either expect too much, or know they can get it themselves and so are closed to the entreaties of nice men like me, or have gotten caught up in the wave of straight white man hatred that has erupted these recent years.
What is to be done...

No. It’s not projection.

He said that he wants women to not be able to provide for themselves, so they would be required to accept his offers.

He’s not asking how to be more appealing.

He’s lamenting that women don’t have to depend on him to be able to exist.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I'm saying that in a certain way, the empowerment of women has kind of ruined traditional avenues a man could take to establish a rapport with a woman he fancied.

I actually have quite a lot of offer a young woman. I'm alluding to ways in which I could improve the quality of her life and save her time, while also loving her and receiving love in return

But, the young ones either expect too much, or know they can get it themselves

That is a ridiculous projection on your part.

The above snips are directly from his opening post in which he laments that women being able to do things for themselves, that the empowerment of women, has been detrimental to his sexual opportunities with young women. How else would you read that??

 

[KatieDoes]

He’s also been back on lit, posting on other threads, after this one.

So he’s had the opportunity to come back and clarify and explain if that wasn’t what he meant.

He has not done that.
You might not want to fall on your sword for this guy.

 

[policywank]

Lots of young women find older men attractive and are perfectly capable of looking beyond superficial factors. If you believe that you have something to offer, take your shot. But lamenting the possibility that your chances of "getting the girl" are reduced because she has personal agency and independence is creepy. A "nice" guy wouldn't want to deny other people their personal agency or have them be vulnerable for his own selfish purposes.

 

[FiatLux64]

To me OP simply sounds like a guy having a hard time coming to terms with ageing, hence the title of his post "thoughts from an older man" reminiscing his youth and lost opportunities perhaps.

I´m guessing it happens to everyone eventually, so I don´t see the need for the foul play accusations, it might just be honesty.

 

[policywank]

To me OP simply sounds like a guy having a hard time coming to terms with ageing, hence the title of his post "thoughts from an older man" reminiscing his youth and lost opportunities perhaps.

I´m guessing it happens to everyone eventually, so I don´t see the need for the foul play accusations, it might just be honesty.

I don't think anybody is criticizing the fact that he is having a hard time coming to grips with age. The criticism is aimed at his lamenting the fact that women are empowered, which makes it more difficult for older men to compel young women to be beholden to them.

It is kind of like saying I miss the old days when minorities would work for cheap because they had no labour rights. That isn't just about the cost of labour - it is about oppressing people to keep it cheap.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Funny how nice guys who lament that fact that isn't enough to get a hot young woman to date them would never date a woman they found unattractive just because she was nice.

 

[NOBGE]

Any man below age 65 is too young in my book.

Soon to be 69. Wanna celebrate the number?

 

[Plasmaball]

Yes, exploit them.

Let’s be clear.

He is not upset that beautiful young women don’t WANT to fuck him.

He is upset that beautiful young women don’t HAVE to fuck him.

He can either become a more appealing person, or he can jerk off. He’s not entitled to women or sex.

They never had to fuck him. That's not exactly what he was trying to say in his op.
He feels because of the internet that traditional avenues of meeting an attractive women is harder. Technology has passed him by so to speak because he thinks these women are getting lots of offers he can no longer compete with. He thinks his status and age are a factor. In some cases that is true, but not all.

This whole "he feels entitled or sex" thing is just wrong. I'm just so tired of people talking like this. It's not an entitlement issue. The pond has become much much larger because of the internet. He comes from a time where people went up to other people and he feels he had a better chance then. He didn't evolve with the times and that's about it.


Smh

 

[stickygirl]

They never had to fuck him. That's not exactly what he was trying to say in his op.
He feels because of the internet that traditional avenues of meeting an attractive women is harder. Technology has passed him by so to speak because he thinks these women are getting lots of offers he can no longer compete with. He thinks his status and age are a factor. In some cases that is true, but not all.

This whole "he feels entitled or sex" thing is just wrong. I'm just so tired of people talking like this. It's not an entitlement issue. The pond has become much much larger because of the internet. He comes from a time where people went up to other people and he feels he had a better chance then. He didn't evolve with the times and that's about it.


Smh

He's "58". Not dead, but not in the league of any woman under 50 and nothing less than creepy to any woman under 30 that he's watching on porn vids.

Traditional used to mean growing old graciously, now it means hitting up on viagra and beating off to OnlyFans in an illusionary world where he still sees himself as twenty, standing in front of the mirror with his bullworker.

The pond isn't the thing that's got larger, only his eyes. He should quit watching porn and join a walking club or learn to play bridge - you know, traditional avenues.

 

[Plasmaball]

He's "58". Not dead, but not in the league any woman under 50 and nothing less than creepy to any woman under 30 that he's watching on porn vids.

Lol what....Plenty of women like older men within that age span. You may not, you may find it gross but I've read enough posts to see its legit. Hell we have had whole threads dedicated to older men where younger women from their teens to thirties have come in and commented how they like older men.

Traditional used to mean growing old graciously, now it means hitting up on viagra and beating off to OnlyFans in an illusionary world where he still himself as twenty, standing in front of the mirror with his bullworker.

No what he meant was going out to clubs or bars..finding people face to face and what happened is that has happened less and less now. It's a lot easier to just ghost, ignore, or swipe left now because the ratios are so lopsided.

The pond isn't the thing that's got larger, only his eyes. He should quit watching porn and join a walking club or learn to play bridge - you know, traditional avenues.

The porn may or may not help...he's not dead but he should join a bridge club....comments like this is why I've stopped caring when men act the way they do.

 

[stickygirl]

There's a world of difference between porn-world, and I include Lit in that, and real world. The OP and men who watch porn may need a reality check, often.