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intrigued said:Lo,
Come back, it's not worth this.
I'm here because I've gone down in flames and decided that since that is the case, I'm going down telling the truth. All of it. I can have no closure and truly leave this place behind without doing so. That is because this isn't the usual cyber shit, this was real life, in person and I cannot bear these lies about me, I REFUSE to.
You are not a criminal. To my knowledge, you are not a rapist. You are a man that decided since I'm such a nice lady, that you would take advantage of that and try to get away with what you could. You didn't ask me any questions that I could could say no to, you simply DID the acts. Repeatedly. As Aphil said:
Originally posted by APhil
"Here's what happened, as I recall it:
She arrived late to the restaurant, and ordered her dinner. In the meanwhile, I noticed that his hand was resting on her leg as he was talking to her. His hand crept up and - to her credit - she politely rebuffed his advances.
Later, she was eating her dinner. Nora asked to take a picture of her. She wanted to make it a little racy, so she picked an asparagus spear off of her plate and sucked the butter off of it in a suggestive manner. That was the wildest thing she did all night.
There was no impropriety done on her part. She mingled, she danced, she had a good time.
Mind you, intrigued still has a large part of the old-school "southern belle" in her. Very polite, prim and proper. She makes sure that what she does is right in her mind before doing it, and if she happens to be in the wrong, she apologizes for it.
As I see it, she has made atonemnt for her action here. And she shouldn't have to apologize for talking about it."
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But you didn't stop. I was told ahead of time by someone attending the get together, I would have to be careful with you because you're known for seeking revenge on women that don't give you what you need/want. In this vein, as you continually attempted stroking my leg and I continually removed your hand, you kept saying to me as I TOLD YOU to back off, that Trail would be here any time now, "but he's not here yet" and grinning wickedly as you said it.
Yes, I used Trail as an excuse because I did not want to hurt his feelings. I've been told lo is lonely and (not verbatim) somewhat fragile, the last thing I wanted to do was hurt him---OR ANGER HIM.
What you did to me was not welcome. You knew that from the erotic Pm you sent me that stunned me and took 2 days to reply to let you know it wasn't my cup of tea and that I was involved with Trail. (Fuck, who here could ever miss the part that I have a boyfriend, as I run my mouth about him constantly???) You showed me no decency, no respect, you treated me like a piece of trash.
Is it a big deal? Some man plays with my legs and gropes my breast when I made it clear I wasn't game? Yeah, its a big deal, decent people just don't do that. ButI got over it once T and I got over it, and then moreso when you PMed me your apology. What makes it a big deal is that you told your friends about it, then called me a lying cunt, and your friends sit consoling you, agreeing that I'm a lying cunt, and now most of, if not the whole board, thinks I'm a lying cunt.
But that's Ok. You come back, it makes no sense for both of us to go.
Since so many of my posts regarding this have been ignored, overlooked and twisted because you guys wish to go on believing lies about me---and because they are so spread out in too many threads, here are a few key snippets from myself, and others. I don't know how to do multiple quotes in one post, so I had to copy them from my notepad. Sorry for the messiness.) I will put some of them in the next reply for easier reading.
When goaded to name names and prove it, in a huge amount of PMs and on the board, I posted:
intrigued
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Registered: May 2002
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Ya know, this isn't my style. I never had a clue that it IS who it IS, I honestly am stunned because I thought it was a woman, and I also thought some of the others were, too. I still do, btw.
I am especially stunned because he PMed me after the Litogether and apologized to me, and I said "thank you, I appreciate that." Pissed T off to no end, but since he apologized, I felt it fair to thank him and I thought it was over. But no. Now that he's brought this on himself, as he did that night at the restaurant, I am majorly pissed because of the fact that I saved his ass from getting the hell he had coming, and this is what I get in return?? I was nice as I could be to you, how on earth you think think I deserve this shit is truly stunning me.
He has never spoken a word to me in the 2 years I've been here, until he found out I was coming to the get together, then he was on me like stink on shit. When I finally met him at the restaurant, he wouldn't keep his hands off my legs, and I kept telling him repeatedly that he better back off because my body guard (a joking reference to Trail, as I was told I'd need a body guard with Lo around) would appear at any moment, and guess what he said? "But he's not here now!".
Piece of shit. He didn't stop there, it got much, much worse.
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Once guileful said he met perks in person, said I had a mark on the back of my thigh and perks PMed me stating it was lo, all the evidence convinced me that it was lo, I posted this:
intrigued
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Registered: May 2002
Location:
Posts: 12804
"You are a sick fuck, lo. I enjoyed nothing about you in the least. perks was standing there talking to me until she walked off to find an ATM and as soon as she left and I turned to go back to ANY table away from you, as I had done ALL night long, you reached out and grabbed my breast in front of everyone, and Trail stood there and watched you. Anyone there saw me slap your hand and walk off, as did Trail. When I reached him, he said "you have 2 minutes to explain or his ass his mine". Thanks so much for appreciating the fact that I stopped that situation from turning into something no one needed to experience.
You have a fine, fine way of treating people that saved your ass from the kicking you deserved."
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Trail48
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Registered: Jul 2002
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Posts: 1608
quote:
Originally posted by Debbie
If what Missingmeds says is true it could put a whole new spin on what has been said about lobito.
"You're questioning my words on this? When anyone speaks to Intrigued about St. Louis, they are speaking to me. I walked onto the pation and saw that tool grabbing her breast. I should've decked him and still wish I had. If he doesn't stop pushing his act, he needs to remember that I have his cell number. It won't take much.
Where did all her friends at the meet disappear to in all this mess? Only one has spoken to her since, other than perky_baby telling her she though the troll was Lobito. That's OK, she doesn't need fair weather friends, she needed a real friend."
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Trail was wrong on one part. Nora was PMing me (fuck,half the board was before, during and after) at some point when everything was first starting to bust wide open. But it's odd to me that she later sent me a PM telling me that she noticed an unread PM to me in her message tracking that she said she didn't think she sent to me, and for me to be careful when I read it. If she didn't send it, how could it be in her message tracking? I'm not trying to trash you Nora, I'm trying to explain my mental state of paranoia from everyone PMing me, goading me, and all that was going on on the board---and then the PM from perks telling me she thought it was lo that was trolling me--coupled with the mention of the mole on the back of my leg all led me straight to lo. No one could have known about the mole unless they attended the St. Louis meet. And for those of you that mentioned couldn't someone else have told the troll (other than those that saw it at the meet) about the mole? NO. Impossible.
(To be continued.)
