The Joys of Cheating

I haven't cheated on my wife. I also haven't had sex in five years. I expect both situations will continue.
 
Cheating?

If I were Dave, I would be checking your panties regularly. I had a GF in college who was very pretty and sexually charged. We had good sex, but apparently not enough. She worked as a hostess in a restaurant that had a busy bar scene. There was a bartender there who knew that she like coke. Not the drink. They had their after work fuck and suck and she wound slip into bed after work in the wee hours and sleep until noon. She used foam for BC and I would check her purse to find that her applicator was recently used and not rinsed out. Busted. I put up with it for a bit and then gave her the choice, me or the highway and she took the highway. BTW, foam, yuck! As soon as it's in place, the pussy is no longer good to eat.

BTW Where might I find you. Maybe Dave could find some of "our" cum in your panties!


Before I got married, I was a terrible cheat. I cheated on all my bfs from my teens onwards. I loved being the good little girl with some very straightlaced guy most of the time, being nice to his friends, dressing perfectly and going to all the right parties. But I would secretly date bad boys and fuck their brains out. In fact, I pretty much said yes to anyone who asked.

I ultimately married one of the bad boys and we have had an open relationship for 10 years, so I still have plenty of guys. But we tell each other everything, so it isn't exactly cheating. This has worked well until recently when I have suddenly started to miss real cheating, with all the lying and pretending.

So we have agreed that we don't have to tell each other everything we do anymore. And tonight I had my first affair that I don't plan to tell my husband about. It was wonderful and I came really quickly just thinking about the fact that I wouldn't tell. And he never goes on lit anymore so he won't read it here. I am now strategizing about being a true cheat again

Are there any other women who enjoy cheating as much as I do?
 
You sound like a girl after my own heart. I did slow down a little for a while. But in the past five years have started to get real slutty again. I have an open marriage, so I have usually told my hubby, but recently I have started to cheat for real, not telling him.

I haven't been the other woman that often, but agree that it is great fun to fuck a friend's bf or hubby.
A few years back when I was single I fucked a lot of married women and lived it. Just Somthing added by the secrecy of out. It is erotic high hard. To match.
 
Before I got married, I was a terrible cheat. I cheated on all my bfs...
Are there any other women who enjoy cheating as much as I do?

My guess is that many do. I do enjoy my GF hooking up with other men, her preparing for her "dates", hearing her tell me all about it after, and often seeing a video of it. But, I suspect a big part of how we got into it was the recognition that she was going to cheat no matter what, and that I thought that the relationship was worth it anyhow. Often she's coy about her encounters, I suspect, because it ruins the rush she gets out of cheating.
 
And, might I add...

Despite the fact that we live in a world where promiscuity is nominally frowned upon, it is one of the great denials of society. I don't know which stats about infidelity are correct, but let's face it, promiscuity is hard-wired into us...
 
I've never been married, but I've slept with a few married men. The extra naughtiness of it is exciting! ;);) Of course, I've always felt guilty afterwards,:rose::rose::rose: Morgana :kiss:
 
My guess is that many do. I do enjoy my GF hooking up with other men, her preparing for her "dates", hearing her tell me all about it after, and often seeing a video of it. But, I suspect a big part of how we got into it was the recognition that she was going to cheat no matter what, and that I thought that the relationship was worth it anyhow. Often she's coy about her encounters, I suspect, because it ruins the rush she gets out of cheating.

That's awesome. Your relationship is right where I'd like my marriage. Enjoy.
 
I am currently in a sexless relationship. Neither of us like it that way but it will take time to be anything else. I am not leaving him but I wish I knew some people who understood that and still wanted to help me out. A lot of people I've spoken to don't understand that I can't facilitate a great deal due to my commitments and they've been really awful about it. Hopefully one day I will find that person who completely understands and is willing to help out.
 
Cure for frustration

I was strongly against cheating but ever since I've joined lit..It is like a drug.
I have become a lot more daring and willing. It's wrong without a doubt but the thrill is like no other x
 
I'm a slut wife. I cheat...I'm sex addicted. My husband is well endowed and sex is great. I just love being a bad girl ;)
 
Before I got married, I was a terrible cheat. I cheated on all my bfs from my teens onwards. I loved being the good little girl with some very straightlaced guy most of the time, being nice to his friends, dressing perfectly and going to all the right parties. But I would secretly date bad boys and fuck their brains out. In fact, I pretty much said yes to anyone who asked.

I ultimately married one of the bad boys and we have had an open relationship for 10 years, so I still have plenty of guys. But we tell each other everything, so it isn't exactly cheating. This has worked well until recently when I have suddenly started to miss real cheating, with all the lying and pretending.

So we have agreed that we don't have to tell each other everything we do anymore. And tonight I had my first affair that I don't plan to tell my husband about. It was wonderful and I came really quickly just thinking about the fact that I wouldn't tell. And he never goes on lit anymore so he won't read it here. I am now strategizing about being a true cheat again

Are there any other women who enjoy cheating as much as I do?

There has to be a few because I've fucked them. The easiest women to bed were those in a relationship.
 
Yes another man got his cock into my wife's married pussy. I'd love for another to get into her panties.
 
I cheated so badly on my ex but only because i knew i would end the relationship. With current so i haven't because i do live him but i think about it a lot...

I loved the thrill of sneaking off, trying not to get caught. I'd work from home and go out on my lunch breaks and play... My first 3som was in a lunch break.

I had such a sense of power... I felt invincible. Thinking about it now gets me going.

In general i don't like cheating, like if it happened to a friend I'd be fuming with their other half. If my partner cheated i would be heartbroken. So it's really strange to be fair... I think i justified it because i didn't love him and he was a bit of a dick but it was the most excitement I've had in a long while
 
I cheated so badly on my ex but only because i knew i would end the relationship. With current so i haven't because i do live him but i think about it a lot...

I loved the thrill of sneaking off, trying not to get caught. I'd work from home and go out on my lunch breaks and play... My first 3som was in a lunch break.

I had such a sense of power... I felt invincible. Thinking about it now gets me going.

In general i don't like cheating, like if it happened to a friend I'd be fuming with their other half. If my partner cheated i would be heartbroken. So it's really strange to be fair... I think i justified it because i didn't love him and he was a bit of a dick but it was the most excitement I've had in a long while

I discovered the joys the cheating a long time ago when I did a junior year abroad in the UK. I quickly found a British boyfriend, but he was very shy and didn't really satisfy me in bed. I was with him a lot, but occasionally would spend evenings with American friends.

One day, one of the American guys drove me home and I ended up spending the night with him. He was really good and I remember coming several times. But the best thing was exactly as you said, the sense of power.

Of course, I could never tell my British boyfriend what happened, but the whole thought of cheating sort of overwhelmed me and soon. I was spending about four or five nights with him and then fucking other guys on the side. By the time I left the UK I had been fucked by about 10 guys in addition to my British bf. And I had also turned into a total slut.

Love to get PMs from other slutty women who are -- or have been -- into cheating.

Jennifer
 
I discovered the joys the cheating a long time ago when I did a junior year abroad in the UK. I quickly found a British boyfriend, but he was very shy and didn't really satisfy me in bed. I was with him a lot, but occasionally would spend evenings with American friends.

One day, one of the American guys drove me home and I ended up spending the night with him. He was really good and I remember coming several times. But the best thing was exactly as you said, the sense of power.

Of course, I could never tell my British boyfriend what happened, but the whole thought of cheating sort of overwhelmed me and soon. I was spending about four or five nights with him and then fucking other guys on the side. By the time I left the UK I had been fucked by about 10 guys in addition to my British bf. And I had also turned into a total slut.

Love to get PMs from other slutty women who are -- or have been -- into cheating.

Jennifer

I can relate to that. If you want to discuss it further I'm happy for PM chat x
 
I am currently in a sexless relationship. Neither of us like it that way but it will take time to be anything else. I am not leaving him but I wish I knew some people who understood that and still wanted to help me out. A lot of people I've spoken to don't understand that I can't facilitate a great deal due to my commitments and they've been really awful about it. Hopefully one day I will find that person who completely understands and is willing to help out.

I'm surprised you haven't found an understanding person here on Lit.. Everyone seems to be reasonably open minded.. A relationship has so much to offer and more than just sex, it's just painful when those needs are not being met.. I feel your pain..
 
Cheating

I started cheating on my wife because of the things that she would not do sexually speaking I have a huge curiosity for different things and she was not interested in anything different
 
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