The Joys of Cheating
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what do you like about us?
Dreamer110
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That's a question I've never been able to answer. I always thought I would be appalled if my wife ever stepped out on me. And at first i was. Soon after though i started to become aroused by it. Now I want her to do it again.
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I like the implied sexuality of a woman seeking extra marital sex. As a man I am used to it being a basic assumption that men want sex more than women. I know that isn't necessarily true, but society portrays things that way and in many ways tries to force women to comply with that perception. There is something innately appealing about a woman who is demonstrably sexually desirous and refuses to be constrained.
The deceit itself is a double edged sword. I don't get off on the implied betrayal or potential hurt so much, but those realities do heighten the sense that her desire is intense and undeniable. Unlike so many women who expect men to temper our sexual desire as if it is a bad thing do, the adulteress shares and accepts that desire. She is in many ways a rare creature - a woman to whom I can relate without having to hide a part of myself.
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Love the make you feel like you're the only woman in the world that can be fuck for hours and still be a live to tell about it
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Totally
Davenjenn,
I totally know where your coming from, in high school and for a bit after I was much like you, I put on a good girl persona for most of my close friends, meanwhile I was a complete slut, lol, it eventually caught up to me and it all came out in the end, but I don't think I had a boyfriend that I didn't cheat on in some manner, and found it very exciting to do so! I used to have a friend from another school, my regular friends didn't know about her, and I would hang out with solely for the fact that I knew she was always on the prowl for guys. And as much as I hated myself for it I also loved to fuck other girls boyfriends, very few guys were off limits....even now it excites me!....
Davenjenn,
I totally know where your coming from, in high school and for a bit after I was much like you, I put on a good girl persona for most of my close friends, meanwhile I was a complete slut, lol, it eventually caught up to me and it all came out in the end, but I don't think I had a boyfriend that I didn't cheat on in some manner, and found it very exciting to do so! I used to have a friend from another school, my regular friends didn't know about her, and I would hang out with solely for the fact that I knew she was always on the prowl for guys. And as much as I hated myself for it I also loved to fuck other girls boyfriends, very few guys were off limits....even now it excites me!....
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I was always addicted to girls like you. Sometimes I was the boyfriend, sometimes the other guy......didn't really matter to me as long as I was close to someone so hot and sexy.
When I was the bf it wasn't unusual for me to know about the cheating and say nothing. In those days I was often conflicted. I didn't want to leave but felt as though I was supposed to be upset (when I was really turned on) so I would usually pretend I didn't know. Later on I accepted my "alternative" view point and sought out women who would fuck around. I suppose I facilitated that cheating dynamic because I thought it was more exciting if she didn't know that I knew.
You sound like a girl after my own heart. I did slow down a little for a while. But in the past five years have started to get real slutty again. I have an open marriage, so I have usually told my hubby, but recently I have started to cheat for real, not telling him.
I haven't been the other woman that often, but agree that it is great fun to fuck a friend's bf or hubby.
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I hate to admit how much it got me off to fuck my friends boyfriends brains out....the way she never did
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I turns me that hubby knows some guy if fucking me. I has been many years getting to this point in our marriage. I love picking a friend or some guy out of a group and telling hubby I would like to fuck him. I don't know if cheating behind his back would turn me on I have to think about it.
I hate to admit how much it got me off to fuck my friends boyfriends brains out....the way she never did
Does it make you feel powerful? I love the way they give in to s few seductive words and the try to rationalize the cheating after they have fucked you!
We'll both ways are fun. We often pick out new lovers for each other. But it has been a few years since I secretly cheated, so it's fun for now. Although, I used to play the almost virginal girl next door and then fuck their friends when they weren't looking. I can't quite do that any more
I agree with the other replies to you - the level of sexuality inherent in my wife cheating is increbily arousing. Unfortunately, she wont! She used to be a slut, really the village bike which is something I love about her and which arouses me to this day. But she has lost the urge it seems,,, which is a bit dull.
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If I caught my wife cheating it'd be a major problem. But as long as I know before hand....
Update: Since I started cheating for real, I have loved it for real. I have been with three guys that I have told my husband nothing about. I am hoping for more.
I have told my husband only that I am becoming more sexually active and this he says excites him. So we have decided on a ore cucky relationship. He is no longer allowed to fuck other women without my permission, although I will fuck him occasionally and supply him with the occasional fuck from among my friends.
I will hint to him about my sluttiness. And he has to take me shopping so that I can buy clothes for going out on dates.
Anyone else enjoy such a relationship at this time?
I have told my husband only that I am becoming more sexually active and this he says excites him. So we have decided on a ore cucky relationship. He is no longer allowed to fuck other women without my permission, although I will fuck him occasionally and supply him with the occasional fuck from among my friends.
I will hint to him about my sluttiness. And he has to take me shopping so that I can buy clothes for going out on dates.
Anyone else enjoy such a relationship at this time?
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In my head, I do. I do not know if in reality I could handle it, and I'm not sure yet whether I want the question answered definitively.
I asked my husband if I were allowed to cheat ... opening it up to either men or women. I ostensibly got the go ahead for a woman but not a man. The premise being that with a woman, there would be no chance for emotional involvement. But with a man, emotional would necessarily accompany physical involvement. He is wrong all around, of course, so I remain frustrated on both fronts.
A woman could be a place to start -- and you should have a little fun every so often with a guy. Its so exciting, even if you love your hubby.
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I make a little headway that way, but it really has to be the right woman, the right situation. God help me I just crave something different every once in a while.
Everyone does -- none of us is meant to be monogamous. Just need to get over that jealousy/guilt thing.
Too true. I got over the jealousy thing and now would love for another man to screw my wife again.
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If I happen to have the pleasure of "knowing" another adulterer, myself a cheater, it makes me feel superior that I am desired more than the spouse. I big ego boost. You assume that someone in a relationship has sex at their disposal most of the time, so I am just dessert!
