The Joys of Cheating

[screwher]

If I happen to have the pleasure of "knowing" another adulterer, myself a cheater, it makes me feel superior that I am desired more than the spouse. I big ego boost. You assume that someone in a relationship has sex at their disposal most of the time, so I am just dessert!

Yes, just dessert. If my wife does decide to fool around the other guy better realize this is just for fun. After just more than twenty five years, my wife is still crazy about me, as I her. We're never going to leave one another.

 

[magichanz]

congrats

Congratulations to you and your wife.

Yes, just dessert. If my wife does decide to fool around the other guy better realize this is just for fun. After just more than twenty five years, my wife is still crazy about me, as I her. We're never going to leave one another.

 

[screwher]

Thanks

Congratulations to you and your wife.

Thanks, magichanz, I'm the luckies guy in the world. I would just like to take our relationship up to another level. I'd like our marriage to evole to a semi open relationship with her having sex with other men.

 

[magichanz]

Thanks, magichanz, I'm the luckies guy in the world. I would just like to take our relationship up to another level. I'd like our marriage to evole to a semi open relationship with her having sex with other men.

well I like to take a number to help you and your wife get to that level.

 

[SubmissiveMom]

If I didn't cheat I would be living a virtually sexless life x I know it's wrong but such a thrill and so much sex for me out there..God x x x

 

[magichanz]

If I didn't cheat I would be living a virtually sexless life x I know it's wrong but such a thrill and so much sex for me out there..God x x x

Amen Suzanne.... If there aren't any sexy ladies like you out there, my sex life would not be much fun either.

 

[bibethhotwet]

While husband and I don't "cheat", as in behind each others backs, we do enjoy sex with other men and women be they married or single. We always play together except for several women I meet from time to time alone. We also have several friends who are bisexual unbeknownst to their spouses and are in by in large sexless marriages.

 

[bibethhotwet]

If I didn't cheat I would be living a virtually sexless life x I know it's wrong but such a thrill and so much sex for me out there..God x x x

Just had to say..husband and I both think you are XXX HOT

 

[Madmar]

Too true. I got over the jealousy thing and now would love for another man to screw my wife again.

I wold love for my husband to feel like that.

 

[newhere2learn]

I wold love for my husband to feel like that.

I'd love my wife to feel like that

 

[kucked2x]

hot

I wold love for my husband to feel like that.

What a feeling!

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

I've not cheated on my husband, but I have in the past with an old boyfriend who was a vile person and had cheated on me. I didn't want to cheat as it made me feel cheap and dirty. Then I met the man who became my husband.

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

Ditto, sadly.

My sex drive is very high, my husbands is, but mine is a pain at times. I am seriously thinking about a lover. Not a soul mate, but a man just to have sex with. That's something I think about. I do however channel that into more positive things or in my writing.

 

[tedsbeds]

Lover?

A lover is a good thing. I love my wife, our life and that will never change. But as we got older together, her sex drive waned and mind did not. I am not one to make demands on her, for her life is complicated enough. So I took a lover, for fun, for sex. She knew it and I knew it. We connected on other levels but we both knew what are time together was for, not dating, not playing board games. I was there to please her and in return to please me. Beyond our time together we each belonged to our families.
So just wondering, where on the eastern seaboard are you?
Ted

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

A lover is a good thing. I love my wife, our life and that will never change. But as we got older together, her sex drive waned and mind did not. I am not one to make demands on her, for her life is complicated enough. So I took a lover, for fun, for sex. She knew it and I knew it. We connected on other levels but we both knew what are time together was for, not dating, not playing board games. I was there to please her and in return to please me. Beyond our time together we each belonged to our families.
So just wondering, where on the eastern seaboard are you?
Ted

Me? If that's for me I couldn't say in public.

 

[MilkFountain]

I don't see much difference in telling each other *everything* about extramarital affairs and agreeing to have extramarital affairs and to not bother about telling each other ... but obviously there is to you

I appreciate your opinion, but yes, there is a difference: it involves loyalty and trust. Loyalty, because losing the marital union isn't on the table; it's a shared experience. Trust, because if the experience is shared as an erotic addition to the relationship, there's no betrayal.

I have no interest in being with another woman, but I'm totally immersed in my wife's sexuality and sensuality. The more intimately she shares her intimate experiences with other men, the closer I feel to her. And, she is grateful for my loving treatment of her, along with her renewed, refreshed, re-energized person who returns to me.

 

[Bigspurt]

Location

I wish that you lived near me. Boo Hoo!

Before I got married, I was a terrible cheat. I cheated on all my bfs from my teens onwards. I loved being the good little girl with some very straightlaced guy most of the time, being nice to his friends, dressing perfectly and going to all the right parties. But I would secretly date bad boys and fuck their brains out. In fact, I pretty much said yes to anyone who asked.

I ultimately married one of the bad boys and we have had an open relationship for 10 years, so I still have plenty of guys. But we tell each other everything, so it isn't exactly cheating. This has worked well until recently when I have suddenly started to miss real cheating, with all the lying and pretending.

So we have agreed that we don't have to tell each other everything we do anymore. And tonight I had my first affair that I don't plan to tell my husband about. It was wonderful and I came really quickly just thinking about the fact that I wouldn't tell. And he never goes on lit anymore so he won't read it here. I am now strategizing about being a true cheat again

Are there any other women who enjoy cheating as much as I do?

 

[Somehowyou]

Update: Since I started cheating for real, I have loved it for real. I have been with three guys that I have told my husband nothing about. I am hoping for more.

I have told my husband only that I am becoming more sexually active and this he says excites him. So we have decided on a ore cucky relationship. He is no longer allowed to fuck other women without my permission, although I will fuck him occasionally and supply him with the occasional fuck from among my friends.

I will hint to him about my sluttiness. And he has to take me shopping so that I can buy clothes for going out on dates.

Anyone else enjoy such a relationship at this time?

I love it Jenn

http://fap.to/images/full/49/906/906434347.jpg

How about this?

 

[davenjenn]

My sex drive is very high, my husbands is, but mine is a pain at times. I am seriously thinking about a lover. Not a soul mate, but a man just to have sex with. That's something I think about. I do however channel that into more positive things or in my writing.

For me, just having sex for the fun of it and trying out new things is great. And I have been like that since I was very young.

But everyone is different. I don't think you should feel guilty if you take a lover or that you missing out if you sublimate your sex drive.

 

[chargergirl]

BlackandWhiteWriter and MilkFountain, please take your bickering to PM!

Thanks, and have an amazing day!

Chargergirl, mod of Fet. Central

 

[MilkFountain]

Thanks Chargergirl . . .my apologies

BlackandWhiteWriter and MilkFountain, please take your bickering to PM!

Thanks, and have an amazing day!

Chargergirl, mod of Fet. Central

Dear Chargergirl,

Of course, you're right. . . . But, as you know, it's difficult not to lash out with a well-reasoned rejoinder . . . when you suspect the other person might turn out to be intelligent, after all. I should have read the signs. So, I, for one, should have stopped wasting others' time. Sorry.

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

BlackandWhiteWriter and MilkFountain, please take your bickering to PM!

Thanks, and have an amazing day!

Chargergirl, mod of Fet. Central

Thank you for deleting those posts. Very upsetting and I didn't resort to insulting him. Again thank you A person suggested I'd block him so I have done with their assistance.

 

[Black_and_White_Writer]

For me, just having sex for the fun of it and trying out new things is great. And I have been like that since I was very young.

But everyone is different. I don't think you should feel guilty if you take a lover or that you missing out if you sublimate your sex drive.

That's how I've always felt, different strokes and all that.

 

[cryingalien]

That's how I've always felt, different strokes and all that.

Both are great and enlightened comments....

 

[Pnwdad]

Amen

For me, just having sex for the fun of it and trying out new things is great. And I have been like that since I was very young.

But everyone is different. I don't think you should feel guilty if you take a lover or that you missing out if you sublimate your sex drive.

AMEN to that