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The connection and vibe is what I enjoy about the dynamic. And I don’t mind being Sir when she wants/needs to feel traditionally submissive or craves the freedom that comes with giving up control completely..both feel appropriate.
 
barefootgirl69 said:
Why announce this? Maybe it would be more polite if you ASKED to DM them first.
And, if anyone gets a message from you, I hope they check out all your other posts before responding.
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It was the first thing I did after responding with, "That's...a lot. Hope you find what you're looking for."

That may have worked on me 10 years ago, but it does not work now. Nice try.
 
sweetheart97 said:
Exactly why I'm not longer doing dd/lg. Even just putting it out there that I like that, I attract a shit ton of predators. I'm better off alone than accidentally letting one of them close again.
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I agree...I found oun by the grace of God..here of all places..who is the quintessential Daddy... and I didn't know anything about it... but after talking to him for a while..it all really clicked and has helped me...
But I get it..the predators are bad and damaging.
 
sweetheart97 said:
Exactly why I'm not longer doing dd/lg. Even just putting it out there that I like that, I attract a shit ton of predators. I'm better off alone than accidentally letting one of them close again.
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One reason why I preferred meeting someone face to face. It's easier to assess creepiness, and there were others I could ask if the guy is valid.
 
I have said it before, and I'll say it again: Lit is not the best place to meet partners.

Yes, it can be done. But for every actual Dom, there are at least 20 (and that's being optimistic) keyboard warriors who wouldn't know what to do with a sub if they fell out of the sky at their feet.

This, incidentally, is one of the reasons I don't bother playing online. (Well, that, and I find it boring.) Anybody can talk behind a screen, but can you actually do it irl?
 
BiBunny said:
I have said it before, and I'll say it again: Lit is not the best place to meet partners.

Yes, it can be done. But for every actual Dom, there are at least 20 (and that's being optimistic) keyboard warriors who wouldn't know what to do with a sub if they fell out of the sky at their feet.

This, incidentally, is one of the reasons I don't bother playing online. (Well, that, and I find it boring.) Anybody can talk behind a screen, but can you actually do it irl?
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Smell is also a vastly underestimated factor, especially for women. Although I met most of my exes online first.

I'd say meeting as soon as possible in person is super important. And not getting to vulnerable or binding too much towards someone. That could escalate quickly.
 
Strixaluco said:
True, I'm really dependent on it. Though smell doesn't tell you which guy is trustworthy, or even interesting in anything else than vanilla.
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But without good smell there is no base for other attractions however exciting the rest may be.
 
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