The Bitch Thread

GOD DAMMIT, SON OF A BITCH! :mad:

So the adjuster was just out, looking at my car. He says my axles bent, and that the housing on my axles is bent. I have NO idea what all this means, but he says that my car's not safe to drive.

I don't know what i'm supposed to fucking do. I HAVE TO GO GROCERY SHOPPING.
 
graceanne said:
GOD DAMMIT, SON OF A BITCH! :mad:

So the adjuster was just out, looking at my car. He says my axles bent, and that the housing on my axles is bent. I have NO idea what all this means, but he says that my car's not safe to drive.

I don't know what i'm supposed to fucking do. I HAVE TO GO GROCERY SHOPPING.

Depends on how bent it is. It might be just enough to stress the bearings a little and make the tire wear funny but if it's bent enough to make the axle contact the housing then it's not good at all and the only fix will be to replace the damaged parts.

Does it make any funny noises when you drive it?
 
Betticus said:
Depends on how bent it is. It might be just enough to stress the bearings a little and make the tire wear funny but if it's bent enough to make the axle contact the housing then it's not good at all and the only fix will be to replace the damaged parts.

Does it make any funny noises when you drive it?

No, but it makes a funny clicking noise when I have to slow down quickly.
 
My turn for car trouble - fortunately it was simple enough to repair on my own.

Fucking battery flatlined; had to replace it. And the bolts were so corroded I had to work them over with WD-40 and a wire brush for almost two hours to get the dead one out - new one went in in five minutes - now the engine's idling a little lower, though.
 
SpectreT said:
My turn for car trouble - fortunately it was simple enough to repair on my own.

Fucking battery flatlined; had to replace it. And the bolts were so corroded I had to work them over with WD-40 and a wire brush for almost two hours to get the dead one out - new one went in in five minutes - now the engine's idling a little lower, though.

Is that a bad thing?
 
Things that give me a headache:
* People who have no concept of dealing with the emotions of others
* People who get angry at me for having a panic attack, as if I can help it or like I enjoy doing it
* Living in fear
* People who expect too much too fast and won't allow me to go at my own pace
* People who PRESSURE me to go faster, when that just has the opposite effect and if they'd leave me alone I would pick up speed on my own
* People who jump to incorrect conclusions and get mad at ME for it
 
Etoile said:
Things that give me a headache:
* People who have no concept of dealing with the emotions of others
* People who get angry at me for having a panic attack, as if I can help it or like I enjoy doing it
* Living in fear
* People who expect too much too fast and won't allow me to go at my own pace
* People who PRESSURE me to go faster, when that just has the opposite effect and if they'd leave me alone I would pick up speed on my own
* People who jump to incorrect conclusions and get mad at ME for it

Things that give me a 24/7 horrible headache: being alive.

*sobs*

Fury :rose:
 
Etoile said:
Things that give me a headache:
* People who have no concept of dealing with the emotions of others
* People who get angry at me for having a panic attack, as if I can help it or like I enjoy doing it
* Living in fear
* People who expect too much too fast and won't allow me to go at my own pace
* People who PRESSURE me to go faster, when that just has the opposite effect and if they'd leave me alone I would pick up speed on my own
* People who jump to incorrect conclusions and get mad at ME for it

Etoile I was guilty of that many years ago. I couldn't understand my Mom having panic attacks and the effects of them disrupting our lives . That lasted untill I experienced one myself many years ago now. I know how hard it is to work past these because I put myself in the face of triggers on purpose everyday after, untill for me I 'surpassed' them. I knew the terror.

I have empathy :rose:
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
Etoile I was guilty of that many years ago. I couldn't understand my Mom having panic attacks and the effects of them disrupting our lives . That lasted untill I experienced one myself many years ago now. I know how hard it is to work past these because I put myself in the face of triggers on purpose everyday after, untill for me I 'surpassed' them. I knew the terror.

I have empathy :rose:
Thank you. I have come a long way thanks to both medication and learning self-control. I can now recognize when I'm having a panic attack and ask for help...I just can't always stop on my own. The medication has greatly reduced the number of them - I used to have at least one or two a day and it was very exhausting. Now they are much less frequent and I can deal with them better when they do happen.

graceanne said:
BIG *hugs* for Etoile and Fury. Sorry you're having such a bad day.
Thank you gracie, thank you. XOXO :kiss:

Fury: {{hugs}}
 
Etoile said:
Thank you. I have come a long way thanks to both medication and learning self-control. I can now recognize when I'm having a panic attack and ask for help...I just can't always stop on my own. The medication has greatly reduced the number of them - I used to have at least one or two a day and it was very exhausting. Now they are much less frequent and I can deal with them better when they do happen.


Thank you gracie, thank you. XOXO :kiss:

Fury: {{hugs}}

I had a royal panic attack after my last car accident (or that's the the ambulance guy said it was), and I can't imagine having them regularly. I feel for you.
 
catalina_francisco said:
If it is any help, it will pass and the sun will shine again. :rose:

Catalina :catroar:

@}-}rebecca---- said:
Ohhhh hunny ........big hug.....your very special and very loved here :rose:

graceanne said:
BIG *hugs* for Etoile and Fury. Sorry you're having such a bad day.

Etoile said:
Thank you. I have come a long way thanks to both medication and learning self-control. I can now recognize when I'm having a panic attack and ask for help...I just can't always stop on my own. The medication has greatly reduced the number of them - I used to have at least one or two a day and it was very exhausting. Now they are much less frequent and I can deal with them better when they do happen.


Thank you gracie, thank you. XOXO :kiss:

Fury: {{hugs}}

Thanks to you all for caring. Happily the horrible nearly constant headache has receded. I hope it lasts a good long time.

Going to the doctor only gave me more side effects to deal with.

I am very fatigued with this whole thing.

Etoile,

I know about panic attacks by being close to people I love that are having them. I have also had one or two long ago, but not lately. Thank goodness.

*HUGS* to everyone!

Fury :rose:
 
I hope your little one enjoyed his unusual snack Eb.

I watched Hostel lastnight, and DAMN that movie SUCKED. I have never been more disgusted with a movie in my entire life. It was in complete distaste and I'm glad it wasn't my money that rented the stupid thing.
 
Ebonyfire said:
Shit! the little one ate his mother's right contact lense!

Sheesh!

Eb

Oh my, you could try checking out everything that comes out the other end, but not sure that woud be worth the effort or yuk...perhaps a new one is the only way to go. :rose:

Catalina :catroar:
 
Hmmm, well I don't know whether to laugh or cry, tough seems I have chosen laughing for now. We had a lovely session this afternoon, much more in the realm of what used to be than what has been these last few months. He flogged and caned me until I was nearly flying through the roof, and bruises developed (you know, those things that are all red, black, blue and purple!!), as well as big welts all swollen and bright. So less than an hour later I checked in a mirror I was passing, curious to see it again, and guess what, barely a mark remains even though it is the first time I have squealed when I sit down or bend, move with great care, and feel it in every fibre. He didn't believe me until he looked for himself. LOL, he says I am the first submissive/slave he has ever had difficulty marking for any significant amount of time. Oh well, I guess I am an original. :catroar:


Catalina :devil:
 
Ebonyfire said:
Shit! the little one ate his mother's right contact lense!

Sheesh!

Eb

Once, when I was watching my niece and nephews almost constantly, I couldn't find my contact lense carrier, so I put them in a dixie cup. The next morning, before I got up my niece decided to be helpful and pick up the bathroom for me. :eek: She poured my contacts down the drain, cause she thought they were just dixie cups of water.
 
graceanne said:
Once, when I was watching my niece and nephews almost constantly, I couldn't find my contact lense carrier, so I put them in a dixie cup. The next morning, before I got up my niece decided to be helpful and pick up the bathroom for me. :eek: She poured my contacts down the drain, cause she thought they were just dixie cups of water.

Birth control is a wonderful thing.

I just do not have the patience.
 
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