That big problems all guys seem to have, cumming quick.
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Karmic said:
Not necessarily true good sir. The reverse has also been known to happen. That the gentleman is unable to reach his state of release due to nervousness, precisely because he's afraid that he'll disappoint his lady love with a unfortunate short performance.
The previous answer of masterbating before thy first time is a good suggestion. If thy lady is into it, which is my hope for thee, than her bringing thee pleasure with her tongue and hands, than this too should give thou time to recuperate and last langer during what some might call the main course.
Finding out what thy own threshhold for a day is, might also be beneficial. In a way, thou would be conditioning thy body to last a certain time and not to reach its zenith before certain conditions are met.
Still, may Lady Luck smile upon thee good sir, and may Aphrodite inspire thee to greatness.
I always like to follow this pattern;
1. Have her give you a blow job and make you cum first.
2. While you recover, go down on her.
3. Eat her somemore.
4. Eat her somemore. (I love the sweet taste of a woman)
5. Give her one minute to recover, no longer.
6. Go for it.
I'm usually good for two or three times while she may cum from four to six times.
This is also a good sight for info; http://www.linplaza.com
Best of luck.
1. Have her give you a blow job and make you cum first.
2. While you recover, go down on her.
3. Eat her somemore.
4. Eat her somemore. (I love the sweet taste of a woman)
5. Give her one minute to recover, no longer.
6. Go for it.
I'm usually good for two or three times while she may cum from four to six times.
This is also a good sight for info; http://www.linplaza.com
Best of luck.
His Whimsicality
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1) Banish sexual thoughts while doing it, rather concentrate on pleasing the woman.
2) Don´t cramp your muscles i.e. don´t "pump" your cock by flexing your stomach or your pelvis and making it fill with blood in the process.
2) Don´t cramp your muscles i.e. don´t "pump" your cock by flexing your stomach or your pelvis and making it fill with blood in the process.
cactiphile
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Practice?
On the subject of new partners,
firstly with any new partner you should take things slowly
talking while slowly exploring each others bodies with hands, mouth etc, learning how your partner likes to be touched etc. That way when you finally get down to full sex, she hopefully should be as worked up as you are, plus you'll have a better understanding of how to please her.
On the subject of lasting longer- PRACTICE.
Over several weeks when u masturbate, practice holding it when you get to the edge, reining yourself in as it is. Eventually you can learn better control this way.
I dodn't recommend banishing eroitc thoughts, or thinking of Maggie Thatcher, because if you do this you turn just into a fucking machine, and the women will get bad vibes if your not careful. Better to cum early but with passion, and finish her by hand or wait for round two.
On the subject of multiple orgasms in men - Practice
Again on your ownsome, practice, after youve cum once don't stop mastubating just slow down awhile, you can learn to come many times in a row.
Goodluck
Cactiphile
On the subject of new partners,
firstly with any new partner you should take things slowly
talking while slowly exploring each others bodies with hands, mouth etc, learning how your partner likes to be touched etc. That way when you finally get down to full sex, she hopefully should be as worked up as you are, plus you'll have a better understanding of how to please her.
On the subject of lasting longer- PRACTICE.
Over several weeks when u masturbate, practice holding it when you get to the edge, reining yourself in as it is. Eventually you can learn better control this way.
I dodn't recommend banishing eroitc thoughts, or thinking of Maggie Thatcher, because if you do this you turn just into a fucking machine, and the women will get bad vibes if your not careful. Better to cum early but with passion, and finish her by hand or wait for round two.
On the subject of multiple orgasms in men - Practice
Again on your ownsome, practice, after youve cum once don't stop mastubating just slow down awhile, you can learn to come many times in a row.
Goodluck
Cactiphile
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this works really well but listen because I'm only going to tell you this once.
for a few weeks before you meet this girl , try to have a wank each day or at least a few times a week, ok now here comes the science bit so listen....when you wank get your self to the point where you feel your about to shoot then stop just before you do, now let your balls cool down for a moment then go at it again until once more you feel your about to cum then stop again for a moment again, now you can go for it again and finaly let your cum fly, this will de-sensitise(sp) your cock a little and help you to last a lot longer.....I know this works but be warned you can go to far and de-sesitise your cock to the point where you find it hard to cum at all.
good luck.
for a few weeks before you meet this girl , try to have a wank each day or at least a few times a week, ok now here comes the science bit so listen....when you wank get your self to the point where you feel your about to shoot then stop just before you do, now let your balls cool down for a moment then go at it again until once more you feel your about to cum then stop again for a moment again, now you can go for it again and finaly let your cum fly, this will de-sensitise(sp) your cock a little and help you to last a lot longer.....I know this works but be warned you can go to far and de-sesitise your cock to the point where you find it hard to cum at all.
good luck.
willywanker
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OUTSIDER said:
So, THAT is what happened. Oh well, lasting all night has its advantages too.
Young Knave
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Munch that carpet!
Remember, if you can't last with your cock, oral pleasure can go on until she is satisfied.
Remember, if you can't last with your cock, oral pleasure can go on until she is satisfied.
Grind grind grind...
Another way you can hold off orgasming too quickly is to just grind her when you're getting close. Most men stroke themselves to orgasm while pounding in and out of their loved ones but if she's not even close and you're ready to pop -- bury it to the hilt and rest there for a minute. Kiss her, play with her tits, tell her you're close but slow down and just like the masturbastion tips, you'll come back from the edge.
Here's another tip to make the whole adventure more fun for her:
Once she's good and wet and getting into it, you can bring her really close with what I like to call "interval training". Give her two or three long strokes then pull your peter almost all the way out so just the head of your penis is inside her. Rock back and forth about 1 inch only! Give her 8 or 10 shallow strokes and then plunge it in and watch her gasp!
You can make a girl cum over and over like this. It's also easier on you so you don't come as fast.
Have fun splashing in the gene pool!
Another way you can hold off orgasming too quickly is to just grind her when you're getting close. Most men stroke themselves to orgasm while pounding in and out of their loved ones but if she's not even close and you're ready to pop -- bury it to the hilt and rest there for a minute. Kiss her, play with her tits, tell her you're close but slow down and just like the masturbastion tips, you'll come back from the edge.
Here's another tip to make the whole adventure more fun for her:
Once she's good and wet and getting into it, you can bring her really close with what I like to call "interval training". Give her two or three long strokes then pull your peter almost all the way out so just the head of your penis is inside her. Rock back and forth about 1 inch only! Give her 8 or 10 shallow strokes and then plunge it in and watch her gasp!
You can make a girl cum over and over like this. It's also easier on you so you don't come as fast.
Have fun splashing in the gene pool!
Whispersecret
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Re: Grind grind grind...
As a woman just poking her head into this thread, I think that the above idea sounds delicious!!!
Crooky said:
As a woman just poking her head into this thread, I think that the above idea sounds delicious!!!
