sublust is actually sub stupidity
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cellis
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Well you got me... I have no idea what it means... but this is the second time in as many days that I have seen that reference to sub lust....
I am taking a leap here and guessing that sub lust refers to wanting a master without knowing if that person is good for you or not....
I am taking a leap here and guessing that sub lust refers to wanting a master without knowing if that person is good for you or not....
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WriterDom
I don't get it...... explain please.
I don't get it...... explain please.
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Re: Re: WriterDom
Okay, I am glad to know that I am not the only one in the dark.
WriterDom said:
Okay, I am glad to know that I am not the only one in the dark.
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He's talking about this post: http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&goto=lastpost&threadid=116147
I guess sublust is when a new sub wants to jump right into a relationship.
I guess sublust is when a new sub wants to jump right into a relationship.
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ahhhhh Sandia, welcome in and thank you....... ~smiling~
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sublust=fool rushing in
Ever notice how many BDSM "terms" are simply analogs for regular terms?
subspace=tantric=great sex
You know?
Ever notice how many BDSM "terms" are simply analogs for regular terms?
subspace=tantric=great sex
You know?
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Lancecastor said:
Thank you, I get it now. ~smiling~
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Desdemona said:
You knew and didn't tell me, pal? Sheeesh...... ~smiling~
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The only good part of arriving late is I don't have to wait for the answers.
Now that I know what sublust is, I agree that it can be foolish if not down right dangerous.
Helena
Now that I know what sublust is, I agree that it can be foolish if not down right dangerous.
Helena
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Sublust is a bit like HIV. It is highly preventable if you know what it is and how to prevent it.
Recognizing it is the first half of the problem.
For those of us who have been bit by the sublust bug, find solace in not being alone in your stupidity
<-------smiley just for WD!
Recognizing it is the first half of the problem.
For those of us who have been bit by the sublust bug, find solace in not being alone in your stupidity
<-------smiley just for WD!
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Nevermind.
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Lancecastor
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As a strictly editorial observation, comparing sublust to stupidity and HIV seems a bit, well, extreme.
Why this kinder, gentler Lance, you ask?
Well, it occured to me that sublust is something I'd like to receive more of.
Lance
Why this kinder, gentler Lance, you ask?
Well, it occured to me that sublust is something I'd like to receive more of.
Lance
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WriterDom said:
Oodles and oodles.
Enough to fill a book or two.
Just because one makes a mistake does not make one stupid.
One should be able to live and learn from them,yes?
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subNaive would probably be more accurate than stupidity or sublust. Putting your faith in anyone you meet over the computer where there is no accountability is just asking for trouble.
There is this lady, I’ll call her R, I emailed a few times just because she was close by and on the bondage site. Nothing much more than “hi, where are you” kind of stuff, then one day I get a message saying she’s found her Master. So I wished her well. A couple of weeks later I noticed that she was checking in to bondage a lot more than usual so I asked her what was up. She said the guy had found someone closer who wanted him to be exclusive and he asked that R remove all references to him in her profile. He still wanted to see both of them, he just didn’t want the new sub to find about it.
Pretty typical story I guess, we’ve heard similar ones here. I do have empathy for the online shoppers and I know there are success stories out there. But I think many submissives would be better served by getting involved in the skin and bones community rather than the virtual one.
There is this lady, I’ll call her R, I emailed a few times just because she was close by and on the bondage site. Nothing much more than “hi, where are you” kind of stuff, then one day I get a message saying she’s found her Master. So I wished her well. A couple of weeks later I noticed that she was checking in to bondage a lot more than usual so I asked her what was up. She said the guy had found someone closer who wanted him to be exclusive and he asked that R remove all references to him in her profile. He still wanted to see both of them, he just didn’t want the new sub to find about it.
Pretty typical story I guess, we’ve heard similar ones here. I do have empathy for the online shoppers and I know there are success stories out there. But I think many submissives would be better served by getting involved in the skin and bones community rather than the virtual one.
