Strippers are cool

[Frimost]

Was having a crappy B-day for the most part, gut in an argument with my step-father during dinner, he's an opinionated ex-hippy neo-communist Vietnam vet type. Maybe that's why I have such a negative knee-jerk reaction to the really far-left liberal hippy types, because my mom cheated on my father who I have been very close to and is for the most part always loyal, helpful, and responsible for a virtually penniless guitar-strumming latte-sipping' always bitching hippy-dude. My brother told me when they went to Russia and later on Czech they somehow managed to find all the dilapidated and hated statue busts of ex-communist repressors and rulers to take pictures with.

Anyway, back to the story, I was driving back pretty downtrodden. Passed the strip joint, and then went to a bookstore. Afterwards wondered if the strip joint was open, I drove by and it was. Drove past, parked in the parking lot further on down the road and had that stereotypical cartoon moment where the little angel was on one shoulder telling me “I couldn’t afford to waste the money” and the little devil is on the other saying “its your B-day and you are depressed, if not now then when? Its the perfect time"

The little devil won out eventually.
There for a while, got in at half off the cover charge.
Only the second time I ever been to a strip-joint.
Got three lap-dances, my first, second, and third lap-dance ever.

My last one was a going away lap-dance right before I left.
This time we (the stripper and I) ended up talking for like 5 minutes AFTER I paid her. We talked about college, HS, where I we lived, about her courses, a little about religion, bisexuality in the strippers there (and her own), what she wants to do after stripping (she wants to be a defense attorney), and some of her interests )for example astronomy).

Even through there is an official no touching policy we hugged twice, second time she kissed me on the cheek as I lifted her up with one arm while hugging (women's bodies are so light, its hard to conceive hoe something so seemingly fragile can be so durable). Hmmm. had my hand around her back the bare midriff of her waist right above her butt...nice...She asked me when I was coming back I told her I wasn't sure since I didn't have much money. She said, "that's ok, you don't have to spend any money, just drop by to see me then."

Strippers are cool.

Grab a cold one and let's have a toast to strippers.

You know, it sounds kind of namby-pamby and stuff for a guy to admit to this but after the three lap-dances what I enjoyed most out of them was the touching, cuddling, blowing in the ear, hands stroking your hair, cheek to cheek type stuff in the dance and not the pussy in the face explicit part of it.

 

[Viper Vic]

Strippers are people too. But I wonder how many times she used that line trying to find a Sugar Daddy.(For a month anyway)

Strippers are pretty conniving too.

 

[Frimost]

Well I’m not gonna hold my breath, even a platonic relationship with a cool stripper would be really awesome.

But like I said, I told her I didn’t have much money and this conversation was all after that.

She's at least in my age group which is nice when you consider most people she strips for are probably nearly old enough to be her father. I may not be Hunk of the Month but even I look pretty damn good compared to those Japanese buisness men and the old farts in there. lol

 

[Viper Vic]

Ya never know, you might get lucky. It might worth checking out. I was kinda fond of 'em in my younger days.

 

[Cheyenne]

You know, it sounds kind of namby-pamby and stuff for a guy to admit to this but after the three lap-dances what I enjoyed most out of them was the touching, cuddling, blowing in the ear, hands stroking your hair, cheek to cheek type stuff in the dance and not the pussy in the face explicit part of it.

You crave human touch- nothing unusual about that. My favorite part of sex is actually the skin on skin contact, being so close to another.

Your post has a feeling of sadness though. Having to pay a stripper for that human closeness isn't really the way you want to go through life, is it? I guess you do need women afterall.

 

[Marxist]

Check for your wallet.

 

[Frimost]

Your post has a feeling of sadness though. Having to pay a stripper for that human closeness isn't really the way you want to go through life, is it? I guess you do need women after all.

I never claimed that i didn't need a woman, that was just how some people here chose to interpret the science thread I posted about their research.

Of course I don't want to pay, who does, I am on a tight budget and was trying to be responsible with my money so I knew I would kick myself for spending what I already did not long ago. Bit if I might have gained a friend then its all worth it, something that might develop into something more, regardless if I see her I would want to see her out of her place of business after a few more times visiting her at the strip-joint, say a movie, coffee place, or lunch or something for starters. We'll see, I do think it is something at least worth checking out and I am certainly not going to jinx it by saying this or that is definitely a sign of interest on her part until I know her a little better.

They always ask you if you want another dance after the first one. The first one cut me off after I proclaimed how little money I had, etc. At least she did a little bit of grinding against me, which are technically against the rules. The second one did not do all the cuddling and stroking that the first cheaper dance had an abundance of (that was the stuff that actually got me hard) but since it was more expensive I got the pussy in your face stuff (which in of itself did not get me hard). The third one had all the cuddling and stuff AND the pussy in the face stuff (closer than the second one) so I got the best of both stuff. She was the one that continued to talk to me after I paid her while the second one just talked to me up until the point I used the ATM to give the stripper her cut.

 

[Frimost]

Check for your wallet.

I have it, and there was nothing left in it at that time anyway.

 

[Frimost]

Each stripper seems to have her own little thing in a lap dance that just she does it seems. The first one was ribbing her nipple all over my face, up and down, over my mouth (was very tempted to open my mouth and give it a lick but did not want to be kicked out). The second, I'm not sure, can't remember. The third blew in my ear softly and sensually, something that neither of the first two did.

Nice.

 

[Cheyenne]

Of course I don't want to pay, who does, I am on a tight budget and was trying to be responsible with my money so I knew I would kick myself for spending what I already did not long ago. Bit if I might have gained a friend then its all worth it, something that might develop into something more, regardless if I see her I would want to see her out of her place of business after a few more times visiting her at the strip-joint, say a movie, coffee place, or lunch or something for starters. We'll see, I do think it is something at least worth checking out and I am certainly not going to jinx it by saying this or that is definitely a sign of interest on her part until I know her a little better.

I predict it is going to cost you a small fortune to get to "know her a little better."

Are you sure there isn't a policy of not dating the customers? Heck if I know, I've never seen a stripper in RL. Just guessing.

 

[intrigued]

Was having a crappy B-day for the most part, gut in an argument with my step-father during dinner, he's an opinionated ex-hippy neo-communist Vietnam vet type. Maybe that's why I have such a negative knee-jerk reaction to the really far-left liberal hippy types, because my mom cheated on my father who I have been very close to and is for the most part always loyal, helpful, and responsible for a virtually penniless guitar-strumming latte-sipping' always bitching hippy-dude. My brother told me when they went to Russia and later on Czech they somehow managed to find all the dilapidated and hated statue busts of ex-communist repressors and rulers to take pictures with.

Anyway, back to the story, I was driving back pretty downtrodden. Passed the strip joint, and then went to a bookstore. Afterwards wondered if the strip joint was open, I drove by and it was. Drove past, parked in the parking lot further on down the road and had that stereotypical cartoon moment where the little angel was on one shoulder telling me “I couldn’t afford to waste the money” and the little devil is on the other saying “its your B-day and you are depressed, if not now then when? Its the perfect time"

The little devil won out eventually.
There for a while, got in at half off the cover charge.
Only the second time I ever been to a strip-joint.
Got three lap-dances, my first, second, and third lap-dance ever.

My last one was a going away lap-dance right before I left.
This time we (the stripper and I) ended up talking for like 5 minutes AFTER I paid her. We talked about college, HS, where I we lived, about her courses, a little about religion, bisexuality in the strippers there (and her own), what she wants to do after stripping (she wants to be a defense attorney), and some of her interests )for example astronomy).

Even through there is an official no touching policy we hugged twice, second time she kissed me on the cheek as I lifted her up with one arm while hugging (women's bodies are so light, its hard to conceive hoe something so seemingly fragile can be so durable). Hmmm. had my hand around her back the bare midriff of her waist right above her butt...nice...She asked me when I was coming back I told her I wasn't sure since I didn't have much money. She said, "that's ok, you don't have to spend any money, just drop by to see me then."

Strippers are cool.

Grab a cold one and let's have a toast to strippers.

You know, it sounds kind of namby-pamby and stuff for a guy to admit to this but after the three lap-dances what I enjoyed most out of them was the touching, cuddling, blowing in the ear, hands stroking your hair, cheek to cheek type stuff in the dance and not the pussy in the face explicit part of it.

Very cool.

I'm glad you enjoyed yourself, and I hope you can go see her again.

 

[Lancecastor]

The lap dancer is perhaps the purest form of expression of the nexus in expressing feminine sexuality as a means to a man's wallet.

 

[Frimost]

Are you sure there isn't a policy of not dating the customers? Heck if I know, I've never seen a stripper in RL. Just guessing.

Back when I worked at Wal-Mart my immediate supervisor went to the same club and had sex with one in back of there and had a relationship with her until she broke his heart when he found out he was seeing someone else all along after telling him she had already broken up with him.

 

[Frimost]

Very cool.

I'm glad you enjoyed yourself, and I hope you can go see her again.

Thank you.

I predict it is going to cost you a small fortune to get to "know her a little better."

Well I don't have a small fortune to spend right now, so the next time or two will be make or break on determining if she is interested in only $ or something more. We'll see how sincere she is about stopping by to talk to her and not necessarily to spend $.

 

[Lancecastor]

Back when I worked at Wal-Mart my immediate supervisor went to the same club and had sex with one in back of there and had a relationship with her until she broke his heart when he found out he was seeing someone else all along after telling him she had already broken up with him.

"It's a tender tale of romance gone wrong."

~ The Lit Gazette



http://www.uri.edu/artsci/wms/hughes/stripc1.htm

 

[Frimost]

They had at least 15, maybe 20 strippers there, and maybe only 5 separate strippers even propositioned me (three of which I agreed too) for a lap-dance. So it seems for many of them how attractive a guy is to her at least plays a small part in who they even decide to haggle with over lap-dances. I did see many of them not even bothering to ask me, which made me wonder about what makes them ask some guys and not others.

 

[Saytur]

For whatever it's worth, I dated a stripper (years ago) who approached me in a club she was working in late one night. She never asked for anything, turned out to be a pretty interesting person, great sex and fun to be with.

Anything's possible.

 

[Frimost]

"It's a tender tale of romance gone wrong."

Ever since then he can’t even get in a relationship with any women. He talk them up, strikes up a relationship, then abandons them before he ever even gets to sleep with them. My best friend thinks he is a sucker because pretty women have practically thrown themselves at his feet but he runs off scared, cocooning himself from a relationship with them.

 

[Lancecastor]

They had at least 15, maybe 20 strippers there, and maybe only 5 separate strippers even propositioned me (three of which I agreed too) for a lap-dance. So it seems for many of them how attractive a guy is to her at least plays a small part in who they even decide to haggle with over lap-dances. I did see many of them not even bothering to ask me, which made me wonder about what makes them ask some guys and not others.

Sounds like you need to do an in-depth personal study; hopefully you'll share your findings with us!

 

[Lancecastor]

Ever since then he can’t even get in a relationship with any women. He talk them up, strikes up a relationship, then abandons them before he ever even gets to sleep with them. My best friend thinks he is a sucker because pretty women have practically thrown themselves at his feet but he runs off scared, cocooning himself from a relationship with them.

Geez, you'd think he'd at least have the common sense to abandon them after sleeping with them!

Perhaps he's in some kind of Gay Denial.

Or maybe he just hasn't found the right grrl yet...it's always darkest before the crack of Dawn.

 

[Frimost]

lol I asked that third one if I paid two strippers for a lap-dance would they be able to do anything with each other while I watched. But I guess that is illegal in my state.

 

[Lancecastor]

For whatever it's worth, I dated a stripper (years ago) who approached me in a club she was working in late one night. She never asked for anything, turned out to be a pretty interesting person, great sex and fun to be with.

Anything's possible.

I too have a number of friends in the interprative dance industry. Like any other line of work, there are all kinds of people plying that craft.

That being said, hanging out with strippers can also be an excellent way to lose all your money in a relatively short period of time.

 

[Frimost]

Geez, you'd think he'd at least have the common sense to abandon them after sleeping with them!

lol, That exactly what I said!

Perhaps he's in some kind of Gay Denial.

And that's what I said when I found out her is really into porn when the woman get's DP’ed by two guys and thought it was unbelievably awesome when he saw one porno DVD where two guys both had their dicks in one chicks pussy at the same time.

 

[Saytur]

I do like a man with a keen sense of the obvious!

 

[Cheyenne]

That being said, hanging out with strippers can also be an excellent way to lose all your money in a relatively short period of time.

I was about to give you a hard time for encouraging him!

Not that he should be discouraged, either. But a good helping of common sense couldn't hurt.

Put more bluntly, Frimost should watch out for being taken as a sucker just because the stripper has figured out his weak spot- the need for human female contact that he is willing to pay for. This stripper may be a wonderful woman. She could also be a terrific con artist.