Strap-on sex questions

[oneguy4fun]

I'm a male and I often fantasize about my wife using a strap-on on me. I have bought her one, but she has not used it yet. I think she feel weird about it. Hopefully I can get her past that. Anyway, my questions are: during strap-on sex, do guys typically maintain an erection. Has a guy cum during strap-on sex?

Also any suggestions on how to get my wife to use hers would be appreciated.

Thanks

 

[mtbikercd]

I maintained an erection during strap on sex. I also have cummed, just depends on the situation.

It took a while for my wife to use the strap on me. I started having her just use the dildo without the harness and then later during a long sex session, convinced her to take control of me and she did. It was awesome!!

Just recently, we reversed roles and she was the male and I dressed as the female. I didn't last too long in that scenario, but it was mind blowing!!!

Take it slow and enjoy the moment when it happens.

 

[Chicklet]

A lot of men orgasm from prostate stimulation.

You should scan one of the many threads about anal play and strap-on play in the How To forum.

 

[Roamme]

I like your fantasy

I'm a male and I often fantasize about my wife using a strap-on on me. I have bought her one, but she has not used it yet. I think she feel weird about it. Hopefully I can get her past that. Anyway, my questions are: during strap-on sex, do guys typically maintain an erection. Has a guy cum during strap-on sex?

Also any suggestions on how to get my wife to use hers would be appreciated.

Thanks

Screw her in her butt! Ever since my husband got into wanting to screw my butt I've wanted to put on a strap-on and see how he likes it.

 

[The_Good_Sub]

once my wife was doing me and i was masturbating, I felt like i was getting close and i wanted to finish inside her so i stopped masturbating but then like a bolt of lightning i just came like crazy just from anal stimulation. It scared the hell out of me, i panicked and tried to get away . Now that I look back I laugh because I usually have to beg and plea to get it and when i did i tried to run from it. lol

 

[oneguy4fun]

Screw her in her butt! Ever since my husband got into wanting to screw my butt I've wanted to put on a strap-on and see how he likes it.

Interesting. I might have to try that one if I can convince her to le me do it.

 

[cal66]

My wife has fucked me in the ass with a dildo but will not do me with a strap on. wish she would!

 

[SweetErika]

Screw her in her butt! Ever since my husband got into wanting to screw my butt I've wanted to put on a strap-on and see how he likes it.

It sounds like you two need to learn how to have pain-free, pleasurable anal sex. Read through the Anal section of THIS THREAD (The Blank Manual sticky in How To) - there's a ton of fantastic advice in there. It'll probably take a good amount of work, especially if you have a negative association with anal, but with enough gentle practice, you should both figure out what you need to do in order to do anal without any pain.


Oneguy: My guy has always maintained an erection (at least once everything's situated), and while he can come from prostate/anal stimulation alone, he prefers to have cock stim as well, so one of us usually provides that.

Have you asked your wife WHY she doesn't seem excited about using the strap-on in a nonconfrontational and nonjudgmental way, and really listened to her answer? If so, what did she say?

If not, you need to communicate about it and go from there. If you can find out her fears/the source of her hesitancy, you have a shot at putting them to rest.

Have you told her the thought of her taking charge in that way and you getting a taste of what she feels when you penetrate her really excites you?

Did she ever indicate she was excited about getting and using this on you (and then, presumably, change her mind), or did you just buy it and give it to her? If it's the latter, she probably feels blindsided and pressured, and you'll need to figure out how to fix that big mistake.

 

[CaRaMeLPoleDoll]

In a previous relationship my partner loved anal stimulation and i would often use a dildo or vibe while giving him hand or oral...

when he bought the strap on i thought at first it would be for when we played with other girls...so he could watch me fuck them... i was hesitant at first about the idea of fucking him with it

it only ever happened once and was an interesting but nice change to be the one doing the fucking instead of being fucked... admitedly a little strange... he loved it but never requested it again?

 

[nipers]

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Hi Guy,I got a strapon for my wife.She thought it was strange but went alonge with it.She said that it dose nothing for her but will do it for me and she has. Not to offen but one time I was on my back wih my legs around her as she was fucking me het tummy was on my cock .I came the hardest I ever came from that.Who knows maybe some day I will let a guy do me.

 

[Vacheron58]

Strap on sex for men.

For me it has been fantastic. My wife got with it and we both orgasm. The male prostate (male "G" spot) and the sphincter nerve endings (boypussy) are elements of male sexuality that when done by your wife does not have to be categorized as gay or bi. I believe that gay sex is defined in accordance with whom do you do it. Not how you do it.
On your wife's side she can have also a smaller dildo estimulation on the strap on which will produce her a good orgasm. My wife began orgasming with the bumps the strap on harness gave her clit. As she pushed into my ass, her clit would bang against the strap on base. Of course this is another sexual practice that you do in the privacy of your home.
Go small dildo first and lube and as your boypussy lips get exercised you will add size and girth. Your boypussy will ask for it. Always lube!!

 

[kinkyknickers]

My ex used to love the strapon, he didn't usually maintain an erection. But sometimes if he used the little blue pills he did.

 

[Dominant_Chef]

I'm a male and I often fantasize about my wife using a strap-on on me. I have bought her one, but she has not used it yet. I think she feel weird about it. Hopefully I can get her past that. Anyway, my questions are: during strap-on sex, do guys typically maintain an erection. Has a guy cum during strap-on sex?

Also any suggestions on how to get my wife to use hers would be appreciated.

Thanks

OMG, what a thread, it’s fucking brilliant…

I'm a male and I often fantasize about my wife using a strap-on on me.

I can just imagine Carlos the Caveman, in between a spot of dinosaur hunter gathering, fantasising about ‘er in doors giving him one with a strapon. Real males do not think about getting done with a strapon you loser.

I have bought her one, but she has not used it yet.

What a fool… you bought her fuck all… you bought yourself a strapon you freak in the hope that she would use it on you.

I think she feel weird about it.

LOL brilliant, no shit eh Sherlock… It’s just like those stupid socks you receive every fucking Christmas from your Grandmother and never wear you moron.

Hopefully I can get her past that.

Again, fucking brilliant, I can just imagine the atmosphere in your trailer as you try to drop subtle hints for her to use the strapon.

“Oh darling I’ve just dropped something, when I bend over to pick it up, please don’t shove that strapon up my back passage…”

Anyway, my questions are: during strap-on sex, do guys typically maintain an erection. Has a guy cum during strap-on sex?

My question is, have you ever had an erection let alone an orgasm you dopey little fuck!

Also any suggestions on how to get my wife to use hers would be appreciated.

Thanks

LOL you really are totally clueless…

 

[the_mgp]

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