Strap-on experiences

[v.astoria]

I'd be curious to hear from subs about their strap on experiences regarding femdoms and their experience level.

Have you been the one to suggest strap on play, and your partner was a virgin at it? How did she do? Did she enjoy it more/less than she thought she would?

My first time was with a novice F, it was more interesting than really good, I think we were both slightly subby, which might be why we only did it a few times and kind of faded. we had vanilla-ish backgrounds. I think you mentioned somewhere else that you get bored with non-responsive subs, and looking back on it I can see that was probably the reason she didn't enjoy it as much as she could have. I've got a lot of respect for subs who are good at it, I get the feeling its pretty rare (I'm just going on conversations and the passive-aggressive tone of a lot of sub-posts), and if you're brought up in a male environment that values stoicism it's one thing to know you should be responsive, and another to actually be it. So maybe some level of expertise, either on the sub or domme end, is a useful thing.

 

[FurryFury]

Okay. Thanks for the description. Sounds cool. Why does that pic appeal to you so?

Hi RWatts!

Somehow I missed your query until now, sorry about that. Life has been busy.

Cause it's hot, funny and I want to see what that pin wheel strap on thingie can do. I want to know what it feels like from both ends. I also love dragon things.
Another reason is because the girl is so little and that's just so cute. It just make me laugh and stare in fascination.

Fury

 

[hoodooman]

i had desires to be dominated for years when i saw a drawing of a woman with a leash in one hand and a man on the end on his hands and knees...he was naked...she was wearing boots and clothes that made it obvious she was in charge..it was ust a drawing but my heart jumped in my chest....i envied the guy so much...so i sought out a pro domme...i found a special domme who loved, loved, loved to finish off a dramatic scene with a good ass fucking with a strap on...

the scenes varied..sometimes she forced me to be a sissy slut...other times she punished me with a paddle with me tied up or chained down...god i loved it...the degradation, the suspense and lack of control..being helpless like a fly in a web as the spider takes its time...i would watch as she stepped into the harness...big black cock bobbing in the air...she'd look at me and laugh as i begged feebly...then she's shove it in my mouth as she chuckled and called me a whore..

once she pulled back the curtain and fucked me from behind..anyone in the building opposite might've seen us...though in reality it was very unlikely...

we'd both end up sweaty and exhausted...we moved away in opposite directions..but i still smile when i think of her

 

[BBottom]

My Strapon Exp.

I'd be curious to hear from subs about their strap on experiences regarding femdoms and their experience level.

Have you ever been fucked by a woman who had lots of strap on experiences, but you were just a novice/virgin?

Have you been the one to suggest strap on play, and your partner was a virgin at it? How did she do? Did she enjoy it more/less than she thought she would?

It's incredibly hot to take a sub's "ass virginity" when he has thought and fantasized for years about women in strapons. Just the look on his face is priceless when he sees me wearing it and knows what is going to happen.

Have any femdoms here "taken" a male virgin with a strap on -- a man who was not really a sub, and not kinky at all? The "vanilla" reaction to strap on play is priceless.

Akasha

Hello.

For the two girls that took me with a strapon I was their first.
The first one was a real hot English woman. A short time into our relationship she realized how much I liked anal play. She used rim me or fuck me with her finger, which always made me very hot. One time when I was on my four and she was fucking me like that, she asked during fucking me, how would I like that if she would fuck me with a strapon.
I guess my eager moan told her it was a major fantasy for me... which indeed it was for many years....
We didn't meet too often, so after that time we talked about it online, having some reall hot mails going to and fro. Next time we met, we were making out, and got into ass play, which I never refuse.... I was head down and ass raised and she was fucking me with two fingers, pushing them all the way. And then she pulled her fingers out, took my hand and brought it there. She then told me to put two of my own fingers there... I was totally excited and would do anything - I always am when my ass is played with, turns me into water.
She left me like that, telling me to close my eyes. Next thing I know my hand was being pulled away, and she was pushing into me again - but this time not with a finger. I imagine she saw that face you mentioned when I look back at her, watching her sliding the strapon into my ass, fulfilling my long-time fantasy.
We used to live far apart, and met only ocasionally, for a few days each time. Her strapon was always with her ever since, and always took part in our love making.

My second and current lover I will leave for some other time, as already I see that I've wrote quite a lot.

Loved sharing it with you!
BBottom.

 

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Looking forward to more Bbottom!

Do many of the women here orgasm while taking care of their man's strap-on needs??

 

[AAkasha]

Do many of the women here orgasm while taking care of their man's strap-on needs??

I don't use my strap on to take care of a man's "needs" -- I use it for my own pleasure and his suffering/humiliation. Yes, I can orgasm while doing it -- I used to be able to orgasm from roleplaying it when just pretending to fuck a guy in the ass. The rubbing against my jeans would be enough if I was really turned on.

Now it's absolutely part of fucking a guy in the ass. I try not to let it happen right away though, I want it to last.

Akasha

 

[Miss Trickery]

Umm... I've never used a strap so am I allowed to post a fantasy of mine here? lol I've always wanted to don the strap and bang out a sister sub while she takes care of our man... you know, bridge her lol

 

[tiez]

Do many of the women here orgasm while taking care of their man's strap-on needs??

If it's any help, my Mistress reaches orgasm while in strap-on play. She has a harness that has inserts for her, so she's being penetrated while she penetrates. She's also gotten off with just the regular harness as well. (though that was another partner, not me).

HTH

 

[MissIntrigue]

If it's any help, my Mistress reaches orgasm while in strap-on play. She has a harness that has inserts for her, so she's being penetrated while she penetrates. She's also gotten off with just the regular harness as well. (though that was another partner, not me).

HTH

Next time perhaps she will make YOU wear the regular harness to deny you pleasure while she gets fucked by the strap on driven by you. That would be interesting to see.

 

[mslv4Her]

Next time perhaps she will make YOU wear the regular harness to deny you pleasure while she gets fucked by the strap on driven by you. That would be interesting to see.

What a cleverly wicked idea, Miss I. Maybe you saw my post in the 'Trained to Come' thread.

 

[tiez]

Next time perhaps she will make YOU wear the regular harness to deny you pleasure while she gets fucked by the strap on driven by you. That would be interesting to see.

I'm not sure she'd do that. She's not completely evil, yet. But one never knows. Perhaps if I get hold of a good leather strap cutter, I could make a male harness, something I've wanted to do. That's be nice.

 

[AAkasha]

Speaking of strap on variations, what about forcing a male sub to suck her strap on cock before she uses it on his ass? Face-fucking a guy on his knees is also really hot. The sounds he makes and the way his eyes water -- yum. Making him really suck like a slut -- too -- that's incredibly erotic.

Again, I keep thinking about strap on virgins. I'm working on a story about a few guys who are totally straight and end up having to suck strap on cocks of extremely good looking women as part of a humiliation ritual. I have strapon-on-the-brain today.

Akasha

 

[tiez]

Speaking of strap on variations, what about forcing a male sub to suck her strap on cock before she uses it on his ass? Face-fucking a guy on his knees is also really hot. The sounds he makes and the way his eyes water -- yum. Making him really suck like a slut -- too -- that's incredibly erotic.
....

I was required to suck her cock before she deflowered me. It was incredibly erotic. Previously, I'd explored my bi side and sucked a real cock, mostly at her request. But yes, I was sucking her cock before she took me. Damn it was erotic and terribly arousing. Doing it put me so deep into sub space. The feeling of her hand on the back of my head was incredibly powerful...

The recollection of the event is very arousing... pardon me a moment.

 

[BBottom]

Sucking her Strapon

Speaking of strap on variations, what about forcing a male sub to suck her strap on cock before she uses it on his ass? Face-fucking a guy on his knees is also really hot. The sounds he makes and the way his eyes water -- yum. Making him really suck like a slut -- too -- that's incredibly erotic.

Again, I keep thinking about strap on virgins. I'm working on a story about a few guys who are totally straight and end up having to suck strap on cocks of extremely good looking women as part of a humiliation ritual. I have strapon-on-the-brain today.

Akasha

Oh yes, definitely very hot. Very strong sence of submission, kneeling and taking her cock deep in my mouth, her hand pulling my head while she's fucking my face...
Sounds really hot, your story.

 

[BBottom]

Next time perhaps she will make YOU wear the regular harness to deny you pleasure while she gets fucked by the strap on driven by you. That would be interesting to see.

Hello hello to you MissI!
As always so.....

 

[cantthinkortalk]

hot ..........dont u mean like ........boiling point ?!

 

[uptoplay2]

indeed make it all last!

I don't use my strap on to take care of a man's "needs" -- I use it for my own pleasure and his suffering/humiliation. Yes, I can orgasm while doing it -- I used to be able to orgasm from roleplaying it when just pretending to fuck a guy in the ass. The rubbing against my jeans would be enough if I was really turned on.

Now it's absolutely part of fucking a guy in the ass. I try not to let it happen right away though, I want it to last.

Akasha

Please doooo make it last and make it good for you. I also like Miss I's suggestion about using a strap-on (I'm not sure where my equipment would go in the meantime without getting it allowing me to get aroused.) Putting off my pleasure is not a bad thing as long as it is eventually allowed.

I'm still interested in the idea of doubling a woman's pleasure if the feeldoe that is in the works ends up being long enough to give me an extra tool with which to please.
Not sure that doing that would cause an overload for me as well though. It would have to be done very slowly. Originally one idea for the feeldoe was for the man to hold the pony end (the bulb) anally.... to give him a tool for her.... in case his was not really working. That arrangement would sort of fit Miss I's intention, but she would have to do the work. .... unless this new model is long enough!

 

[MissIntrigue]

Hello hello to you MissI!
As always so.....

Hello Hello BBottom!! I hope that you're well...pm me when you get the chance.. an update of your current stuff would be HOT...

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

Umm... I've never used a strap so am I allowed to post a fantasy of mine here? lol I've always wanted to don the strap and bang out a sister sub while she takes care of our man... you know, bridge her lol

Not a bad fantasy at all ... perhaps we'll have to invite you to join us.

 

[ntp]

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a new issue

I was thinking today "How does a woman practice using her strap-on?" "Would it be enjoyable for a woman to practice?" I'm hoping the answer to the second question is yes, but would a woman find fantasizing and going through the motions at all fulfilling?

Now... for the first question. Of course a woman could just use the man's best option and wank away with one or two hands.... but surely the guys out there could suggest some options so that the ladies could practice getting their stokes just right to avoid the embarrasment of premature... withdrawal with their partners. The whole idea of the harness etc is to avoid having to use hands. Perhaps some women have already developed methods.

(yes.... I really just want to know how desperate some of you are to link up with someone to use your toys on! I'd LOVE it if the darn "Desperate Housewives" would use a strap-on as a part of their development like "Sex in the City" used the Rabbit.)

 

[AAkasha]

I was thinking today "How does a woman practice using her strap-on?" "Would it be enjoyable for a woman to practice?" I'm hoping the answer to the second question is yes, but would a woman find fantasizing and going through the motions at all fulfilling?

Now... for the first question. Of course a woman could just use the man's best option and wank away with one or two hands.... but surely the guys out there could suggest some options so that the ladies could practice getting their stokes just right to avoid the embarrasment of premature... withdrawal with their partners. The whole idea of the harness etc is to avoid having to use hands. Perhaps some women have already developed methods.

(yes.... I really just want to know how desperate some of you are to link up with someone to use your toys on! I'd LOVE it if the darn "Desperate Housewives" would use a strap-on as a part of their development like "Sex in the City" used the Rabbit.)

Yes, practice does make perfect. I am not shy to admit I practiced for a long time before actually strapping it on and using it on a man. But, it might not be what you think.

The first thing I did was actually make believe I was fucking a guy in the ass, but not wearing a strap on. This is probably the best thing a woman could do as a start, I think. It gets you used to the motions involved and the way you move your body. I did this by getting on top of my guy from behind and holding him by the hips, making him raise his ass up in the air and then I pounded into him suggestively. It actually feels good, and it was something I started doing many years earlier as a "joke" with a guy -- you know, harmless roughousing.

"See, how would YOU like to be fucked!?" kind of thing. It really does help get used to the physical movements required. A woman needs to know how far back to pull her hips and how to thrust evenly and hold him by the hips at the same time.

(Yum, can you tell I'm getting myself turned on?).

The actual wearing of the harness is another step. I think actually wearing it, walking around in it, etc, does help. It helps you get the feel of it and know that you need to tighten up the straps to make sure you have control of it. It helps you get the feel of the weight of the cock and how it moves when you move. Plus, it's fun to look in the mirror and "jack off".

I'd love to hear how any other women "practiced" before taking their first man....

And this is an article I wrote many years ago called "A femdom's reflection on strap on play":
http://www.akashaweb.com/stories/strapon/femdomreflections.html



Akasha

 

[MissIntrigue]

Yes, practice does make perfect. I am not shy to admit I practiced for a long time before actually strapping it on and using it on a man. But, it might not be what you think.

The first thing I did was actually make believe I was fucking a guy in the ass, but not wearing a strap on. This is probably the best thing a woman could do as a start, I think. It gets you used to the motions involved and the way you move your body. I did this by getting on top of my guy from behind and holding him by the hips, making him raise his ass up in the air and then I pounded into him suggestively. It actually feels good, and it was something I started doing many years earlier as a "joke" with a guy -- you know, harmless roughousing.

"See, how would YOU like to be fucked!?" kind of thing. It really does help get used to the physical movements required. A woman needs to know how far back to pull her hips and how to thrust evenly and hold him by the hips at the same time.

(Yum, can you tell I'm getting myself turned on?).

The actual wearing of the harness is another step. I think actually wearing it, walking around in it, etc, does help. It helps you get the feel of it and know that you need to tighten up the straps to make sure you have control of it. It helps you get the feel of the weight of the cock and how it moves when you move. Plus, it's fun to look in the mirror and "jack off".

I'd love to hear how any other women "practiced" before taking their first man....

And this is an article I wrote many years ago called "A femdom's reflection on strap on play":
http://www.akashaweb.com/stories/strapon/femdomreflections.html



Akasha

I've practiced some, but it's difficult at times, being a single mom and all.

I don't have a live-in nor a regular partner to practice with as you described above with getting behind him and slamming him without the harness on. I find that act extremely arousing- I have been able to try that a time or two actually those times were before my strap on owning days.

I remember a little more than a year ago I had my chance to strap it on and really use it on a guy after quite an absence of doing it, and I remember having a conversation with my pet the next night that my back muscles were quite sore from the activity the night before. We both agreed it isn't all that easy fucking with a cock.

I'd like to hear of other ways to 'exercise' for that specifically so that I can be prepared when my next victim comes along.

 

[AAkasha]

Yes, practice does make perfect. I am not shy to admit I practiced for a long time before actually strapping it on and using it on a man. But, it might not be what you think.

The first thing I did was actually make believe I was fucking a guy in the ass, but not wearing a strap on. This is probably the best thing a woman could do as a start, I think. It gets you used to the motions involved and the way you move your body. I did this by getting on top of my guy from behind and holding him by the hips, making him raise his ass up in the air and then I pounded into him suggestively. It actually feels good, and it was something I started doing many years earlier as a "joke" with a guy -- you know, harmless roughousing.

"See, how would YOU like to be fucked!?" kind of thing. It really does help get used to the physical movements required. A woman needs to know how far back to pull her hips and how to thrust evenly and hold him by the hips at the same time.

(Yum, can you tell I'm getting myself turned on?).

The actual wearing of the harness is another step. I think actually wearing it, walking around in it, etc, does help. It helps you get the feel of it and know that you need to tighten up the straps to make sure you have control of it. It helps you get the feel of the weight of the cock and how it moves when you move. Plus, it's fun to look in the mirror and "jack off".

I'd love to hear how any other women "practiced" before taking their first man....

And this is an article I wrote many years ago called "A femdom's reflection on strap on play":
http://www.akashaweb.com/stories/strapon/femdomreflections.html



Akasha

Yes, I HIGHLY recommend "practicing" by roleplaying with a partner beforehand because you WILL be sore the next day!

It doesn't matter how in shape you are -- it's one of those things that requires use of muscles you may not use regularly. And it does take more energy than one may assume if you want to keep up the thrusting for long periods of time.

Akasha

 

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A "victim" cumms along?

Dear Miss I,
Thinking of you in pain just hurts me. I would rather think of you sweating away at least every other day keeping yourself in great shape should some lucky guy come a knocking at your door. (Don't even think about it guys! Well, you can think, but that's all!)
There's got to be something you ladies could rig up to ensure that your strokes were the right length and stayed "centered". Perhaps it would even provide a bit of resistance in and out like the real thing. I'd hate to force you out into the market that guys have to use for fake pussies..... not good... and expensive.... and you don't need as much perfection (like there is anything to match a woman)
Akaasha.... without the real thing, what's a girl to do? Simply getting the work out is one thing, but if the resistance was right, wouldn't it be possible to get some enjoyment as well? In the end...... all you have to manage is to thrust enough for your own orgasm. How long could that take?? (and I mean if you focused on what YOU needed!)