Straight Curious Guys Who Only Want Older

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Any other guys out there who identify as straight and love women, but have that lingering desire for much older men? You see for me, I have no actual emotional or physical attraction to men. But there is something so sexually appealing about undressing for a 50 - 60+, beer bellied and gray haired man that I cannot explain. Standing there in front of them, bent over with my pants around my ankles does something for me no woman can provide. Feeling their rough, large hands on my exposed ass and cock fulfills some secret submissive desire that I can never explain.
 
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First Time

First time I got to have sex with an older guy I was so nervous. He was 52, I was 25. I felt so shy, unsure and gauche too. He was sophisticated and worldly in ways I was not. What did he intend doing to me? He could do anything and I'd be unable to resist. Would he like me? Would I be good enough for him? Is my cock big enough, does he like it…? He seemed so powerful, his cock so impressive, so mesmerisingly big. In my case, it didn't take any coercion, in fact I took to sucking him off like the natural-born cock-sucker I always was... He was self-assured and in control throughout, he knew precisely what he wanted, and I was relieved to be guided by him, I felt secure and owned. When he said ‘I’m going to cum in your mouth now’ there was no hint of asking, and no thought of my declining. He was simply informing me what was about to occur. After I'd sucked him off and swallowed his spunk I even said 'thank you, was that alright?' When he assured me I'd done it fine I felt so pleased, relieved and proud, and just wanted to do it all over again. There was never any sense of regret, on the contrary, for the rest of the day I felt elated. Walking the street watching other people my secret felt so delicious, none of them suspect that I have just sucked a big cock, that I have the taste of his spunk in my mouth. Never once was there doubt or confusion. He gave me ample opportunity over the following days and weeks we had plenty of vigorous exciting sex… I still feel a sense of warm gratitude towards him for that erotic time we had together...
 
I'm in a similar situation. While I think I could have a lot of fun with a guy my age, I really want to be with a dominant older man!
 
My friend for just over a year is 78 and has an 8" thick cock. damn it feels awesome when he is in me.
 
First time I got to have sex with an older guy I was so nervous. He was 52, I was 25. I felt so shy, unsure and gauche too. He was sophisticated and worldly in ways I was not. What did he intend doing to me? He could do anything and I'd be unable to resist. Would he like me? Would I be good enough for him? Is my cock big enough, does he like it…? He seemed so powerful, his cock so impressive, so mesmerisingly big. In my case, it didn't take any coercion, in fact I took to sucking him off like the natural-born cock-sucker I always was... He was self-assured and in control throughout, he knew precisely what he wanted, and I was relieved to be guided by him, I felt secure and owned. When he said ‘I’m going to cum in your mouth now’ there was no hint of asking, and no thought of my declining. He was simply informing me what was about to occur. After I'd sucked him off and swallowed his spunk I even said 'thank you, was that alright?' When he assured me I'd done it fine I felt so pleased, relieved and proud, and just wanted to do it all over again. There was never any sense of regret, on the contrary, for the rest of the day I felt elated. Walking the street watching other people my secret felt so delicious, none of them suspect that I have just sucked a big cock, that I have the taste of his spunk in my mouth. Never once was there doubt or confusion. He gave me ample opportunity over the following days and weeks we had plenty of vigorous exciting sex… I still feel a sense of warm gratitude towards him for that erotic time we had together...

"He could do anything and I would be unable to resist" That is exactly how I felt my first time. It was a terrifying, yet sexually invigorating feeling to experience as the typical 18 year old alpha womanizer type I was.
 
Sweet Initiation

"He could do anything and I would be unable to resist" That is exactly how I felt my first time. It was a terrifying, yet sexually invigorating feeling to experience as the typical 18 year old alpha womanizer type I was.

These are the moments we share.
The moments that make us into who we are, who we become.
Once you've had cock, you never look back, you are changed forever...
Be grateful for that, metrodetroitchris...
 
These are the moments we share.
The moments that make us into who we are, who we become.
Once you've had cock, you never look back, you are changed forever...
Be grateful for that, metrodetroitchris...

beautifully expressed :) need to read your work
 
First time I got to have sex with an older guy I was so nervous. He was 52, I was 25. I felt so shy, unsure and gauche too. He was sophisticated and worldly in ways I was not. What did he intend doing to me? He could do anything and I'd be unable to resist. Would he like me? Would I be good enough for him? Is my cock big enough, does he like it…? He seemed so powerful, his cock so impressive, so mesmerisingly big. In my case, it didn't take any coercion, in fact I took to sucking him off like the natural-born cock-sucker I always was... He was self-assured and in control throughout, he knew precisely what he wanted, and I was relieved to be guided by him, I felt secure and owned. When he said ‘I’m going to cum in your mouth now’ there was no hint of asking, and no thought of my declining. He was simply informing me what was about to occur. After I'd sucked him off and swallowed his spunk I even said 'thank you, was that alright?' When he assured me I'd done it fine I felt so pleased, relieved and proud, and just wanted to do it all over again. There was never any sense of regret, on the contrary, for the rest of the day I felt elated. Walking the street watching other people my secret felt so delicious, none of them suspect that I have just sucked a big cock, that I have the taste of his spunk in my mouth. Never once was there doubt or confusion. He gave me ample opportunity over the following days and weeks we had plenty of vigorous exciting sex… I still feel a sense of warm gratitude towards him for that erotic time we had together...

Sounds nearly identical to my first time except I was 45, he was 52 and experienced enough. What I felt like afterward matches what you described exactly. Couldn’t ask for a much better experience.
 
First time I got to have sex with an older guy I was so nervous. He was 52, I was 25. I felt so shy, unsure and gauche too. He was sophisticated and worldly in ways I was not. What did he intend doing to me? He could do anything and I'd be unable to resist. Would he like me? Would I be good enough for him? Is my cock big enough, does he like it…? He seemed so powerful, his cock so impressive, so mesmerisingly big. In my case, it didn't take any coercion, in fact I took to sucking him off like the natural-born cock-sucker I always was... He was self-assured and in control throughout, he knew precisely what he wanted, and I was relieved to be guided by him, I felt secure and owned. When he said ‘I’m going to cum in your mouth now’ there was no hint of asking, and no thought of my declining. He was simply informing me what was about to occur. After I'd sucked him off and swallowed his spunk I even said 'thank you, was that alright?' When he assured me I'd done it fine I felt so pleased, relieved and proud, and just wanted to do it all over again. There was never any sense of regret, on the contrary, for the rest of the day I felt elated. Walking the street watching other people my secret felt so delicious, none of them suspect that I have just sucked a big cock, that I have the taste of his spunk in my mouth. Never once was there doubt or confusion. He gave me ample opportunity over the following days and weeks we had plenty of vigorous exciting sex… I still feel a sense of warm gratitude towards him for that erotic time we had together...

This has the sweet ring of truth. ~ :rose:

To all who are still wondering: If it's meant to be, unfolds naturally and leaves you feeling like you're floating among the clouds — you know that all of those fantasies and pent up desires were true. It was your own inner self calling you to find your personal individual truth and the path to a satisfying life. It doesn't matter if you're gay or bi or somewhere in-between — one perfect time and you'll know.

I do think it is pretty important to make sure it is the right man though — especially for this all important first time. Just have to listen to your gut and intuition. If it feels off, move on. Mr. Right is out there somewhere. (finding him can get pretty frustrating though :( )
 
Any other guys out there who identify as straight and love women, but have that lingering desire for much older men? You see for me, I have no actual emotional or physical attraction to men. But there is something so sexually appealing about undressing for a 50 - 60+, beer bellied and gray haired man that I cannot explain. Standing there in front of them, bent over with my pants around my ankles does something for me no woman can provide. Feeling their rough, large hands on my exposed ass and cock fulfills some secret submissive desire that I can never explain.

I never exclusively went for older guys, but it was a natural tendency, as guys my age or younger were just too pre-occupied with themselves. On the other hand I am physically and emotionally attracted to some men, but I don't crave cock -- it simply cums with the territory of m2m sex.

I always craved wanting a handsome, hairy, muscular, masculine man to want my cock up his ass, my tongue down his throat, and our bodies intertwined -- because it was me and just not anybody with a cock. Though I'm 60 now, I still have the same turn-on's/off's... Luckily I have a wonderful partner, so I am very satisfied. We don't do much because of my ED, but I crave laying beside him as I sleep. I love touching his hairy body, especially having my upper thigh snuggled in the crack of his very hairy ass.

If sadly the day comes were were to die before me, I'm not sure I would even try to replace him -- even if my ED were to go away. A wonderful guy is just too hard to replace. That being said, if I did try to go on and have a sex life, I just couldn't relate to having sex (other than a one night stand just to get my rocks off) with someone who had zero interest in any part of me other than my cock.

To be honest, I have ran into more guys who claim no interest in men physically or emotionally only on this forum, than I ever did with the many men over the decades that I have been with. Most of them were married, and weren't going to jeopardize their life with their wife & children, and standing in society. Still, the desire to be with a man was more than just scratching an itch to get fucked, etc. They wanted to bond with a man.

So again, I don't crave cock. I don't even dwell on my own. As I see it, my cock is my "tool" to become one for at least a little while with another human being -- in my case who happens to also be another man. Orgasms are so wonderful, but orgasms can be divine if the man you are fucking actually thinks the world of you in the first place.
 
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I never exclusively went for older guys, but it was a natural tendency, as guys my age or younger were just too pre-occupied with themselves. On the other hand I am physically and emotionally attracted to some men, but I don't crave cock -- it simply cums with the territory of m2m sex.

I always craved wanting a handsome, hairy, muscular, masculine man to want my cock up his ass, my tongue down his throat, and our bodies intertwined -- because it was me and just not anybody with a cock. Though I'm 60 now, I still have the same turn-on's/off's... Luckily I have a wonderful partner, so I am very satisfied. We don't do much because of my ED, but I crave laying beside him as I sleep. I love touching his hairy body, especially having my upper thigh snuggled in the crack of his very hairy ass.

If sadly the day comes were were to die before me, I'm not sure I would even try to replace him -- even if my ED were to go away. A wonderful guy is just too hard to replace. That being said, if I did try to go on and have a sex life, I just couldn't relate to having sex (other than a one night stand just to get my rocks off) with someone who had zero interest in any part of me other than my cock.

To be honest, I have ran into more guys who claim no interest in men physically or emotionally only on this forum, than I ever did with the many men over the decades that I have been with. Most of them were married, and weren't going to jeopardize their life with their wife & children, and standing in society. Still, the desire to be with a man was more than just scratching an itch to get fucked, etc. They wanted to bond with a man.

So again, I don't crave cock. I don't even dwell on my own. As I see it, my cock is my "tool" to become one for at least a little while with another human being -- in my case who happens to also be another man. Orgasms are so wonderful, but orgasms can be divine if the man you are fucking actually thinks the world of you in the first place.

We're so much alike in regard to needing that 'connection' as much as, or more than, the physical. This confused me for many years until I learned about the term 'demi-sexual'. Turns out we're not weird, we're just wired different than those who do casual. I'm very happy to have this deeper emotional aspect.
 
We're so much alike in regard to needing that 'connection' as much as, or more than, the physical. This confused me for many years until I learned about the term 'demi-sexual'. Turns out we're not weird, we're just wired different than those who do casual. I'm very happy to have this deeper emotional aspect.

I just can't do someone over a period of time if it isn't going somewhere more than just getting off. I don't consider sex like having a partner for tennis. Yes, I do believe that people can be bi-sexual. I think it is probably more common than society is willing to accept -- including among men. However, I have a hard time buying this ideal of loving women emotionally, but not at all with men. I could love a woman, and desire a woman. It simply wouldn't be as intense. The need for a man is just so much stronger, but heterosexual sex is not gross to me at all. So I guess I don't see it as much as being wired different as I see it as BS for those that feel they feel nothing. Imagine someone bi more from the gay side saying they crave pussy, but could never fall in love with a woman.

I'm very satisfied with the partner I have. I'm not looking to replace him in anyway. I also don't have the time or energy to spend time arguing about it. However, I won't lie and claim I respect or understand the crave-cock-not-men phenomena that I've seen more online than I ever saw in real life. I simply accept that such an attitude is where they are with dealing with their same-sex attractions for the moment.

I wasn't an angel when I was single and I didn't carry some kind of engagement ring before I had sex, but neither did I meet very many of that nature. I found plenty of men who find sex very recreational, but they also seemed to enjoy more about m2m sex than just cock. One of the side turn ons is most enjoyed talking about their lives -- something they couldn't freely do with their wives without the fear of being judged weird or perverted, and they couldn't talk about it with regular male friends for fear of being labeled effeminate or queer. Sometimes it was just nice to be able to enjoy time with another man without the judgement of society, or without feeling that you cannot let your guard down as you are supposed to always "compete" with other males.

I should also add I rarely ran into guys with fetish to be a woman or dress so. Most simply wanted to be free from any responsibility to put on any mask that society expects us as men to wear. Being totally naked with another man and feel free to have sex, to chat, to nap with another man next to you without any judgments of how a "real" man is supposed to interact with other men is so liberating even for men like myself who never married. I recall one nice older man who felt relaxed enough to take off his toupee. He knew I simply enjoyed his company, and snuggling up next to him -- not whether he had a full head of hair or not.
 
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I just can't do someone over a period of time if it isn't going somewhere more than just getting off. I don't consider sex like having a partner for tennis. Yes, I do believe that people can be bi-sexual. I think it is probably more common than society is willing to accept -- including among men. However, I have a hard time buying this ideal of loving women emotionally, but not at all with men. I could love a woman, and desire a woman. It simply wouldn't be as intense. The need for a man is just so much stronger, but heterosexual sex is not gross to me at all. So I guess I don't see it as much as being wired different as I see it as BS for those that feel they feel nothing. Imagine someone bi more from the gay side saying they crave pussy, but could never fall in love with a woman.

I'm very satisfied with the partner I have. I'm not looking to replace him in anyway. I also don't have the time or energy to spend time arguing about it. However, I won't lie and claim I respect or understand the crave-cock-not-men phenomena that I've seen more online than I ever saw in real life. I simply accept that such an attitude is where they are with dealing with their same-sex attractions for the moment.

I wasn't an angel when I was single and I didn't carry some kind of engagement ring before I had sex, but neither did I meet very many of that nature. I found plenty of men who find sex very recreational, but they also seemed to enjoy more about m2m sex than just cock. One of the side turn ons is most enjoyed talking about their lives -- something they couldn't freely do with their wives without the fear of being judged weird or perverted, and they couldn't talk about it with regular male friends for fear of being labeled effeminate or queer. Sometimes it was just nice to be able to enjoy time with another man without the judgement of society, or without feeling that you cannot let your guard down as you are supposed to always "compete" with other males.

I should also add I rarely ran into guys with fetish to be a woman or dress so. Most simply wanted to be free from any responsibility to put on any mask that society expects us as men to wear. Being totally naked with another man and feel free to have sex, to chat, to nap with another man next to you without any judgments of how a "real" man is supposed to interact with other men is so liberating even for men like myself who never married. I recall one nice older man who felt relaxed enough to take off his toupee. He knew I simply enjoyed his company, and snuggling up next to him -- not whether he had a full head of hair or not.
Well said. A friend you can totally be open with is a wonderful thing. Not easy to find
 
Older men are so sexy ;-)

I so totally understand this, but cannot explain it, either. I identify as straight, I prefer women, but I have a definite interest in men 60 and older. I am 57, so I am no spring chicken, but there there is some quality, some characteristic, about older men that excites me sexually.
 
I understand and desire older men myself. There is something totally hot about a 50 or 60 year old bear type guy. Hairy, bigger built, large hands.....
 
I so totally understand this, but cannot explain it, either. I identify as straight, I prefer women, but I have a definite interest in men 60 and older. I am 57, so I am no spring chicken, but there there is some quality, some characteristic, about older men that excites me sexually.

Well I am nearly 73 now and still a bi virgin but the older I have got the more curious I have become. Only experience I had ws way back in my teens when I was visiting a friend at his Mums caravan......he thought I was dozing when I felt hid hand working round my crotch then opening up my jeans and slipping his hand inside my pants gently stroking my cock.....I moaned and turned a little and I think he panicked as he quickly covered me back up again. Nothing else happened and we lost touch.....now I wonder.....what if.
 
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