Still not really sure why I'm so much into being degraded despite having a strong sense of self

[NebulaDeism]

I'm confident and "normal" in my day to day life. I stick up for myself and don't hold my tongue. But when a man is forceful with me and dominates me regardless of what I say, I find myself agreeing with even the most degrading things they'll say. A man can spit in my face and call me nothing but fuck meat that's only good for being a worthless slut and I'll find my internal monologue agreeing. He can call me a stupid whore and even if I know I'm smarter than him, for the moment I'll start thinking he knows better and I should keep my mouth shut. I literally never feel that way any other time, lol.

 

[fitfidelityfifty64]

I'm a man and feel the same way. I lead many people, most of the day, clear and confidently. I love sexual humiliation in all forms.

 

[HarleyQuim]

Maybe you enjoy overcoming it? I’m so strong I can take this? I take a lot of pleasure in enduring things for my partners. The more I love someone the more I want from them.

Also, it can be nice to take a break from having your shit together sometimes- that’s a lot of work!

If you’re enjoying it as part of your play but leave it in the scene when you’re done, I think you’re doing just fine.

 

[stretchedballs]

I am a very confident strong masculine male. But once my partner has me tied up It’s like a switch get turned on. She can make me do almost anything.
Kneel and kiss her feet, ass or anything else. Drink her pee. Suck her strap on dildo and beg to be fucked. Beg her to do almost anything to me, or tell me to do anything no matter how degrading her imagination can think up. I have been made to kneel naked and suck a dildo suction cupped to a mirror in front of her friends while they watch and make humiliating comments.