Squirting

[Honeyjar]

I think it is a good idea to share the info with our girls. I was never talked to about this at all and there was nothing mentioned in our Sex Ed class. I had no idea what it was until my husband told me what it was.

How do we go about it? I have a 16 year-old daughter and I want her to grow up knowing what happens and to know that sex is fun and good, and loving. I have always answered any question she has asked me on the subject with honesty, it has made for some pretty funny conversations when she was little. She asked me once when she was about 10 or so what an orgasm was and I told her it was the really fun part of having sex. She rolled her eyes and said "I can't imagine ANY part of doing that would be fun." LOL. Well, boys were smelly and yucky when she was 10.
I have always made sure there were informative and educational books around the house and in her room and told her she can ask me questions of any of the material, so far she hasn't, she's bright and catches on. I just don't recall any books mentioning female ejaculation or masturbation techniques. Does anyone out there know of a good publication on the subject? I'd rather not introduce my daughter to adult sites just yet.

 

[Many Feathers]

You actually can...

How do we go about it? I have a 16 year-old daughter and I want her to grow up knowing what happens and to know that sex is fun and good, and loving. I have always answered any question she has asked me on the subject with honesty, it has made for some pretty funny conversations when she was little. She asked me once when she was about 10 or so what an orgasm was and I told her it was the really fun part of having sex. She rolled her eyes and said "I can't imagine ANY part of doing that would be fun." LOL. Well, boys were smelly and yucky when she was 10.
I have always made sure there were informative and educational books around the house and in her room and told her she can ask me questions of any of the material, so far she hasn't, she's bright and catches on. I just don't recall any books mentioning female ejaculation or masturbation techniques. Does anyone out there know of a good publication on the subject? I'd rather not introduce my daughter to adult sites just yet.

Google it. There's quite a bit of information (not porn info) on the subject that goes into pretty good depth and detail about what it is...and why, and what makes it work. Very informative I say.

 

[fossie123]

squirting

the first time my wife did it was about twenty five years ago. it was a rather long fun night and it was probaly her forth or fith orgasm when she went crazy and soaked the bed. she though that she peed but it was clear and orderless and it seemed like she couldn't stop cumming it was great. i love it when she soakes me it's such a turn on. it always best if i eat her pussy but i can make her squirt almost any time

 

[Jrose81]

it usually takes me on top or being fucked from behind to squirt. but recently i've been able to squirt when i'm on my back during missionary. i squirted all over the place, i even hit myself in the face lol.

 

[Many Feathers]

Oh yeah...

it usually takes me on top or being fucked from behind to squirt. but recently i've been able to squirt when i'm on my back during missionary. i squirted all over the place, i even hit myself in the face lol.

Once again...I'd love seeing that!

 

[Jrose81]

it was amazing. i didn't even know i could do that =)

 

[Many Feathers]

Well...

it was amazing. i didn't even know i could do that =)

Love knowing that you do, and enjoy it...as everyone should!

 

[storyreader84]

So my wife squirts, it took us a couple attempts until we got it down (one key she tells her friends is to relax and don't worry if you feel like you are going to 'pee'). Anyways, the quantity of fluid changes fluctuates but it hasn't progressivly increased, from what we can tell anyways.

We do have to use towels and we both can get pretty wet.

Best technique for us... I start with oral foreplay and then progress to using both hands while a use a little tongue here and there for extra pleasure but it is the hands that are working to bring the squirt magic on. One hand outside just superior to her pubic bone and the other has 1-2 fingers inside rubbing in a 'come here' motion along the top of her vagina so it is basically pushing against my outside hand. I change speed and pressure by listening to her (ps: may want to close the windows if you know what I mean, sometimes we get off by leaving them cracked open). As climax is approaching I remove my hands and place my penis directed upwards in her vagina in a missionary position while I lift her ass up a little for the best angle. My penis is on the longer side (a bit over 7.5") so only the tip is in to hit or g-spot, before I used to go in too far.

PRACTICE, you have to get this down! Guys, there is nothing like watching your wife/lady buckle down squirting all over the place yelling profanity about how 'fucking awesome' it is!

 

[Honeyjar]

it usually takes me on top or being fucked from behind to squirt. but recently i've been able to squirt when i'm on my back during missionary. i squirted all over the place, i even hit myself in the face lol.

I was a bit like that too. Would squirt if my clitoris was being played with or during oral. I'd still orgasm during penis-vagina sex but it was a different orgasm to squirting. Just lately, in the last month or so I have been squirting during missionary position penis-vagina sex. It's amazing!
Also if I am up on my knees giving oral and he is playing with my clitoris I squirt like crazy!

 

[Macbillio]

I was a bit like that too. Would squirt if my clitoris was being played with or during oral. I'd still orgasm during penis-vagina sex but it was a different orgasm to squirting. Just lately, in the last month or so I have been squirting during missionary position penis-vagina sex. It's amazing!
Also if I am up on my knees giving oral and he is playing with my clitoris I squirt like crazy!

that last scenario sounds amazing! gotta try that sometime!!

 

[Honeyjar]

that last scenario sounds amazing! gotta try that sometime!!

It really is amazing. Honestly I squirt and squirt like I will never stop, and because I am so excited and squirting so much, his orgasm is really intense as well. Have plenty of towels handy.

 

[Macbillio]

It really is amazing. Honestly I squirt and squirt like I will never stop, and because I am so excited and squirting so much, his orgasm is really intense as well. Have plenty of towels handy.

I still need to work on getting a girl im with to squirt when she cums, that still has not happened for me yet. I gotta get on that 1st before enjoying the other benefits hehe

 

[skweeky1t4z]

My girlfriend squirts. Its really easy to make her with my fingers but i can usually get at least 1 good one a night from sex. The trick is to have a slightly upward curving penis so as to rub her the right way. i always just try to rub the back of her bellybutton and thats what does it.

 

[cdnmusician]

I personally love it when a woman squirts so I have learned how to stimulate them accordingly.
I have had a few lovers who can squirt with the first one being my first wife when no one had ever heard of squirting...
All the women I have been with only squirt from G-spot stimulation, it can be in conjunction with clitoral stimulation but has to include G-spot. I think the best advice to give to a guy is to read up on locating the G-spot and learn to read and respond to your partner. Not every woman likes to be stimulated the same way so pay attention to what she likes, learn to read her responses.
Vaginally I can stimulate her in missionary with her legs over my shoulders and my pelvis curled/tipped under to stimulate her or deep in doggie. Cowgirl always works as she gets to adjust things to what she likes. Women need to be comfortable and secure enough with the situation in order to experience it.
It is a super turn on for me because she sure as hell ain't faking that !!!

 

[Scotsman69]

Towels?

It really is amazing. Honestly I squirt and squirt like I will never stop, and because I am so excited and squirting so much, his orgasm is really intense as well. Have plenty of towels handy.

I have a waterprooof mattress cover exactly for this purpose. No towels, I lick it up. Sometimes there's a lot to lick...

 

[StarGazer58]

I have friend who is interesting in learning to squirt, Her husband has not been able to get her to squirt yet. I volunteered to help her learn but she said no. I am patient and willing to give it the old college try but could not convince her. Bummer. lol.

 

[swtrthnhoney]

squirting

I had this happen to me after orgasming for several times and very intensely via masturbation. I was shocked at first because I had never heard of it. It's definitely not written or talked about anywhere else.

 

[EvilLibrarian]

I used to have a very sexually adventurous boyfriend. It was with him I discovered I could squirt. I was about 24 years-old at the time. There are many positions and techniques which work for me, but my favourite and the most 'productive' is oral stimulation on my clit, two fingers in my pussy making the come-here motion and one finger in my ass. He would get covered in my juices and he loved it. I miss the crazy intensity of that kind of sex.

 

[Trouble_maker]

lol

I just know I have to keep towels around, so my bed doesn't get all wet.[/QUOTE]

the first time i got my gf to squirt,after she came down from her orgasms and saw how soaked she made the bed and me she said "fuck...we're gonna need a shit load of towels!"

btw love the name NeverWinterNite

 

[StarGazer58]

Sounds like a squirting orgasm is whole other level above a normal orgasm.

 

[Shenron]

Any of your squirting ladies would like to chat? Hit me up.

 

[AnitaMann]

I've "gushed" a few times - never actually squirted. One time, while receiving oral for a very long time, by a very determined partner. He slid a few fingers inside, and worked my clit for a long time, until I was writhing and grinding my pussy into his face, and I had a huge, very wet orgasm. It was the first time that I was really aware of the feeling, and what was happening.
Sadly, it won't happen again with him. So - I guess I need to work on this with another lover!!!

 

[Honeyjar]

I've "gushed" a few times - never actually squirted. One time, while receiving oral for a very long time, by a very determined partner. He slid a few fingers inside, and worked my clit for a long time, until I was writhing and grinding my pussy into his face, and I had a huge, very wet orgasm. It was the first time that I was really aware of the feeling, and what was happening.
Sadly, it won't happen again with him. So - I guess I need to work on this with another lover!!!

MMM. I guess I am more of a gusher too. I have squirted a few times but yes, more often a gush. It is yummy. I am not sure that a gushy orgasm is any better or worse than a regular orgasm, just different.
All orgasms are wonderful when they are with a loving partner-or even on your own.

 

[hot4teacher]

I miss it...

I had a partner a few years back that could squirt. She was in her early 40's. The first time she and I were together was also the first time she had ever squirted. I was flicking her clit with the tip of my tongue and using two fingers to rub her g-spot. She squirted all over my mouth... I loved it, but she was sooooo embarrassed. It took a few minutes of reassurance, but we went back at it and she squirted a bunch more that night.

Over the 2 years that we were together, she got to the point were she could squirt from just about any position... on top, missionary, doggie, you name it... but the absolute fastest way to get her to squirt was by some fun flirtatious foreplay to get her excited and then using two fingers on her. I'd slide my fingers in and go straight for her g-spot and she'd squirt in under a minute sometimes. We eventually got water proof covers for our mattresses.

Since her, I've given other partners toe-curling, hair-pulling orgasms in much the same manner - licking clit and fingering g-spot, but none of them have ever squirted... I think it does have something to do with being in the right mind set because of the potential embarrassment factor of thinking you've "peed" during sex.

 

[Honeyjar]

I think alot of it has to do with relaxing back and letting it happen. Thinking you might pee causes you to hold on and sort of pull yourself back. Relax, it's NOT pee. It will happen.