Speechless

[DevilBoy79]

I dont really know what to say, a friend told me to check out this site, and i did, for the most part its entertaining, but why when reading through some stuff, i did recongnize a a few things posted and , i cant believe my girl is posting our lives out here like this at certain discussion threads.let alone other things i saw her say , i dont know what to think or feel any suggestions?

 

[StrawberryPez]

Does she flat out say things about you?
Does she belittle you?
Does she say "my boyfriend JON" type stuff?
Or is she just saying in general about her boyfriend?

 

[MissTaken]

I can understand your being shocked. I can only offer that the boards do protect privacy in that we are all anonymous to one another. While I try to reassure that it is not unusual for us to talk about our boyfriends/girlfriends, I would also suggest you talk with her about the whole matter.

And, be prepared to listen. Sometimes listening is tough when you are a bit upset or confused or shocked or stunned.

Good Luck.

 

[DevilBoy79]

Aye what you say is true mi lady, i love this young woman with all my heart, will see what happens, keep the ideals comming please

 

[InnocentAngel81]

i think she is posting stuff just to be silly but some people take things too seriously. Sometimes she just likes to do things on her own

 

[Cheyenne]

i think she is posting stuff just to be silly but some people take things too seriously. Sometimes she just likes to do things on her own

So, are you the "girlfriend?" Or the "friend" that sent him here to see what his girlfriend has been posting about him?

 

[heterotic]

I'd think it would be fine to post relationship characteristics anonymously (psuedonymously, really) in search of useful feedback. That's just me, though.

 

[Marxist]

I post about Cheyenne all the time. It's really no biggie. We still have our secrets.

 

[SilverVeil]

I have posted about me and my boyfriend. And he reads the stuff I post from the personal, sexual things... to the " Oh shit you ain't gonna believe this !! " ones.

Hell, I have even e-mailed him a few to read.

He trusts me not to reveal certain things unless we both know about it.

And he is confident enough to know what is real and what is cyber speak.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

So, are you the "girlfriend?" Or the "friend" that sent him here to see what his girlfriend has been posting about him?

I'm the girlfriend

 

[DevilBoy79]

i screwed up badly, no other thing to say, there is alot i have to do, to try and get things right, again,which by no chance is going to be easy

 

[bluespoke]

I post about Cheyenne all the time. It's really no biggie. We still have our secrets.

We know you post about her all the time and it's about time to put your rattle away, take the dummy out of your mouth and grow up.

It' about time but it won't happen sadly.