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Good morning all.

This question is inspired by MMW's poem. :devil:

What is one thing you have done with a special someone that took you out of your comfort zone?

For once, I will share early.

I have been married to my wife for twenty one years this January. One of the things we actually did was have sex on webcam in front of a couple we were playing with at the time years ago. It was on my birthday slightly before I came on Lit for the first time. She bought her sexy outfit without my knowledge and when she walked into the living room where our pc was while I was talking to the other woman, I was surprised. We did so many things that night while the other couple watched. It was liberating and hot at the same time.
 
Good morning Azul and Dumpling

It's a cool and windy morning here, but all in all, not a bad start to the day.

I'm not sure when the last time was that I pushed out of my comfort zone but only because my comfort zone is pretty wide. I don't deliberately push my own boundaries because - well - that is the whole purpose of setting your own boundaries.

I hope the day moves well for everyone. I'll contemplate the comfort zone question as I move into the day.
 
Very erotic poem dear. My question is does your poem illustrate a real happening? :devil::devil:


Yes, it happened last weekend when we attended a party.

*starts coffee*
Good morning all.

This question is inspired by MMW's poem. :devil:

What is one thing you have done with a special someone that took you out of your comfort zone?

For once, I will share early.

I have been married to my wife for twenty one years this January. One of the things we actually did was have sex on webcam in front of a couple we were playing with at the time years ago. It was on my birthday slightly before I came on Lit for the first time. She bought her sexy outfit without my knowledge and when she walked into the living room where our pc was while I was talking to the other woman, I was surprised. We did so many things that night while the other couple watched. It was liberating and hot at the same time.

Last weekend was outside my comfort zone, but it ended up being very enjoyable and liberating. As CJ can tell you, I've come a long way since beginning this relationship with him. In February, I was so nervous and closed off I couldn't even allow myself to make noise during sex. To last weekend not only having sex with him in front of others, but other things as well. Lol
He's broke through so many emotional barriers, that when I sit back and really think about it all it's really fucking beautiful what we've been able to do for each other.
 
Morning Spacer's. It's a beautiful day here today, currently mid fifties w/a projected mid seventies later on. That's good enough for me.
 
Nice poem MMW!

On the question, I can't recall a time where a partner has taken me out of my comfort zone, which is a pretty sad indictment on my past relationships. :(
 
Just landed home from running all day.

I'm tired but not in a bad way for once. I wonder if the meds they took me off of that were making me want to nap an hour after taking them were making me more tired then I realized.

I need to get groceries but I'm just gonna wait until tomorrow.

I hope you all had a great weekend & an easy Monday :rose:

as for the question... <snorts> I don't even remember a date where I didn't have to pay at least half if not all of everything. So I got nothing to even share on that front. :eek:
 
Nice poem MMW!

On the question, I can't recall a time where a partner has taken me out of my comfort zone, which is a pretty sad indictment on my past relationships. :(

I have to agree with AFM. My comfort zone is quite a bit bigger than any partners I have had. :rolleyes:
 
Wow! I went out to do the early voting thing and it was like it was election day. Last week was heavy early voting and it looks like it's going to be the same this week. Amazing after all of the elections where folks jus said screw it and stayed home.
 
Hi all! Wow, that poem MMW... makes me want to go hunt down a special someone and have such experiences so I can be inspired to write similar erotic poems!

What is one thing you have done with a special someone that took you out of your comfort zone?

I think I was the one that was the more adventurous and took people out of their comfort zones. But going out of my comfort zones with a "special someone" just didn't really happen, I only cared about people I trusted, and they just don't make those types of requests. I did with people I didn't care about or respect though, haha.

If someone asked me to go out of my comfort zone, I just say no, lol. Such as, I was asked to go up to a stranger and offer to suck his cock while he watched. No thank you!

Sorry, that's the last thing I refused and happened to be the only thing I could think of.
 
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Yes, it happened last weekend when we attended a party.



Last weekend was outside my comfort zone, but it ended up being very enjoyable and liberating. As CJ can tell you, I've come a long way since beginning this relationship with him. In February, I was so nervous and closed off I couldn't even allow myself to make noise during sex. To last weekend not only having sex with him in front of others, but other things as well. Lol
He's broke through so many emotional barriers, that when I sit back and really think about it all it's really fucking beautiful what we've been able to do for each other.

nice to have the trust to go outside your comfort zone.

It has been awhile for me. sometime in my early 20's for sure.
 
We need more spicy "out of my comfort zone" stories!

I'm mustering the effort to take my dog out for a night walk, my usual, but I don't normally take her out this late. I had an unexpected overwhelming task to complete tonight and I'm so proud I did it! I love the result too. So I am going to get some exercise and fresh air and then curl up with my book tonight, I'm almost finished with it.

I'll need to find a new book to read, something fast and easy like this one. Been reading stuff that is too heavy lately.
 
Okay - reached the end of the day sometime here in the early evening. It was a productive day and I got quite a bit done and most importantly, I have a week of vacation locked in for November. Ahhhhhhhhh.

I thought about the comfort zone thing all day and really couldn't come up with anything recent - most of my breaking through my comfort zones took place in my 20's and 30's. Now, if I go back that far I've got a few good stories LOL.

Book recommendation - I have a great set of books that I can heartily recommend for light, entertaining, and good reading. (And if you like them, the author has another longer set under another name.)

The author is Martin Millar and the three books are:

-Lonely Werewolf Girl
-Curse of the Werewolf Girl
-The Anxiety of Khalix the Werewolf

Also, I can't mention Martin Millar without mentioning one of the greatest books ever written (LOL in my opinion) - The Good Fairies of New York.

Run, don't walk to Amazon and get them now!
 
Just woke up when Fire Rescue had a medical call they went out on. Poked my nose into my emails while up getting a drunk. That lovely veterans wife who jumped me a couple of weeks ago insisting she be allowed to go on her husband's Honor Flight trip now has her son asking if she can go to his training and sit with him. I explained ALL of that to her & the husband twice (in 2 calls) she can come to training but has to sit in the back of the room with any other wives or drivers. She's certainly persistent. I wonder if she will let her husband even go when she finds out I told her the truth from the beginning.

<sigh> why do some people think they are entitled to more then normal people???
 
I think it is two things really - there are people who think they are entitled and the world owes them, then there are people who have learned that is they are persistent and forceful they can often shake things loose and get what they seek. I can be terribly persistent and have been known to simply wear resistance down. With almost all things there are ways through the and around them - you just have to push until your paperwork lands on the Fairy Godmother's desk. It's tough when you're the gatekeeper of anything as it's the gatekeepers that catch most of the flack. As Kipling said "they also serve who only stand and wait".
 
I think it is two things really - there are people who think they are entitled and the world owes them, then there are people who have learned that is they are persistent and forceful they can often shake things loose and get what they seek. I can be terribly persistent and have been known to simply wear resistance down. With almost all things there are ways through the and around them - you just have to push until your paperwork lands on the Fairy Godmother's desk. It's tough when you're the gatekeeper of anything as it's the gatekeepers that catch most of the flack. As Kipling said "they also serve who only stand and wait".

I am that fairy God mother for most of the odd situations. So this family already has a son going as guardian who is not attending the mandatory training. He had to go to the national hub up in his area for that. That's usually never allowed. Yet it's not enough. I just sent in an email on this. I'm over dealing with her. I don't waste energy on "she said" whining. The rules are the rules. Not my circus and not my monkey. If she's allowed to do it the the rest will want to.

Wouldn't be the first time I'm called a bitch. Or a Marine for that matter.

UPDATE - Paul I got lucky and my boss took care of it. She put them politely in their place by email telling the son this is what your mother can do. BUT... She didn't rat the mom out to the son on what a PITA she has been. I'm betting this will stop anymore of these families trying to get out of he training like this. 3 this trip alone for me to deal with once the board OK'd it.
 
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Hello all.

:kiss: Tiamo
:kiss: MMW
:kiss: Starry,

So more risque comfort zone stories......

Before I was married, i was with a woman while I was in the Army. We liked having sex in not so private settings. I wrote about once in one of my stories. (To Corrupt a Church Boy I believe. ;) )
 
Good morning all.

*starts coffee*

Today's question is a fill in the blank.

In all my life, I'd never imagine that _______________.


Mine is, in all my life I'd never imagine that I would attempt to teach my daughter how to drive.


Can't wait to see responses when I arrive home from work tonight.
 
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