Soooo MWM Bi curious needs Help!

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

So where to begin....
I'm 28 and engaged to a wonderful woman. I've always considered myself 'straight' but around 17 started thinking I was bi curious, and these days I'd go as far as to just say 'Bi' although I've yet to have any experience. And of course, strong conservative southern family, plus my fiance and I, and our families are catholic, needless to say I've had to keep this real secret.
When the fiance is gone I find myself browsing literotica, and Tiava.
I've always had a HUGE fantasy/fetish/I don't know pick your adjective, for really feminine guys, and CDs(or whatever the politically correct term is)

So.....what should I do? Indulge in this fantasy? If so how would I go about it?
To say I'm confused would be the understatement of the century

 

[schaum_m]

I'm not feminine but I love to roleplay a woman when I'm with a guy. it really turns me on. I have acted on my desires a few times. I'm married and I haven't done it in a long time but I think about it a lot.

 

[bicuriouscd]

My opinion would be that you had better figure out what you want before you get married , or share your secret with her , if you have had these desires for a while they probably are going to be with you for the rest of your life , and as far as I'm concerned you shouldn't have that kind of secret from your partner.
Best of luck to you,
T

 

[TallOne]

My opinion would be that you had better figure out what you want before you get married , or share your secret with her

Absolutely agree. Just look at all the threads on here of guys too terrified to tell their wives for fear of a divorce, or result to secrets and cheating. You have to be able to be open with someone you're willing to commit to for life.

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

Very good point

 

[SilkyDave]

19 years married & 21 together, never told her, never experienced the fantasy, colossal mistakes on both fronts, the feelings do not go away and self medicating does not work believe me.... Good luck to you, you might lose her but living the lie does not work

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

We talked about it tonight. She said, she was okay with it an understand, but, until she got a little more comfortable with it if I could atleast not look at pics,etc while she is around the computer too. I can respect that, I am a little surprised with how alright with it she was

 

[jim69jim]

cool, congrats!

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

Why thank you sir

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

I guess now I just have to find someone to talk to online, haha

 

[SilkyDave]

I guess now I just have to find someone to talk to online, haha

Should not be a problem there are lots of guys very willing and also very jealous that she was so accepting you are a very lucky guy

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

Thank you so so much SD

 

[Stella_Omega]

We talked about it tonight. She said, she was okay with it an understand, but, until she got a little more comfortable with it if I could atleast not look at pics,etc while she is around the computer too. I can respect that, I am a little surprised with how alright with it she was

If you want to get her a little more involved, PM me and I can link you to the kind of mm erotica that women loooove...
(dudes dont always like this stuff, it's written by women for women)

 

[SirLeo]

My opinion would be that you had better figure out what you want before you get married , or share your secret with her , if you have had these desires for a while they probably are going to be with you for the rest of your life , and as far as I'm concerned you shouldn't have that kind of secret from your partner.
Best of luck to you,
T

Agree, agree, agree

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

She is slowly becoming a little more receptive. Especially since I agreed to one of her fantasies yesterday. We posted some pics of her on here over in the ameutur pics board, she said she wanted to think about total strangers looking at her. I think this kind of works, us both helping each other indulge in our fantasies while being open minded about the other's.

p.s. Sorry if my spelling is horrible contacts are out right now

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

Since we toyed with one of her fantasies last night, tonight she's letting me indulge in some of mine, and surfing pics with me

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

Since we toyed with one of her fantasies last night, tonight she's letting me indulge in some of mine, and surfing pics with me

Now she has decided to let me post a pic of myself on here.
I'm surprised I don't break the camera.
me: 6'6 255lbs

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y83/supercop21/MeattheHouse.jpg

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y83/supercop21/MeNavarre-1.jpg

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

And finally, if I haven't scared you off yet



http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y83/supercop21/HPIM0937.jpg

 

[TallOne]

We'd do the both of you.

 

[DevilDogWarEagle80]

We'd do the both of you.

oh really? See I've never thought I looked that good