Soft / Hard Limits

I'll try anything once. Sometimes twice to make sure.
Don't be trying to nail my tits to a board though.
No lasting bodily harm/damage is first and foremost.

Like "I want to rip your nipples off." That's a no go.
 
Like "I want to rip your nipples off." That's a no go.

Yeah, no.
But by all means bite me so hard I bleed. Somewhere we don't have to worry if it scars. And have the antiseptic nearby. See it's tricky lol.

ETA- NO CLOSED FISTS FOR ME but you can slap me around all day long.
 
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The bad part about tickling is I laugh, so Ooooh, everyone assumes it's all fun! I hate it. I would rather be bitch slapped- hard, than tickled. I cannot deal.

It's not a hard limit for me as it's not causing me harm. I find it more annoying than anything. As I've stated in another thread.

If you tie me up and proceed to tickle me you better damn well exhaust me. Because if I can do much as lift a finger when you're done, I'll use it to poke you in the eye. 😣
 
It's not a hard limit for me as it's not causing me harm. I find it more annoying than anything. As I've stated in another thread.

If you tie me up and proceed to tickle me you better damn well exhaust me. Because if I can do much as lift a finger when you're done, I'll use it to poke you in the eye. 😣

For real you better make sure I'm strapped down good and you make me pass out because I WILL come for you or try to defend myself.
I get tickled just from having a hand slide down my side. I am a ticklish person.
 
Okay the question was what are your Hard and Soft limits, and No is correct, I did forget to put in soft, no breath play without prior writen concent.


Hair Removal

My Hair being removed. One of the most traumatic things I ever saw, was a Public Shaving. It has stayed with me almost 20 years. Even though it had to be concentual (the sub knew it was comming and the event was for Locks of Love) She had a increadable Mane of Hair, (No's is better) she was tied down to a vertical table frame spread eagle, and sedated. Then a professional Barber, shaved her Tinsi Turni (bare as a Baby), starting with head hair. She was awoken after, and broke. I vomited.

The reason it is a soft limit is I trust No, so much. I would let her shave me and and cut my hair. Though I could never cut her head hair, I love her hair just the way it is.
 
For real you better make sure I'm strapped down good and you make me pass out because I WILL come for you or try to defend myself.
I get tickled just from having a hand slide down my side. I am a ticklish person.

You, just keep dropping challenges, Little Girl.
 
Drama.

Everything else can be discussed over coffee until we reach an understanding/agreement.

My favorite response so far Drama has been a HELL NO for me as long as I can remember.
 
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I'm also not big on humiliation. I mean there's a time and place but it's something for me that requires sitting down and having a conversation with notes and everything lol.
 
I've had two friends who've had their heads shaved. The first was required by her Master as a symbol of her dedication to him. She had an eye tattooed on her head. It was transformative, to say the least - not only in her looks but her personality. It was a positive transformation for her.

Fortunately, hair grows back. They are not together anymore.

The second situation happened at a presentation about humiliation. I will say she's kind of an alternative girl; bald suited her. As she grew her hair back, she kept the sides shaved.

Eyebrows are another thing. It's not on 99.9% of people's lists. I met someone who challenged me on it. I felt like it was his way of being contrary. I thought, really? Do I have to have every single possibility on my hard limit list? Ummm... you can't make me drink coffee as a punishment? No pulling out my toenails (hey! they'll grow back so it's not "permanent" damage). Please don't make me watch Fox News. Come on!!
 
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