So I'm gonna see this woman on Monday...

[Starblayde]

I say 'woman' as she's ..older than me... and I'm still *cough* 20.

I met her on some phone line thing, and we got a talkin'. She's got a great personality and if shes half as nice as she describes herself then i'll be on my knees thanking god for a such wonderful creature....

And, of course, we've been talking about all things sexual and basically, we wanna fuck each others brains out/make sweet gentle love to each other.

my dillemma is this... if we were of equal ages i'm pretty sure we'd be going out... so should i be going for anything other than great company and hopefully great sex?

or do i just chalk this up as a great big learning experience and milk her (so to speak) for all she's gonna give me?

 

[Meltzer]

play it by ear dude. you havent even seen here yet. even from a handful of conversations, you dont really know her. so why make that type of judgement before you even meet her face to face?

 

[StrawberryPez]

Honey, don't put too much thought into it. Just let happen what will happen. If you try to label things before you know for sure what will happen, it will just make the meeting more difficult. You will already be nervous so you don't need to add any other things into it.

You may not even like her when you meet her in person. I really hope that you do though. You are a sweetheart, and deserve a wonderful woman. I hope all goes well.

 

[Cherry]

How much older is she than you?

I guess you'll have your answer after you two meet. Personally, I feel age is irrelevant. if two people get along well. But, at your young age, there may be other concerns (ex: childbearing) that you should consider.

Just go and have some fun ... and, worry about the future later.

 

[Starblayde]

play it by ear dude. you havent even seen here yet. even from a handful of conversations, you dont really know her. so why make that type of judgement before you even meet her face to face?

I know enough that we click... as we have talked for hours, but i see the point

It seems like the ear thing should do..

And thankyou so much for the encouragement, Pez

 

[StrawberryPez]

Anytime Sweetie.

 

[Starblayde]

How much older is she than you?

I guess you'll have your answer after you two meet. Personally, I feel age is irrelevant. if two people get along well. But, at your young age, there may be other concerns (ex: childbearing) that you should consider.

Just go and have some fun ... and, worry about the future later.

she's 34... which for me is a sizeable difference.... but anyway.. we'll see and i'll come back and tell you all about it next week...


Oh god, it sounds like i'm on Blind Date or something....

 

[Master Control]

Bang her and dump her..

 

[IrishWolfhound]

Star...a date? With a woman? A human one? (Trying to remember what that was like....)

Seriously, my friend, the advice to play it by ear is good. Too much anticipation can lead to great stress on both of you when you meet for the first time. And even greater disappoint ment if all does not go as imagined.

 

[Siren]

 

[Starblayde]

I'm sure there's still much you canteach me, Siren

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Siren]

 

[IrishWolfhound]

Did Brat say 'jeepers' ?

I thought I heard that too. Maybe she's trying out for the road company of "Annie" and needs the practice.

If she wants to rehearse, I'd be happy to play Daddy Warbucks and let her sit on my lap.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Nora]

I'm 32 and (no offense, Starblayde) I just simply couldn't imagine having a relationship with a 20 year old. Well, I mean, a RELATIONSHIP. I can imagine banging one 'til he whimpers and begs for mercy, but that's about it.

I do not believe that age is irrelevant, though. I think that there will be such a gap between you in terms of outlook and expectations that it'll really take care of itself in short order.

Until then, have fun with it and enjoy your meeting with one another. =)

 

[bknight2602]

I'm 32 and (no offense, Starblayde) I just simply couldn't imagine having a relationship with a 20 year old. Well, I mean, a RELATIONSHIP. I can imagine banging one 'til he whimpers and begs for mercy, but that's about it.

I do not believe that age is irrelevant, though. I think that there will be such a gap between you in terms of outlook and expectations that it'll really take care of itself in short order.

Until then, have fun with it and enjoy your meeting with one another. =)

Well put Nora, there is an age relevency but not between *20* and 34. Maybe between *20* and 50!

Bang em and then throw them away? mmmmmmmmmm

Devil woman, hehehe

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[Siren]

 

[IrishWolfhound]

I'm 45 and my current Lady is 35. She doesnt seem to mind. Am I her "old fart" toy?

 

[Laurel]

Women in their 30s rock. And I'm not just saying that 'cause I turned 30 this year.

Okay, maybe I am.

 

[IrishWolfhound]

Women in their 30s rock. And I'm not just saying that 'cause I turned 30 this year.

Okay, maybe I am.

I very much agree. Now if only she felt a man in his 40's rocks...

 

[StrawberryPez]

Hey?! Did you ever meet this woman? How did it go?

Did I already miss the update thread?

I don't pay attention.

 

[peachykeen]

Yeah, as a 33 yr old, I really need to know how it went, too.

 

[Starblayde]

Well...

She'd promised me that when we met on Monday we wouldn't get it on... so she came over Sunday night and we fucked all night and the morning too....

She's got a great body and is jyust as nice in person as on the phone. We can't wait to do each other again.

Apparently I'm rather good