So how are we going to avoid DRAMA scenes and Hurt Feelings in Vegas?
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Wow! Siren has a point.
Many people may have expectations (not me, I know you're all losers
), and they may be let down by the way people act.
I think that everyone should have to agree to not expect anything from anyone, and just go and meet people and see who you hit it off with.
Many people may have expectations (not me, I know you're all losers
), and they may be let down by the way people act. I think that everyone should have to agree to not expect anything from anyone, and just go and meet people and see who you hit it off with.
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Re: Well Laurel, I for one do not want to see anyone hurt.
I know...I'm just teasin'.
I think Dillinger is going to send out an email regarding expectations, etc. to participants before the event. Or maybe he's going to post it. I forget.
Siren said:...and 'relationships' and 'flirtations' have already given people proprietory ideas about others here....wait til we are one on one.
And the jealousy and cat fight and bitterness prevails here from just who talks to whom and
who posts the most to whom.......
Just wait til someone hooks up with someone else and the one planning to be with that person is left out?
Woo Hooo is it going to be ugly.
And I dont find entertainment in that.
Nor pleasure in other's self esteem being damaged by rejection.
I mean I cant be with everyone there ya know.
Actually, in all seriousness, this is something to be taken into consideration. And the aftermath which will effect this Site after Vegas.
I know...I'm just teasin'.
I think Dillinger is going to send out an email regarding expectations, etc. to participants before the event. Or maybe he's going to post it. I forget.
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All that are or should be attending are consenting, legal, respectful adults right?
I have a feeling we can all act like it for a couple days, at least I hope so.
People should expect some hook ups there, I mean, come on, this is an erotic website after all, and it's bound to happen.
All in all, like I said before, we should all try to at least have fun, and make a somewhat concious effort to meet as many as we can, I know I will. That is what it is about after all isnt it? Meeting and having fun, and getting along for a change??
Bring on the sex toys!!!
I have a feeling we can all act like it for a couple days, at least I hope so.
People should expect some hook ups there, I mean, come on, this is an erotic website after all, and it's bound to happen.
All in all, like I said before, we should all try to at least have fun, and make a somewhat concious effort to meet as many as we can, I know I will. That is what it is about after all isnt it? Meeting and having fun, and getting along for a change??
Bring on the sex toys!!!
Transposing what the BB is like into RL is going to be interesting.
Maybe since this has been brought up, we should lay out our personal respect policies here, to avoid confusion...
I'll go first.....
I guess I should make it clear that my sexual fun here pretty much ends here. I mean that. If anyone really expects me to fuck them, they must first realize that I am married, and that I am never going to disrespect or 'cheat' on my husband.
Now, a consentual threesome, orgy whatever, isn't out of the question, but if you want to get it on with me, you have to go through my Davy. Ladies, don't panic, he isn't threatend by other women, just men, and probably for good reason.
There will be no Starfish taking her clothes off to show the real life goods, unless I am drunk, which will be unlikely, but not impossible. Who's buying?
Well, I am not a picky person, about who I hang out with, as long as you arn't a cold person, because I am all warm and cuddly and icky like that. If I do make it out, I will be sure to be the one to force you to hang out with me, if you are one of the awkward people standing around alone, because I'll have you loosend up in no time, and farting, and joking, and getting all drunk and laughing, and throwing shit at the 'popular' folks, and well... No climbing that huge waving cowboy guy.
Maybe since this has been brought up, we should lay out our personal respect policies here, to avoid confusion...
I'll go first.....
I guess I should make it clear that my sexual fun here pretty much ends here. I mean that. If anyone really expects me to fuck them, they must first realize that I am married, and that I am never going to disrespect or 'cheat' on my husband.
Now, a consentual threesome, orgy whatever, isn't out of the question, but if you want to get it on with me, you have to go through my Davy. Ladies, don't panic, he isn't threatend by other women, just men, and probably for good reason.
There will be no Starfish taking her clothes off to show the real life goods, unless I am drunk, which will be unlikely, but not impossible. Who's buying?
Well, I am not a picky person, about who I hang out with, as long as you arn't a cold person, because I am all warm and cuddly and icky like that. If I do make it out, I will be sure to be the one to force you to hang out with me, if you are one of the awkward people standing around alone, because I'll have you loosend up in no time, and farting, and joking, and getting all drunk and laughing, and throwing shit at the 'popular' folks, and well... No climbing that huge waving cowboy guy.
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I think we all just need to go, chill, have fun, be adults, and everything will be okie-dokie.
When I was a young 'un, I used to go to little BBS gatherings where people who called BBS's would get together. Not too different from what we're planning. Usually these were fairly tame events (as I was much, much younger), and everyone got together and had fun.
If some of us go to this thing and get drunk and sleep around or get in fights, or have some weird drama issue thing, that's their business. We can collectively talk about being responsible all day long, but at the end of the day only we ourselves can control our own behavior.
The important thing is for us to not make this into a big fricken ordeal. It's a fun little get together, a chance to see the faces behind the words. That's all! Expect to show up, have a little fun, and leave and there won't be anything to stress on.
When I was a young 'un, I used to go to little BBS gatherings where people who called BBS's would get together. Not too different from what we're planning. Usually these were fairly tame events (as I was much, much younger), and everyone got together and had fun.
If some of us go to this thing and get drunk and sleep around or get in fights, or have some weird drama issue thing, that's their business. We can collectively talk about being responsible all day long, but at the end of the day only we ourselves can control our own behavior.
The important thing is for us to not make this into a big fricken ordeal. It's a fun little get together, a chance to see the faces behind the words. That's all! Expect to show up, have a little fun, and leave and there won't be anything to stress on.
I meant to add that we could all post who we'd really like to meet and why, and if you have real feelings, you should be honest.
I want to meet and hang out with every last one of you.
I have no expectations, other than for PC to get me drunk on Mimosas so I'll be more likely to exhibit myself.
I want to meet and hang out with every last one of you.
I have no expectations, other than for PC to get me drunk on Mimosas so I'll be more likely to exhibit myself.
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Re: Val, you arent hearing me...havent you noticed?
I think it'll be fine. I think people do things on the Net because they CAN - I doubt any of us act as kooky in real life as we do here sometimes. In the BBS days, there were guys who'd be the biggest dicks on the BBS, but then would be shy and mild in person. Our RL faces and online faces aren't the same faces.
Siren said:
I think it'll be fine. I think people do things on the Net because they CAN - I doubt any of us act as kooky in real life as we do here sometimes. In the BBS days, there were guys who'd be the biggest dicks on the BBS, but then would be shy and mild in person. Our RL faces and online faces aren't the same faces.
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Hey, I care too, and have had my dealing with trolls and flames, and have seen how it affects other people as well.
What ever happens, happens, is what I say.
And I'm not ignoring, I do pay attention to what goes on at this board. But I honestly dont think it will be as bad as you think, IMHO.
But, like my father always says "Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one, and they all stink."
Like I said, just my humble opinion.
What ever happens, happens, is what I say.
And I'm not ignoring, I do pay attention to what goes on at this board. But I honestly dont think it will be as bad as you think, IMHO.
But, like my father always says "Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one, and they all stink."
Like I said, just my humble opinion.
Good points Laurel, I think RL does tame peoples reactions... however the hurt that my occur is serious, so it is important for women especially to loose their expectations of others. Men may very well find hurt, but they tend to get distracted by showgirls and skimpy outfits.
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