Size does matter

[Escierto]

Size does not matter to me. The first girl who fucked me had a small cock but she was a phenomenal fucker with a strong sex drive. If we had made a good couple, I would have been content with her cock forever. Of course, that is not how these things work.

 

[LMWM321]

In my opinion, size absolutely matters. What I see some posting here missing, is the fact that even if a person picks an average sized dildo, or prefers an average sized penis, that's a preference. The size of it matters, whether it's small, medium or large. Everybody is different. Everyone has preferences.

I know you're trying to argue against the point I'm making but to me, this is a very wordy way of saying size matters. It's not the only factor, but it's probably in the top three.

I get your point… But when men say size matters what is usually being conveyed is the idea that most women prefer bigger. And its that point I am disagreeing with. But yes, size of course matters, and most women, given their choice, would take average over very small or very large.

 

[Typo Fu Master]

Size does not matter to me. The first girl who fucked me had a small cock but she was a phenomenal fucker with a strong sex drive. If we had made a good couple, I would have been content with her cock forever. Of course, that is not how these things work.

So I guess what you're saying is, you have preferences and size isn't one of them. I'm sure you're not alone. I should have said there will always be caveats to a sweeping generalization. For a lot of people, size matters.

 

[Typo Fu Master]

I get your point… But when men say size matters what is usually being conveyed is the idea that most women prefer bigger. And its that point I am disagreeing with. But yes, size of course matters, and most women, given their choice, would take average over very small or very large.

It's my understanding that a woman started this topic. This is speculation on my part because the profile is no longer available and the title this user chose was "HinduGirl4MuslimMen."

I favor the women's opinion on this because men have big egos when it comes to the size of their penis.

 

[gtnlynn]

In her younger days, my wife experienced a variety of cocks, and she said all sizes were fine. If pressed, she will admit that thickness matters. She likes to feel filled by a thick cock, even if it isn't long.

 

[Typo Fu Master]

Bigger isn't always better.

Side note. If you have an extremely big penis, you're missing out on "Balls Deep."

 

[Typo Fu Master]

Bigger isn't always better.

Side note. If you have an extremely big penis, you're missing out on "Balls Deep."

Unless they're into anal. Not judging. Huge anal fan.

 

[Escierto]

Bigger isn't always better.

Side note. If you have an extremely big penis, you're missing out on "Balls Deep."

Yeah but it would have to be really big.

 

[LFM90]

It has become very correct to say size really does not matter. I don't believe that. I think it's a way of making average and less endowed men feel not so inadequate. It has become part of the hypocrisy of correctness to propagate this. Ask any girl who enjoys sex with men, and she will confirm size does matter. After all sexual congress is an invasive process and the female body is naturally built for the intrusion of the phallus. So we do get most of our pleasure by the thrusting hardness of our lover's hardness and fullness. Don't get me wrong. It's not the only thing that matters. Technique and attitude also have a lot to do. But size is the most important. Love to hear from others especially other girls.

I have a small penis but I eat like a champ and love doing it

 

[Typo Fu Master]

Yeah but it would have to be really big.

Well, yes? I think I mentioned it would have to be extremely big. I'm no expert on what women want to feel. I imagine most would want to feel full, with maybe a gentle tap on their cervix. Some might enjoy the way their partner thrusts more than how big it is. Some are all about the girth.

 

[EmmaPlease]

I need to be filled.

While I’ve certainly taken smaller guys who’ve done amazing jobs with their tongues and fingers, at the end of the day I need to be stretched. I want to feel penetrated. I want to take my lover as deep inside me as anatomically possible.

For me, unfortunately, less than the standard six inches just doesn’t cut it.

 

[Escierto]

I need to be filled.

While I’ve certainly taken smaller guys who’ve done amazing jobs with their tongues and fingers, at the end of the day I need to stretched. I want to feel penetrated. I want to take my lover as deep inside me as anatomically possible.

For me, unfortunately, less than the standard six inches just doesn’t cut it.

I know how you feel. Although I would have been content to be in a LTR with the small cocked girl, my gf has a big cock that really fills me up. You know that you have been fucked when she gets through with you!

 

[Typo Fu Master]

Size does not matter to me. The first girl who fucked me had a small cock but she was a phenomenal fucker with a strong sex drive. If we had made a good couple, I would have been content with her cock forever. Of course, that is not how these things work.

I know how you feel. Although I would have been content to be in a LTR with the small cocked girl, my gf has a big cock that really fills me up. You know that you have been fucked when she gets through with you!

Ok. Which is it?

 

[Typo Fu Master]

Either size doesn't matter or it does. Most people seem to lean towards the latter.

 

[Escierto]

Ok. Which is it?

It's both. Of course a big cock has its appeal and yeah, you know that you have been fucked when you have taken one but that's not all there is. My girlfriend with the big one fucks me once a day and it's one and done. The other girl routinely fucked me several times a day. Her cock was small but she was one helluva fucker!

 

[GenXJay]

But yes, size of course matters, and most women, given their choice, would take average over very small or very large.

That about sums it up. Of course there are always outliers.

 

[Typo Fu Master]

It's both. Of course a big cock has its appeal and yeah, you know that you have been fucked when you have taken one but that's not all there is. My girlfriend with the big one fucks me once a day and it's one and done. The other girl routinely fucked me several times a day. Her cock was small but she was one helluva fucker!

Your experience is not common.

That about sums it up. Of course there are always outliers.

So, yes. Size matters. Not all of us favor size over technique. But it's there. And it's not mutually exclusive.

 

[Escierto]

Your experience is not common.

So, yes. Size matters. Not all of us favor size over technique. But it's there. And it's not mutually exclusive.

My experience is not common. So you say but who knows? Other people have told me the same thing about big dicks - they tend to lack sexual energy. It bears further research I think.

 

[Typo Fu Master]

My experience is not common. So you say but who knows? Other people have told me the same thing about big dicks - they tend to lack sexual energy. It bears further research I think.

We are individuals. Your Mileage Will Absolutely Vary. I suspect that people with big dicks might assume that, because they have a big dick, they will satisfy their partner.

 

[LauraLO]

Such an interesting thread!!! Think most agree a tiny tiny penis doesn't do it for most women. A tiny to average penis when coupled with the right man is heaven. If that man is confident in himself and sees his partner worthy of that moment together and treats her accordingly then BOOM...he knows the importance of the pre, middle and end game of their togetherness...it's the female's why behind the connection, BUT I have to admit...there are times when a large penis coupled with the right man can be the 4th of July of love making...I do remember fondly those few times...and I do remember all the men (not that there have been thousands hahahaha) who knew what I needed and wanted and delivered so splendidly...and yes, it was reciprocated...least I trust it was. Opinion of one woman, but I know I'm not alone.

 

[ElvieG]

It's not about the size, it's about the quality. Is it straight and nicely proportioned? Is it springy stiff? Most importantly, does he know how to use it?

 

[LMWM321]

What I find so hilarious about this thread is that it's mostly guys who are answering for women (including your's truly).

And why are you torturing yourselves over this "size" issue when there is very little that can done about it apart from expensive (and often deforming) surgery? And why stop at asking just about size? Who knows, maybe women are more concerned with other aspects of its appearance - ie., straight rather than bent shaft, smooth rather than veiny, and a nice head that's in perfect proportion to the shaft, rather than a small pointy one, etc.. Or maybe that it's the same width the entire length rather than shaped like a sweet potato... Come to think of it, DON'T ask these questions because you can't do anything about those things, either!

It's also kinda of interesting that women have said time and again that a big dick can be uncomfortable, yet this doesn't seem to deter guys from wanting one. ..Which means they idealize a dick that causes causes women discomfort during sex. Gee, nothing misogynist or dysfunctional about that, eh?

 

[Typo Fu Master]

It's not about the size, it's about the quality. Is it straight and nicely proportioned? Is it springy stiff? Most importantly, does he know how to use it?

If he's soft, he's just not that into you.

 

[Typo Fu Master]

If he's soft, he's just not that into you.

There are drugs that can mitigate this. Also, I didn't take into consideration that ED is a thing. My bad.

 

[Typo Fu Master]

It's also kinda of interesting that women have said time and again that a big dick can be uncomfortable, yet this doesn't seem to deter guys from wanting one. ..Which means they idealize a dick that causes causes women discomfort during sex. Gee, nothing misogynist or dysfunctional about that, eh?

Men have opinions. Women have opinions. Who's right?