she knows but doesn't understand

[her1fanclub]

I'm bi an my fiance knows but is pretty close minded when it comes to sex between men. I want to show her what she is knocking without seeing how hot two guys can be.

 

[donutLover]

I'm bi an my fiance knows but is pretty close minded when it comes to sex between men. I want to show her what she is knocking without seeing how hot two guys can be.

i know when i had a 3some with and ex and another guy she went wild watching us suck and fuck each other, could you not show her some pics or movies?

 

[klippert]

Don't be to hard on her...give her time. If she is completely confident she isn't second fiddle to your desires...she'll come along. You didn't mention how old she is.
If your making sure she's first on your list of sexual and emotional desire you should be good over time.
funny thing about it... we all have free will...just don't corner her, a corned cat is a dangerous one.

 

[her1fanclub]

Shes 27. I'm not being pushy with her. I'm more wanting her to be open to watching 2 men. Doesn't have to be me. I know it'll make her drip!

 

[klippert]

This is what I mentioned... It's what you want. They have to want it. do you expect her to make you happy or, are you happy being with her.... What i'm getting at. Your desires....and wanting her to do something she isn't comfortable with....might be miles apart... What did she say or do when you told her about your being Bi....

 

[monkeyman057]

Have you considered the possibility that it might be something she'll never be ok with?

I'll echo the previous person who said 'give her time'. Problem is, there's no measuring stick for that. She may come around in a month or in a year or in ten years. Or she may never come around at all.

Good luck.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Have you considered the possibility that it might be something she'll never be ok with?

I'll echo the previous person who said 'give her time'. Problem is, there's no measuring stick for that. She may come around in a month or in a year or in ten years. Or she may never come around at all.

Good luck.

A great many people are monogamous, I would guess she is equating you being bi to the idea that at some point she may noy be enough and you will want more. Be sure what you want before comitting more!

 

[MatthewVett]

I'm bi an my fiance knows but is pretty close minded when it comes to sex between men. I want to show her what she is knocking without seeing how hot two guys can be.

Do you want her to enjoy seeing two men fucking, or do you want her to enjoy *you* fucking another man? Because if the former, I can't imagine it's much of a big deal either way. If the latter, you two really need to have a conversation about this now.