Climaxing During Intercourse

[Xxxmmmxxx47]

Definitely a keeper, nice find!

Thanks, i like to think so

 

[TheUKGent]

After some foreplay, Mrs. Gent does usually orgasm through just penetration alone. She usually has to be quite turned on and, inevitably, her orgasm triggers mine. However, there are times that I have cum and she hasn't, and that just gives me an excuse to go down on her and finish her off.

There are also times that she just wants to fuck and get me off, and won't often orgasm like that. However she knows that means that I 'owe her one' and usually collects on her debt soon after.

 

[hrdmngd2find]

I had a girlfriend who could only climax from my cock inside her. She loved oral, fingering, and all the rest, but she would climax within less than a minute of feeling my cock moving in her, and have nearly continuous orgasms. As I wrote here https://www.literotica.com/s/the-female-orgasm there are huge differences between women. She also loved to suck me off, which didn't make her cum but gave her satisfaction in another way.

This matches my experience. Women vary in this area. Sometimes quite a bit. I would say many, maybe most, women need clitoral with the penetration to get there, but I've experienced many exceptions to that. I know women who told me that their most intense orgasms come from anal penetration.

 

[hrdmngd2find]

I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm.

I have been with (or discussed this with) many women, including my current partner, who are exactly like this. We use vibrators during intercourse. The combination of clitoral stimulation with penetration works well for my partner.

But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm.

I firmly believe it is important not to be too focused on the orgasm. That can definitely turn into a trap that creates subtle (or not so subtle) pressure to cum and the pressure itself is usually self-defeating. Aside from that, I want to enjoy the "scenery" and "smell the roses" during sex, saturate my brain with all the sensations and my partner's erotic beauty. Why hike in the woods if you are just going to move so fast that you don't notice anything?

Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life.

While much of porn is formulaic and unrealistic, and geared toward visual impact primarily, it is also my experience that women vary quite a bit in what gets them there.

I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked.

Sometimes slow is fast and fast is slow.