Climaxing During Intercourse

[Nellie60]

I'm lucky in that I can orgasm through penetration, but it's far from guaranteed even if the guy does everything right.

I need to be in a state of high mental sexual arousal. Yeah,yeah, I know, tonnes of stuff has been written about the importance of foreplay already, but for me, that long mental build-up is probably more important than the physical part of foreplay.

Position wise, missionary, prone bone, or standing positions do it for me. Doggy is enjoyable, but despite it's reputation I rarely orgasm in it. I know a lot of girls struggle with standing positions but for some strange reason there's a 50/50 chance I'll cum.

Alcohol seems to be a common factor. Not proper drunk, just a glass or two in my system. Whether it lowers my inhibitions so I can let go or just relaxes my muscles I don't know.

Can you describe your long mental buildup and sexual arousal?

 

[GoodnessO]

I'm lucky in that I can orgasm through penetration, but it's far from guaranteed even if the guy does everything right.

I need to be in a state of high mental sexual arousal. Yeah,yeah, I know, tonnes of stuff has been written about the importance of foreplay already, but for me, that long mental build-up is probably more important than the physical part of foreplay.

Position wise, missionary, prone bone, or standing positions do it for me. Doggy is enjoyable, but despite it's reputation I rarely orgasm in it. I know a lot of girls struggle with standing positions but for some strange reason there's a 50/50 chance I'll cum.

Alcohol seems to be a common factor. Not proper drunk, just a glass or two in my system. Whether it lowers my inhibitions so I can let go or just relaxes my muscles I don't know.

As far as I know doggy position "reputation" is mostly about male pleasure, & the female submitting with unreliable satisfaction at best. That's not to say I won't engage in it, but my trust for that needs to earned.

 

[hiker283]

As far as I know doggy position "reputation" is mostly about male pleasure, & the female submitting with unreliable satisfaction at best. That's not to say I won't engage in it, but my trust for that needs to earned.

My wife cannot climax when taken from behind and I prefer the face to face feeling.

 

[GoodnessO]

I can climax in other rear entry positions... such as reverse cowgirl, hot seat, & double-decker. Probably also by spooning but its been a while since I've tried that.
But in doggy position, I don't have sufficient mobility to participate fully, & large cocks can be especially dangerous. The guy has to demonstrate that he understands, & cares, what is pleasurble for me, vs. not.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

As far as I know doggy position "reputation" is mostly about male pleasure, & the female submitting with unreliable satisfaction at best. That's not to say I won't engage in it, but my trust for that needs to earned.

One thing we used to find is that I could finger her clit in that position in a way she liked. Joint problems have sadly taken that off the table.
But maybe one reason our marriage has lasted so long is that we figured out how to make intercourse work for her.

 

[andjac]

Absolutely, yes! It didn’t always happen for me, but now it’s pretty regular. Usually, I orgasm first from clitoral stimulation—sometimes multiple! before penetration even starts. But once he’s inside, if he’s deep (missionary, spooning and cowgirl are my favs), I can orgasm from intercourse too.
Honestly, the mental side is huge for me. Feeling really wanted, submissive, and even a little bit of that naughty taboo vibe makes everything so much hotter and more intense.
And when he finishes inside me? That almost always pushes me over the edge instantly.
it’s definitely a mix of mind and body. Embracing that has made sex so much better and orgasms way more powerful!

 

[irishblade]

I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked. Strangley, my ex husband was one of the few men who was able to bring me to my peak with just his cock. Too bad he preferred having cocks inside of him as well and eventually thought sex with me was disgusting. But it was good for the first few years.

Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.

Anyway, what about the experiences of others?

I've made my wife cum from intercourse alone a few times, but not a lot at all. Like you said, usually with a lot of foreplay before hand and her really being in a good mindset, free of stress.

 

[Curious_2]

I can cum when I masturbate and once came from oral. Intercourse, not yet.

Hmmmm-H

 

[GoodnessO]

I recommended to everyone who requires clitoral stimulation for orgasm to include something like this to your bedroom play. Small enough not to embarrass your man like a big vibe might, but when sandwiched between you, will take PIV sex to a whole new level.

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We-Vibe makes a vibe designed for either solo or intercourse with a cock or regular dildo (sorry guys).

 

[GoodnessO]

We-Vibe makes a vibe designed for either solo or intercourse with a cock or regular dildo (sorry guys).

I've only used it solo. But I'd try it with a man, if he doesn't have a large cock.

 

[Sienna62]

Absolutely, yes! It didn’t always happen for me, but now it’s pretty regular. Usually, I orgasm first from clitoral stimulation—sometimes multiple! before penetration even starts. But once he’s inside, if he’s deep (missionary, spooning and cowgirl are my favs), I can orgasm from intercourse too.
Honestly, the mental side is huge for me. Feeling really wanted, submissive, and even a little bit of that naughty taboo vibe makes everything so much hotter and more intense.
And when he finishes inside me? That almost always pushes me over the edge instantly.
it’s definitely a mix of mind and body. Embracing that has made sex so much better and orgasms way more powerful!

Thanks for sharing , lovely to read