Climaxing During Intercourse

I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked. Strangley, my ex husband was one of the few men who was able to bring me to my peak with just his cock. Too bad he preferred having cocks inside of him as well and eventually thought sex with me was disgusting. But it was good for the first few years.

Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.

Anyway, what about the experiences of others?
My husband has been the only man to get me off during sex (the man i call daddy in my posts) sometimes its in the middle but most times its at the end, he throbs, i cum. Its like a pavlovian response for me with him. Never with anyone else.. dont tell him though, his egos big enough ;)
Im not a big announcer of the moment though it just happens and i ride it out and love every second of it, then use a toy to make it happen again right after because thats fun…

He is also the only man to every make me squirt, both with his fingers and cock, i didnt even know i could until him.
I just figured that i found the right person for me because he gets me and turns me on so much
 
If I'm on top and controlling it, then it's much easier to have an orgasm, but not always a guarantee. Otherwise, once in a while & my partner has to put a lot of effort & time, with lots of external stimulation prior to the deed. Also, I could kind of tell from the first minute or so, about my chances of having an orgasm that way. Also, foreplay plays a major factor in achieving that.
 
If I'm on top and controlling it, then it's much easier to have an orgasm, but not always a guarantee. Otherwise, once in a while & my partner has to put a lot of effort & time, with lots of external stimulation prior to the deed. Also, I could kind of tell from the first minute or so, about my chances of having an orgasm that way. Also, foreplay plays a major factor in achieving that.
Love it when the girl is on top. She’s in control and I get to watch and touch all sorts of places. Plus boobs in my face and when she grinds her clit on me… 😈
 
I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked. Strangley, my ex husband was one of the few men who was able to bring me to my peak with just his cock. Too bad he preferred having cocks inside of him as well and eventually thought sex with me was disgusting. But it was good for the first few years.

Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.

Anyway, what about the experiences of others?
I had a girlfriend who could only climax from my cock inside her. She loved oral, fingering, and all the rest, but she would climax within less than a minute of feeling my cock moving in her, and have nearly continuous orgasms. As I wrote here https://www.literotica.com/s/the-female-orgasm there are huge differences between women. She also loved to suck me off, which didn't make her cum but gave her satisfaction in another way.
 
When I’m on top, I will always orgasm if I want to, and as fast or slow as I want because I’m basically controlling everything:)

When I’m not on top, it usually takes longer and usually takes some coaching on the speed and intensity I need, but give it a few minutes and I can usually get there:)
Any position on top? Just as long as you're in control?
 
My wife and I have never had intercourse without her having a vibe on her clit. Before we stopped having sex, it had gotten to the point where she would climax quickly (no doubt from the vibe) and I would not climax at all
 
My husband has been the only man to get me off during sex (the man i call daddy in my posts) sometimes its in the middle but most times its at the end, he throbs, i cum. Its like a pavlovian response for me with him. Never with anyone else.. dont tell him though, his egos big enough ;)
Im not a big announcer of the moment though it just happens and i ride it out and love every second of it, then use a toy to make it happen again right after because thats fun…

He is also the only man to every make me squirt, both with his fingers and cock, i didnt even know i could until him.
I just figured that i found the right person for me because he gets me and turns me on so much
Definitely a keeper, nice find!
 
My wife and I have never had intercourse without her having a vibe on her clit. Before we stopped having sex, it had gotten to the point where she would climax quickly (no doubt from the vibe) and I would not climax at all
Would she cum if you used your hand on her clit intead of s vibe? You would still fuck her until you climax?
 
I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked.
I like how honest your answer is and completely agree with it.
Some women need other stimulation aside from penetration to reach climax.
Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.
I too enjoy intimate moments which can also be deemed hot/dirty/naughty that are satisfying without me actually cumming.
 
After some foreplay, Mrs. Gent does usually orgasm through just penetration alone. She usually has to be quite turned on and, inevitably, her orgasm triggers mine. However, there are times that I have cum and she hasn't, and that just gives me an excuse to go down on her and finish her off.

There are also times that she just wants to fuck and get me off, and won't often orgasm like that. However she knows that means that I 'owe her one' and usually collects on her debt soon after.
 
I had a girlfriend who could only climax from my cock inside her. She loved oral, fingering, and all the rest, but she would climax within less than a minute of feeling my cock moving in her, and have nearly continuous orgasms. As I wrote here https://www.literotica.com/s/the-female-orgasm there are huge differences between women. She also loved to suck me off, which didn't make her cum but gave her satisfaction in another way.
This matches my experience. Women vary in this area. Sometimes quite a bit. I would say many, maybe most, women need clitoral with the penetration to get there, but I've experienced many exceptions to that. I know women who told me that their most intense orgasms come from anal penetration.
 
I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm.
I have been with (or discussed this with) many women, including my current partner, who are exactly like this. We use vibrators during intercourse. The combination of clitoral stimulation with penetration works well for my partner.
But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm.
I firmly believe it is important not to be too focused on the orgasm. That can definitely turn into a trap that creates subtle (or not so subtle) pressure to cum and the pressure itself is usually self-defeating. Aside from that, I want to enjoy the "scenery" and "smell the roses" during sex, saturate my brain with all the sensations and my partner's erotic beauty. Why hike in the woods if you are just going to move so fast that you don't notice anything?
Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life.
While much of porn is formulaic and unrealistic, and geared toward visual impact primarily, it is also my experience that women vary quite a bit in what gets them there.
I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked.
Sometimes slow is fast and fast is slow.
 
I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked. Strangley, my ex husband was one of the few men who was able to bring me to my peak with just his cock. Too bad he preferred having cocks inside of him as well and eventually thought sex with me was disgusting. But it was good for the first few years.

Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.

Anyway, what about the experiences of others?
I had an illicit Saturday morning affair with a delightful woman in Manchester. She insisted I penetrate her and keep still occasionally pumping my cock muscles. Then she would demand I suck her nipples whilst she fingered herself to orgasm. Once she came I could do whatever I pleased. I loved it.
 
I'm lucky in that I can orgasm through penetration, but it's far from guaranteed even if the guy does everything right.

I need to be in a state of high mental sexual arousal. Yeah,yeah, I know, tonnes of stuff has been written about the importance of foreplay already, but for me, that long mental build-up is probably more important than the physical part of foreplay.

Position wise, missionary, prone bone, or standing positions do it for me. Doggy is enjoyable, but despite it's reputation I rarely orgasm in it. I know a lot of girls struggle with standing positions but for some strange reason there's a 50/50 chance I'll cum.

Alcohol seems to be a common factor. Not proper drunk, just a glass or two in my system. Whether it lowers my inhibitions so I can let go or just relaxes my muscles I don't know.
 
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